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Often the two people with the most chemistry will start to focus on each other and it’s easy to leave someone out.  There are some tricks to make sure that everyone is getting plenty of attention throughout.  One that I’ve used: I set an interval timer for the gym set to give a soft chime every so often (maybe 90 seconds) and set the “ground rules” every time that my phone chimes, we switch positions.”  It turned out to be a lot of fun and didn’t really feel forced at all.
On another note: I absolutely love trans men.  Please let me know how your experience with cuteblondeboy goes.  I thought that my work was going to take me to New Orleans earlier this year and was really excited that I might be able to meet him.

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

There is no private dance area at Lucky Horseshoe.  If you want a "private" dance, you sit in a bar stool in the open area of the bar and the dancer dances for you right there in his underwear.  The dances usually happen by the back bar where it can be less crowded; but, you might still have a patron sitting in a chair 2 feet away from you at the bar.  The dancer will generally touch your legs and torso; and, he might let you touch his legs and torso as well.  🥳 

Preferential treatment for regulars can come in many forms.
I've definitely had ones who said on first hire they don't do certain things, later offer it when asked nicely during conversation about trying new things or offer it on their own after many visits and they were comfortable with me.
Obviously, some providers may be playing a version of themselves to appeal to your fantasy/provide the type of service they advertise to you. I've seen providers kind of drop their persona/character when they're comfortable with you for when you're not actively in session. Some may see this as unprofessional or breaking the fantasy you hired them for, others may see it as nice social intimacy. So providers who do this around a client probably do so after they've gauged if the client would be into the more natural side of themself or not.
Some providers may feel comfortable enough with you to talk shop with you casually. If i ever ask a provider how their day was, a newer one will usually give me a fairly generic answer but one who I've seen a bunch and who's comfortable with me won't be shy mentioning it was a slow or busy work day (referring to other clients) for example. This is another one some clients may be put off by and others are cool with.
Some providers may grandfather regular clients into same prices while new clients get prices raised for them.
If a provider is a traveling provider. If they are coming to your city, clients who are regulars usually get an early heads up the provider is coming to town so they can get first booking.
The biggest thing is you shouldn't ask for or expect these kind of things from them. These are balls that are in their court to offer you if they feel inclined to do so.

To answer your question directly… yes sone providers treat their regulars differently. They will sometimes make regulars a priority over someone new. I will say this treatment can vary from people to people and overtime. I think good providers will try to treat each encounter with a regular or non regular equally. Although with familiarity a lot of things can change both good and bad.

The good providers, who become regulars, will always try to keep the subsequent encounters engaging. Leave them wanting more, as it were. As you get to know each other some may be more affectionate or willing to try or do things they won’t do normally with new clients. For, example, one of my long standing regulars, I have seen many times more than a decade. We’ve gone on extended trips pretty much yearly since about 2017. Over time his rate for those extended trips have dropped significantly. Some guys will lower their rates or not charge what they typically charge non-regulars for hourly, overnights, etc. This same provider has a fantasy about being tied up. He hasn’t asked anyone else to do it because he doesn’t feel safe with random guys he doesn’t know well. Yet another guy, who has retired from escorting, mentioned that I and another client are the only guys he still sees. In my case, he said he enjoys the times we spend together and our encounters are never work for him.

With that said you do have providers, who once they have you hooked, there can be a diminished return every subsequent meeting. Or maybe if not gradually it may be abrupt after many meetings.
In general, once people get more comfortable with each other, there can be an ease with both of the participants… a relaxing of the rules they set. However, there are no assurances this ease will happen for each provider and client. This same familiarity with a regular may bring a staleness as well. Both parties could get bored with encounters if either don’t strive to keep things fresh or somewhat interesting.
In a nutshell… there are no guarantees a provider will treat a regular any better or worse than a non-regular. In my experience, they do treat their regulars differently… often better one way or another.

