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As recommended by everyone, a simple note should suffice if provided with 24 hours or more notice. In cases of less than 24 hours, I would consider negotiating a cancellation fee to be fair.

I hired Drew Dixon this summer past and he was a lot of fun. On film he is mostly a bottom but he topped me and did a great job. I hired another provider to top him at the same session so all were happy. 

What is a dominant passive top? Sounds like an oxymoron to me. 

I’m an old gay man but nothing sad about me. I don’t have sunken eyes and I keep my figure trim by eating right and getting exercise into my weekly routine. 
I also have a life outside my gay world and am associated with several non gay  causes that keep me busy contributing my talents and time. I keep in touch with my family members. 
I haven’t been in a gay bar in ages except for one visit to Campus in Montreal recently. I do go to restaurants which gays frequent but not exclusively. 
The world consists of all sorts of people and I try to expose myself to a wide variety to keep the proper perspective on what it means to be social. 
 
 

That wasn't a statement of facts. It fairly dripped with judgment and a tone of superiority.

I’m an old gay man but nothing sad about me. I don’t have sunken eyes and I keep my figure trim by eating right and getting exercise into my weekly routine. 
I also have a life outside my gay world and am associated with several non gay  causes that keep me busy contributing my talents and time. I keep in touch with my family members. 
I haven’t been in a gay bar in ages except for one visit to Campus in Montreal recently. I do go to restaurants which gays frequent but not exclusively. 
The world consists of all sorts of people and I try to expose myself to a wide variety to keep the proper perspective on what it means to be social. 
 
 

For me, the main sign is that someone looks older than his biological age.  I'm not talking about early hair loss -- some guys start going bald in their twenties.  But if someone's face has lost all youthful appearance and he's supposedly still in his twenties, I assume it's because he's more interested in using drugs than eating and sleeping right.

Die young.

Self care is a real thing.  Start as early as possible.
By the time most people look old, it's too late for them to really fix it.
Our bodies and faces can only shoulder so much abuse.
 

I’m an old gay man but nothing sad about me. I don’t have sunken eyes and I keep my figure trim by eating right and getting exercise into my weekly routine. 
I also have a life outside my gay world and am associated with several non gay  causes that keep me busy contributing my talents and time. I keep in touch with my family members. 
I haven’t been in a gay bar in ages except for one visit to Campus in Montreal recently. I do go to restaurants which gays frequent but not exclusively. 
The world consists of all sorts of people and I try to expose myself to a wide variety to keep the proper perspective on what it means to be social. 
 
 

I’m an old gay man but nothing sad about me. I don’t have sunken eyes and I keep my figure trim by eating right and getting exercise into my weekly routine. 
I also have a life outside my gay world and am associated with several non gay  causes that keep me busy contributing my talents and time. I keep in touch with my family members. 
I haven’t been in a gay bar in ages except for one visit to Campus in Montreal recently. I do go to restaurants which gays frequent but not exclusively. 
The world consists of all sorts of people and I try to expose myself to a wide variety to keep the proper perspective on what it means to be social. 
 
 

I’m an old gay man but nothing sad about me. I don’t have sunken eyes and I keep my figure trim by eating right and getting exercise into my weekly routine. 
I also have a life outside my gay world and am associated with several non gay  causes that keep me busy contributing my talents and time. I keep in touch with my family members. 
I haven’t been in a gay bar in ages except for one visit to Campus in Montreal recently. I do go to restaurants which gays frequent but not exclusively. 
The world consists of all sorts of people and I try to expose myself to a wide variety to keep the proper perspective on what it means to be social. 
 
 

I’m an old gay man but nothing sad about me. I don’t have sunken eyes and I keep my figure trim by eating right and getting exercise into my weekly routine. 
I also have a life outside my gay world and am associated with several non gay  causes that keep me busy contributing my talents and time. I keep in touch with my family members. 
I haven’t been in a gay bar in ages except for one visit to Campus in Montreal recently. I do go to restaurants which gays frequent but not exclusively. 
The world consists of all sorts of people and I try to expose myself to a wide variety to keep the proper perspective on what it means to be social. 
 
 

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Don’t wanna be a sad old gay man?….then don’t be a sad old gay man.
 It really is that simple. Don’t overthink it. 

Stop going to gay bars.

Start now with some good life habits, so you’ll avoid looking bad later.  For ex, hire a personal trainer.  Eat right.  If you’re worried about hair loss, acti now to prevent (further) lass.  Control your alcohol intake.   

Sexy yes.   3500 a day and 9k for the weekend 

Are traveler’s checks still a thing?.

I’ve never paid a provider by cheque (Canadian spelling) but keep my cheque book  handy for large payments. I like to pay my income taxes with one, my municipal taxes and donations to charities when they are in the 4 figures. These latter get tax receipts in exchange. 
Years ago I used my cheques for many payments and every couple of years needed to get a new set of books. Now I expect my current cheques to last the rest of my life since so many payments are either automatically deducted from my bank account or I pay online.

I remember once seeing a celebrity on a talk show say they *always* paid by check because many people wouldn't cash them but keep them as a souvenir.

This is totally confusing. Your said you booked an overnight with him last night and bailed after one hour of mediocre massage (my characterization).
He said his wife was coming so that ended things. Then you suggested another overnight with him. This is  crazy. He at least had the good sense to say he wasn't interested in trying another overnight with you.
 

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heartless and mean, but remind me not to invest in the studio that starts doing that......

It's not that they haven't tried.  It's just that it probably hasn't sold as well.
Guys don't watch porn to see themselves.  They watch it to watch the unattainable.  The fantasy.  
That's what porn is:  A highly unrealistic, hyper-visual, fantasy-driven medium.
This sort of marginalized porn has usually been shoehorned into a fetish category and as much as I'd like to see society evolve, it's not realistic to think it's going to change anytime soon.  
The gay community is mega progressive in regards to our rights, but we heavily inner-discriminate if someone doesn't fit within a classic frame of beauty.