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Years ago, I hired an escort on the recommendation of an agency.  When the escort showed up at the door we soon recognized each other as his being a friend of on of my employees.  I had admired his ass-ets and his general appearance and it had been several years since we had seen each other.  When he realized that we knew each other, I asked if he was okay going ahead with it and he said he was if I was.  We met and then met every month or so for many years.  
My advice is to just go for it.  You may have more in common than just a casual passing acquaintance and if you are attracted, then why hesistate?

Poor guy's working hard to pay back those student loans from medical school!
Oh - well, I like my version better!

Anyone taken the plunge in him yet? The vids are hot. 

Lovely derriere!

To answer the OP, it’s VERY important to me.
I’m adventurous in bed, but in reality pretty limited as to what I enjoy. I’m a lazy, selfish top with a dominant streak…and I really love to top. I’ve been lucky enough to date several muscleboy-bottoms over the years.
The first time this happened for me was when I’d arranged a date with a fit athlete who’d bottom. During the date, not before, he told me he couldn't bottom that evening.
Instead, he offered to suck me off and swallow my load.
I enjoyed not having to think of pulling out of his mouth before climax.
He had good oral skills and it was thoroughly relaxing for me to shoot in his mouth. He liked that I’m a heavy cummer and he swallowed it all. 

With several bottom guys, I found that after pounding their butts (and sometimes making them cum) I truly enjoyed kicking back and finishing by letting them orally worship me.
With guys I was dating regularly, I found that invariably they swallowed my loads.

Once at an orgy, I saw bottom-guys competing to swallow various guys’ loads.

I recall dating only one guy (a fit Aussie personal trainer) who didn’t like the taste of cum. He asked me ahead of time whether it was OK if he didn’t swallow, but I could unload in his mouth. I felt that was polite of him and I agreed.
I also recall with great pleasure a blond ‘Abercrombie’ muscleboy I put through university. He was a talented bottom and enjoyed anal play. He surprised me once by asking me not to cum when I topped him. He wanted to suck me off to completion.
That’s when I discovered he found a man unloading in his mouth intensely erotic. As my cum hit the back of his throat, he climaxed without touching himself.
He said he loved the taste of my cum. He not only swallowed my load but also he licked my dick clean.
I found his ability to orgasm hands-free, excited by the taste of my cum, so remarkable that we incorporated in every date afterwards. 
My last observation is that in recent years I’ve noticed that many young guys, when playing bottom, expect to swallow loads.

Hm, I don't know. But I wouldn't have objected to him kissing me so we could share the load.

I've done the same thing. I hired one guy who was absolutely amazing -- beautiful face and body and an amazing kisser. But after he sucked me off he ran to the bathroom and spit out my cum, and it was just such a turn off that I never went back. It's a shame because he was incredibly hot and a really nice guy.

If the provider swallows, I'll get too attached Better for my wallet if he doesn't. 
But like someone else said, if he were to run to the bathroom disgusted,  that would be a turnoff. So much for the BFE

Hm, I don't know. But I wouldn't have objected to him kissing me so we could share the load.

Hm, I don't know. But I wouldn't have objected to him kissing me so we could share the load.

Hm, I don't know. But I wouldn't have objected to him kissing me so we could share the load.

I've done the same thing. I hired one guy who was absolutely amazing -- beautiful face and body and an amazing kisser. But after he sucked me off he ran to the bathroom and spit out my cum, and it was just such a turn off that I never went back. It's a shame because he was incredibly hot and a really nice guy.

Discussing Roth IRA investment options with young men just starting out as strippers

STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 

I don’t consider myself unattractive and I’m able to find hookups without pay often enough. I like escorts because it’s transactional and convenient. That said, there are three things that are absolute dealbreakers for me. Asking for pics and/or stats. I’m the guy who’s paying, that should be enough. Not being reasonably prompt in texting when I’m trying to schedule. And being late. I can’t stand being ignored or being late. Those two are the worst and are enough for me to not give you a second chance.

For personal reasons I don't send face photos even if I'm asked.
In fact, I also prefer to meet providers who don't have face pics. In today's world with AI and facial recognition software, I think it shows some discretion on the part of the provider and I respect that.
Am I the only one who thinks that?

For personal reasons I don't send face photos even if I'm asked.
In fact, I also prefer to meet providers who don't have face pics. In today's world with AI and facial recognition software, I think it shows some discretion on the part of the provider and I respect that.
Am I the only one who thinks that?

I think both kinds of meetups have their place!  I've found real value in getting to know other sex workers.  You have moments where you realize how strange the provider life can be, so it can be really nice to get to meet guys who've had similar experiences. 
The provider/client meetup would be great too.  A chance to get to get to know guys on both sides of the industry in a low pressure environment could be really nice!
The Palm Springs meetup is a terrific ambitious event, and I hope I can make it someday.  But a casual happy hour meetup is a great way to start. 

None of the escorts I'm in touch with ever require this. It (understandably) makes people feel judged. As @DznNYC, they aren't real escorts. I'd suggest looking for providers that are well-reviewed here, or at least have lots of RM reviews.

I ask clients to tell me about themselves, but that is more for ice breaking and so I am aware of what I am getting into. While a photo is appreciated, for me it's never required. That said, it irritates me when I arrive and I am greeted with someone who is 500lbs or has a Santa Claus type beard. Once I arrived and the client was in a wheelchair. Not that I wouldn't see them , but I need to mentally prepare. 
Those that require pics are new to the game, and/or concerned they will not be able to perform. Doesn't mean they are bad providers, it does take time to cultivate the skill and it can initially be quite jarring to be intimate with someone you are not physically attracted to.
snapchat/whatsapp/instagram are good for being able to send disappearing messages but a good quality provider will not ask for pics. A good confident client will send them anyway. 

I'm getting requests for face time, etc., from providers. You can be sure if they want a WhatsApp or SnapChat talk, they're not serious.
I continue to turn down any photo/facetime requests. Some younger providers turn the rest of the hiring process into a joke if you turn down the photos, so I have to cut them down to size and block them. Entitled little brats - if you only want to spend time with attractive people you're in the wrong business.

Agree but in reality many don’t. What happens in cyberspace stays in cyberspace. Forever. 

The distinction is that most providers say they're tops or total tops (or vers, bottoms, etc.) in their profiles. I have seen maybe two or three profiles where the guy is explicit that he doesn't want overweight or older clients. People are objecting to what feels like a bait-and-switch. A "provider" who seems to take all comers and then says, "Send me a photo," so he can accept or reject based on attractiveness. 
I'm in a top/bottom couple. When we're perusing, we're generally looking for top-vers or vers guys. If someone lists themselves as a "total top" (usually meaning they don't give oral, may or may not rim, may not kiss, etc.), we don't even bother. Now, if a provider listed themselves as a "vers top" and then as we're chatting or worse once we meet up, they say "I don't kiss, rim or give head," I'd be furious. 

Not awkward at all.  We were in a meeting together once. At the end of the meeting, he texted me to join him for sex in the bathroom at work.  🥳 

That's happened to me...an escort said he recognized me from work after we were finished with the session. No big deal.
But, thankfully, I haven't accidentally hired my brother yet (he's not my type, anyway).