I think they fuck you a little bit more energetically.  
Clearly, if an escort knows you and has any professionalism to him, he will know where is push, where to pull, if a bit is a snack or a turn on.  However, once you become a regular regular, I think you do run the risk of being taken for a bit of a given and the efforts may not be as strong.  So if you are thinking about developing a regular thing, watch for waning interest and more perfunctory performances once you have known each other for awkile.  It is a bit like marriage in that regard.  

I just wanted to add it seems to be getting harder with Gen Z because of how tech savvy all of them and their friends are. Before Bel Ami could easily go from town to town, and promise the model “nobody is gonna see this, we don’t distribute in this country.” Then of course OnlyFans has given the power to the models themselves making the studios irrelevant. 
 
Apparently the owner of Bel Ami, Lanning Janosov, has given away ownership shares of the company to long time loyal employees. So even he is starting to see the end is near… 

He was ok, he had a great ass. He was submissive

I don't have a particular thought to add to the $500 price point per se other than my upper reach for one hour is $350. I just simply can't spend more even if the provider is fantastic. The funds don't exist for more. But I would like to briefly address this idea that threads and discussions on pricing are tiresome and should be limited, etc. 

I don't think they are tiresome. In fact, they are 100% core to why this website even exists. The exchange of $$$ is completely what this is all about. Almost all discussion would be rendered moot if you take money off the table. This site is not about no-money-exchange Grindr hookups. So the fact that some members of the forum would like to get a better lay of the land regarding what others pay for an hour in various places and situations is a very natural discussion point to me.

The landscape has changed A WHOLE LOT in just the past two years in regards to pricing. And I just got back on the forum recently. So personally, I find such discussions helpful. What I don't find helpful is people weighing in with sighs and arghs and "here we go again" and such. If topics about pricing ain't your cup of tea, just go get a different drink. No one is forcing you to participate. There are other posts on here. Why should those of us who want to explore price ceilings and affordability feel stifled into silence because you're personally not interested in this topic?

Given the rapid changes in the economy, I find posts about rates helpful in evaluating my hiring expectations and decisions.

I the offense in these matters. We agree on an "eposodic" amount, usually $1,000. Then once we have a date and a location, I ask immediately if they have a PayPal account, and transfer $250. That will give you an email address. THen I send them all the reservations, plane (mine or theirs) hotel etc. This makes them realize that you are ligit and they relax a bit. (There are as many flakes on the Daddy side as on the their side) We play it out, have a great evening/night/morning and I transfer the rest at some point on my phone. Most of these guys are just regular guys that have hit a rough spot, not the con guys you sometimes (not always and not the majority) find on Rent Men.

Seth Sweet was my porn crush. How was he? Did you top or bottom?

If you are going to consider opting out of facial scanning at the airport, you should perhaps consider what it is that you are avoiding. Are you avoiding giving the airline or the authorities your image, or are you avoiding using your image (rather than a paper boarding pass, or your passport or RealID) as a link to a travel or identity record that already has your image on file? If your image is already in their data base, I'm not sure that using an image of your face rather than a piece of paper to confirm that it is you when you pass through one of the hoops at the airport does anything to preserve your privacy. 
And before anyone objects, I totally understand the wish to avoid providing a security state with your private information. Everyone has their own tolerance level for how much information they willingly provide, so I do understand why some would avoid having their image scanned at the airport when they can.

So many happy memories from there when I went on business two or three weekends a year, and stayed at the Millennium in Times Square (1996 - 2005). I loved going in January more than going in the spring or summer, with the cold air and snow falling outside, trekking across the street. I'd first stop at the HoJos downstairs for their 'Clam Roll' (I used to love them as a kid, but all the HoJo's in my state closed) and a  Coke. It was fun spotting the young hunky guys sitting in there and eating, knowing in an hour or so I'd see them naked and erect in front of me. Once they'd get up from the counter or booth and walk by the windows to the entrance next door, I knew it would be 'show time' in 20 - 30 minutes, so I would plan accordingly. You could separate the newbies from the pros on stage by the way the newbies walked out nervously with their cocks bobbing up and down,  trying to stay hard, while the 'pros' walked out quite assuredly and their cocks were practically touching their nipples. 
Rarely did I not find someone attractive enough to go back to my room with. We'd walk back to the hotel in the snowfall, and for me there was something quite erotic and sexy about the experience - walking alongside a tall, strikingly good looking, hunky guy wrapped in his winter coat, bustling through the crowds, and then getting him upstairs to unbutton his coat and see his naked chest underneath, and huge bulge in his sweatpants (if only the crowd of passerby knew). A pleasant visit to my room, indeed, which went by too quick. If I could turn back time...

