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    WHO WOULD YOU HIRE?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    If you could hire one former and one current porn actor (star), for an evening, who would you hire?

     

    Former - Sean Cody's "Jamie" a true stud muffin.

    Current - Raging Stallion's Sean Zevran hotter than hot.

    Porn "actor" more appropriate, calling them all porn"stars" irritate me lol.

     

    Past = Kurt Marshall

    Current = Sean Cody "Ryder" (oh wait I have hired him) ;)

    Game of Thrones

    in TV and Streaming services

    Posted

    (Still wiping my tears away from losing Summer). Stop the unnecessary sacrifice of cool looking direwolves!

     

    http://cache.desktopnexus.com/thumbseg/1126/1126354-bigthumbnail.jpg

     

    PS - I'll miss Hodor too. :(

    +1 losing Hodor...was really sad, moving couple minutes. :(

    Grant LA - Fail

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    I actually had an amazing experience with Grant recently, that being said, there should be a place for masseurs to review clients.

     

    I am a masseur as well, and most of the time I do not know who is going to show up. Is the person clean? Is the person going to kill me? lol

     

    Would you want to massage you?

    ask yourself that question and then think about how the masseurs must feel

    when you show up to the door.

     

    If the chemistry is not right, it can end badly for both parties involved. Some clients are not clean, are not friendly, and can easily hide behind their computers, with no photos, no number. Masseurs put themselves out there, and can be victims of bad customers, who are rude, insensitive, and aggressive.

     

    The saying "The customer is always right" is not always the case.

    Always amuses me when posts over 4 years old get resurrected. Makes me question motive as well...

    411 on LA Gent, TommyRae

    in The Deli

    Posted

    That seems an odd disparity between incall/outcall? ($550/300) Last time I questioned an escort about a similar difference, it was due to the fact that "incall" meant the escort rented a hotel room vs. meeting at his own place.

    Is pornstar Rafael Carreras escorting in San Francisco as Cubanísimo?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I agree with MikeBiDude's statement. I've said it myself in the past about another "pornstar" who many think is a was strict top because that's what he mainly did in his vids. Besides the fact, Rafael lists as a versatile/top. He may prefer to top, but he'll bottom.

    For better or worse, I'm not super endowed, maybe even barely average. One plus is, many exclusive "tops" have arrived and after some warm up say "it's ok I'll bottom for you...".

     

    My assumption is they're ok with my size. I also assume it has a lot to do with how I treat and respect them, because it doesn't always happen on the very first visit . But happens often enough...oh and this isn't restricted to porn guys but yeah them too ;)

    Game of Thrones

    in TV and Streaming services

    Posted

    i'm very curious to see hat hbo does next. they really abandoned george r. r. martin's source material last season. does anyone know if they're even using his as yet unpublished "winds of winter"?

    by the way, that handsome man to the left is obviously not me. it's (sadly gone) robb stark, king of the north. so, yeah, i'm a fan.

    "King of the North!" Brought me goosebumps when I read those lines first time in the book. The show did a decent job if the emotion too...

    Game of Thrones

    in TV and Streaming services

    Posted

    GoT is back on 4/24, can't wait! Anybody else excited ?!

    Very excited here!!! Re-binged all previous seasons recently. A friend who was here visiting for Christmas had never seen any of them, so I started him on season one and two. When he left for home, I had to keep watching the rest!!

    "mutual touch"

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    This may be more about legit massage - where no advertising or discussion of "mutual touch"has been discussed - but I thought I'd add to the general direction of the conversation:

     

    My standard MO is the be laying face down, have my hands on the side of the table, cupping around the edge. This just feels most natural for me - very gently gripping around the table's edge. Otherwise my hands feel almost unconformable open palms flat down, or palms flat up.

     

    I must admit i do this for every massage pretty much, even at full on legit spa/hotel/resort places. And even if my hands are under a drape. You can kinda deduce where the masseur is most of the time, and I may ever so gently adjust my hands here and there if i feel it may position them a bit closer to the masseur's crotch. Then it's up to the masseur to drop some hints. Sometimes it's only 10 minutes in and I'm feeling a throbbing bulge directly on my hand. .OK.. .that's a VERY clear message. I've had massages where it never went any further than that. I feel his cock- through his pants, .,rub it, massage it... but he goes no further.. still i like that connection and intimacy (especially as part of a good massage in the first place - it's a small but very nice extra) I;d actually rather be rubbing his dick here and there while he gives a good massage, and have nothing else. than the sitaution where there is NO intimate touch for 55 minutes, then a very perfunctory hand job at the end. .that feels so disconnected and un-nurturing.

     

    Often the crotch-brush-against-the-hand is the first signal form the masseur to hte client that "yes, we can a do a bit more " and most of the time it proceeds to at least a happy ending for me. If the masseur grabs my ass or dick, or whips his dick out, then I feel comfortable reciprocating, and of course backing off if he indicates it's off limits.

     

    It's a bit of a dance. .especially at legit places.. he's kinda cautious about crossing a line, and I'm making sure I'm not being a hands perv of a client. But it's a dance I love and I admit, even someitmes contacting a guy on massagem4m or masseurfinder, I WONT have an explicit converstaion because I want to enjoy the testing of boundaries.

     

    Every now and them a masseur will deftly take my hand and place it next to my body, AWAY from the edge of the table. I may gradually work my hand out to the side again, and if he puts it back next to my body a second time. I interpret that as OK.. message received. Nothing extra at all.. and that's OK

     

    Again, this is for legit places. If a masseur ADVERTISES mutual touch, then i feel you should be comfortable gently and respectfully initiating contact and seeing if it's permitted (some mutual touch MUST be permitted) or if he terminates the contact.

     

    I'd be interested in others' input here.

     

    This would also mirror almost *exactly* my own MO. Especially since I do like good massage, the intimacy of touching nice, and fun beyond the massage is all bonus. I've had the same experiences in "pro/legit" as LADude424 in that regard. Even on a Princess Cruise ship once.

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