MikeBiDude

I have a regular good friend of 4+ years, I’m 68 he’s 23. Not a problem. He’s a bit unique (mature) for his age…he’s definitely attracted to older/mature. It does happen!

When I sort through my city (a suburb of Los Angeles) I wish I could filter out providers NOT based in my search zone (i.e. “will travel to”) and only show me providers based in the area I’m searching.

Sometimes there are other factors I wish I could search via Boolean/not to filter out profiles I’m not looking for.

OK, thanks for all the posts.

Moderator warning: Let’s get back on topic to the OP’s original questions.

I thought I’d posted about him before, but searched and didn’t find anything. Any experience or info on Avi?

He appears to be back after a hiatus. Now traveling with his van and dogs. 

3 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I take the opposite approach.  I tell all my escorts/masseurs/hookups to "close the door so my upstairs roommate won't be disturbed", even when I have no roommates in the house.  For my safety, I like having them think someone else is in the house.

I’ve done that before as well…walk past the shut door to guest room and said “don’t worry we won’t bother my roommate”.

14 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

This is sorta becoming a norm for RM.

I'd suggest people don't be shocked when they get this kind of message.

I’m ok with it, and will often purchase a one month non-renewing subscription to get a better look/feel of a provider I’m considering spending time with.

I prefer the very first 2-3 messages via RM messenger, if possible. I don’t waste time, but state my age, overall prefs, location, and request “visit rate”. If things move along I’m happy to switch to phone/text quickly

If things go wrong, my phone number etc. not available to provider if they get upset…which some inexperienced ones do.

22 minutes ago, Kman said:

This should probably be in the spa section…not sure how it gets switched though

I’ll move it…but in the future just report the post to us and mention maybe the post is in the wrong sub-forum.

Edit: @mike carey you beat me to it.

Most businesses I’ve had experience with or consulted with…will tell you that raising prices decreases customer visits/frequency. On the escort side of things (perhaps not masseurs) perhaps the big rates being asked lately is actually slowing down visits/frequency?

15 minutes ago, kingsley88 said:

I've gone to several Arab countries (Egypt, Tunisia, Oman, UAE, Lebanon, Qatar) with another man and even stayed in the same room but to be safe we only stayed in rooms with 2 twin beds.  

I did the two bed thing in Cairo last year. Played in one and slept in the other so they both looked slept in 🤣 When I was casually asked who my friend was I always responded “my nephew”😉

11 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

Enjoying Ripley 1-2 eps a night. Been ages since I saw any form of it. Andrew Scott is mesmerizing. Beautiful cinematography. 

There’s a side of me (dark?) that roots for characters like Ripley to “get away with it”. Similar feelings about The Godfather, its romancing of Mafia crime has me rooting for Vito/Michael Corleone. 

On 4/10/2024 at 1:01 PM, Jamie21 said:

All I’d say is get one where the top doesn’t open unexpectedly in your bag 😱

31 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

The factors for me to choose a lubricant are portability, price and ease of use. People laughed with/at the ones that open in the bag, but that is in fact and issue to consider. Of course, I highly recommend to use water-based lube designed and manufactured for that purpose, except for Crisco for fisting.

I carry my lube (and other accessories)  in Ziploc bags when I travel. Sometimes doubled, i.e. lube in small bag, massage lotions in small bag, both into a big 1 gallon Ziploc.

Still messy *inside* the bag if an accident happens but my luggage/stuff stays out of it.

10 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Still Ripley is GORGEOUSLY shot

+1, I watched the series over a few evenings and enjoyed it a lot.

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2 hours ago, dutchal said:

In one session or three sessions?

3 individual sessions.

10 hours ago, mike carey said:

In LA, have car, see you all tomorrow!

PS. I hate the LAX immigration queue. Over 90 minutes tonight. OK, I'm over it now!!

Ummm, ok but there are some horror visa/immigration stories entering a certain country down under too!! 🤣

Welcome!!

There’s a previous thread about lubes. Lots of good info, including discussing Uberlube which I’ve tried as a top and like it. Easy to cleanup, I think it’s kinda a hybrid water/silicone.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/137532-go-to-lube-product/

17 minutes ago, Lucky said:

I put off tax law until my last semester in law school because I was so sure that I would hate it. To my surprise, I loved it and wished I had started sooner so I could become a tax lawyer. I have done my own taxes ever since.

Now I use programs like Turbo Tax and Taxslayer. With the addition of a small side business, my taxes are harder. Last year I used Taxslayer and didn't seem to have any problem. This year I cannot figure out what they are doing It seems like I am going around in circles. They currently have me owing more than $2000 in federal taxes than I paid last year despite a similar income. I am just lost.

So I come here, where else? Does anyone recommend one of these programs and why? Anyone want to do my taxes for me? I guess I am too old now. Sigh.

@Lucky you can add live help subscription to Turbo Tax…I’m not familiar with Tax Slayer. I don’t use either but have family members who use Turbo Tax.

24 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

Often, when an escort quotes me 300 or 350 an hour, I simply ask, "Would 500 be good for 2 hours then?

This often works for me as well…I call it a “session rate” when discussing with the provider.

On 4/1/2024 at 3:24 PM, MikeBiDude said:

I messaged the two reviewers, let’s wait and see.

And the second reviewer checked in:

“Look like his pic. Highly recommend him. He enjoy being a bottom. Would repeat.”

12 minutes ago, Mistere832 said:

Hey all! 
 

I just met with him today. I don’t hire often but he definitely makes me want to change my mind on that! He was so sweet and caring! We spent a lot of time just talking and cuddling. I do not have enough nice words to say about JoyboyXL and I definitely cannot wait till our next meeting! 

Thanks, and welcome to the forum.

On 4/1/2024 at 3:24 PM, MikeBiDude said:

I messaged the two reviewers, let’s wait and see.

Got one reviewer reply:

“Hey there, I would just add that he is every bit as hot as his pics indicate, and just a really great guy, as well.”

FYI socalmuscleboy quoted me $600 for a visit to me. Sent me about 5 pics, unsent them when I didn’t book 🤷🏻‍♂️

1 hour ago, BeefyDude said:

Hey guys

I have a rate question - no its not about tipping etc

There is someone I want to see whose rate is $200 which is tad high for me, but reviews look good.

He is staying at a hotel with paid parking only and will be on a bed.

Maybe it' me but considering no table and i have to pay for parking - do you think that rate is too high?  Should I ask him for any wiggle room?

Thanks

I don’t think it’s too high…If I wanted to see the guy enough I’d just pay it. Asking for “wiggle room” is a slippery slope.