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I'm assuming he sent you pics showing both soft and hard status. If they were all erection pics maybe he was telling the truth.

Now that I think about it, Ernest Hemingway modelled Lady Brett in The Sun Also Rises after a Guinness heiress he knew in Paris in the 1920’s. 

Chalk it up as a lesson.
"Neither a borrower nor a lender be;
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."
- Polonius, Hamlet Scene 1, Act 3

As counterpoint to my original story, I should add that I have given smaller, short-term loans to another provider, which he paid back faithfully. I have also paid off the automobile loans of two different boyfriends and allowed them to repay me in installments with lower interest rates. The success of these exercises may have influenced my attitude in the present case. 

I have relied on the kindness of client-friends many times.  Without my closest client//friends I'd probably be homeless, or have had to resort to a real job (shudder!).  And yes, it could make me feel like a worthless whore to have to ask for help.  At the very least I feel a BIT disappointed in myself.  But Jesus Christ no matter how awkward I feel I continue to thank them, years later.  I'd never ghost someone who helped me just because I feel embarrassed.  Who would.   Someone who isn't doing well. Sucks dude, nice of you to help him.  VERY nice of you to still be concerned.

Throw a rock in Tangier (really most any largish city) and your bound to hit a Guinness heiress. They multiplied like yeast at one point. 😏 

I'm just a bystander in this dislogue but I like the way you have handled yourself on this forum and the respectful way you attempted to respond to the various comments made about you by forum participants. Bravo. 

Just met this handsome stud last night and he was absolutely breath-taking in more ways than one. Pics do him absolutely no justice! He’s my new favorite by far. And I finally experienced my first anal orgasm! Definitely lived up to the hype of all his 5 star reviews. Happy to share more details in DM if you’d like

I am afraid I will disappoint you. If you refer to the bill at Point, I only drunk 3 caipirinhas and the water. The rest of it is drinks I paid for the boys as tips. 

I am amazed you could put back so much alcohol in one evening. I was floored after drinking 3 caipirinhas one afternoon at the Copa palace and never drank more than 2 after that in a single sitting. 

Just to add on, HIV remains rampant and often untreated in Africa. 
PREP, PEP, wrap your Willy, get routine testing, light candles, give alms to the poor. 
The "odds" are NOT in your favor. 

Sorry to hear that! 
I would have make him pay for your services without him spending a penny.
 

151 out of 271 escorts in San Francisco included rimming in their preferences on Rent.men.
193 out of 300+ in West Hollywood included rimming in their ads.
70 out of 102 in Seattle.
And so on. 
Now, I know that just because someone includes an activity under Preferences doesn't mean he will do that activity with every client, but barring the ones that just click everything I think these numbers at least give an indication that a large number of providers are open to rimming, being rimmed, or both.

Rimming is something I enjoy (giving and receiving) and almost always fantasize about when watching porn. I've had a few providers "go there". But I've been reluctant to return the favor. On top of health risks, I have a GI condition, so don't like to mess around with Flagyl or other harsh antibiotics. I did find an amazing homeopathic treatment: oregano oil capsules. You gotta stick with it, for like 12 weeks. But it has worked every time and not knocked out my good gut flora. Check it out.
For me, it seems to be one of those "heat of the moment" decisions. Like when we're in a 69 position. There have been a few guys upon whose asses I did want to feast. Some I did and many I haven't. It's a great piece of foreplay before fucking, when done well. 

Bidetless . . . the cruel harshness of American life. I need a drink, Blanch!

I have always found Antonio Biagio to be extremely hot. Of course I have only seen him in porn flics. It would be interesting to see how he acts in film that did not require him to take off his clothes. 
While I’m on the topic of Biagio, I have never seen him bottom in a porn video. Has anyone ever witnessed that? 

Being ghosted by a provider due to your weight is actually a blessing in disguise. They're saving you time, money, and potentially a negative experience. While I don't have weight concerns myself, I always disclose my age in the first contact. This habit developed after a peculiar experience a few years ago, which surprisingly turned out to be great in the end. But that's a story for another time. If you're mindful about your weight, it's wise to disclose your height/weight upfront. Most providers will appreciate the heads-up and respond positively, while those who don't, it's a clear indicator that they might not be the right fit, saving you valuable time.

If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.

Personally,
Food can be flavorful and have some spiciness, without being so hot that my sense of taste is burned off my tongue…. 
 
I also try my best to avoid extremely spicy food, but not because I don’t like it, but because of my philosophy on spicy food:
If it’s hot going IN, it’s going to be just at HOT coming OUT 🔥🚽

The cynic in me says that on a US Legacy 3 airline I would need to taste test the dressing before taking their word that it was in fact 'spicy'. One hot chilli in the room when they made it, sure, a lot, or actually any heat in the dressing, maybe not! (And as an aside, to me spicy and hot are not the same thing, there are combinations of aromatic spices that flavour foods that aren't in the least bit hot. Of course there are some cuisines where the two go together, Sichuan being one,)

There are plenty of fish in the sea.
 
The Sea:

Woe! HiscRM ad is “cleaned out”!

Cock tease!

you just have to change your definition of 'young' to under 70.

What if something happens to the client?  Like, client gets a stroke while naked in bed?
I just don't want to think about it.