Male's Show Strippes (@MStrippes) is a Twitter account that features male strippers performing mostly completely nude.  The surprising thing to me in many performances, the strippers engage in sexual acts with each other and with audience members (male and female) while on stage.  I'm guessing this is someplace in Europe.  The dancers and audience look western.  I see some signage in the club that looks like it might be English language.  
Anybody have an idea where these clips are filmed?

https://x.com/TheCockShow1/

Le Raidd - Bar And Shower Show in Paris
https://x.com/RAIDDBAR
 

I know this is an old chat but I assume one factor in Instagram's favor is that you won't be a complete stranger. They get to check out our profiles to see a glimpse into whatever lifestyle is on that app. So you're less of a John and a real person which makes it less scary for interested parties. 

As gorgeous and Godlike that he is:

Oh my gosh your too sweet thank you❤️

The trouble with the best ones is they get too many regulars to handle and take down ads. After a brief stint as my favorite last year Simon Best is currently limited to Europe with several ads out and Adrian Serdar is back "on top" with no ads again thanks to an amazing new 12 pack. 

Pretty close with that body count 🤭 Austin's whorish reputation definitely precedes him and crosses so many spaces in NYC. Austin is notoriously messy and vindictive when he doesn't get his way.   Well according to my buddy, he thought it was just a professional relationship, but then came the content trips and Peachy's weird public lovefest for Austin. Anyways, my buddy use to be friends with Austin's manager(CL), and somehow CL & Austin found out that Peachy escorts in NYC. Anyhow, Austin & Peachy organized the Puerto Vallarta in late November 2023; prior before this, Peachy couldn't enter the US, because his ESTA permit was revoked earlier in the year. However,once the content trip was over, Peachy goes ghost on social media, and then somehow ends up in NYC. He stayed at Austin's infamous apartment for a week, shooting content videos and then hooking up with clients. According CL, it was during this stay, Austin fucked Peachy, prior before that they just messed around. As for legal problems, he was able to come back into the US legally last year, with a work visa through a European modeling agency, which comes with it's own stipulations. If you've noticed, he hasn't done any collaborations in the US since the Austin Drama. As for Peachy's younger brother, i would say he's being introduced to the lifestyle,but seems reluctant to follow in Peachy's foot steps, but time will tell.

yes, theres a whole bunch of unwritten rules, like identify if a customer is a regular for a particular dancer, and then don't try to take their attention away, bc dancers sometimes start fights over that stuff. As far as the club opposing it, it depends on the club. For instance to dance at Silverado, you can get turned away if the bartender working that day doesn't like you, they will make up excuses, then "go in the backroom to talk to the dance manager" and say you cant dance.

That makes sense. I know I've taken advantage of that situation in Montreal. I now prefer Campus and other bars on week nights before the Fri/Sat weekend rush. The dancers are much more chill and you really feel special or like a walking ATM, either way, I have a great time on weeknights. 

I know of at least one club in Portland which requires its dancers to perform at least twice Monday through Thursday in order to be allowed to perform Friday through Sunday.  Some dancers may not even break even on a Monday through Thursday night, so they only show up in order to be able to dance on the weekend.  This rule alone makes it less likely a dancer would switch venues within the same week or weekend.

I am a traveling stripper and will be at stag the week of Jul 8th, I can do full nude, but my experience being at stag was most ppl wanted to see the pole tricks.