Decatur Guy

I think Nate_SF is right. This site seems like part of a fading era of the internet. But I did meet Nate_SF more than 10 years ago because of this site, and it was one of my best encounters ever. And I recently met GentJ via this site. So it did and still can work.

When I tell providers about the site, I do warn them that some clients (not many) can be really harsh on here and just to be cautious about that. Just a handful of bad apple clients (and providers, too) can ruin the whole barrel. I still find the experience mostly positive, though.

I think Nate_SF is right. This site seems like part of a fading era of the internet. But I did meet Nate_SF more than 10 years ago because of this site, and it was one of my best encounters ever. And I recently met GentJ via this site. So it did and still can work.

When I tell providers about the site, I do warn them that some clients (not many) can be really harsh on here and just to be cautious about that. Just a handful of bad apple clients (and providers, too) can ruin the whole barrel. I still find the experience mostly positive, though.

Oh man, yes!  A good-looking verbal top who's into getting his ass worshiped... he better be charging at least $300 per hour, I insist. 

Yowza! He's cute handsome too. Although his size might be too much for me!

I definitely have to think twice once someone is quoting more than $300 an hour. Factors that could make me go up: Great chemistry on a get-to-know-you-call. He advertises a fetish I really like (such as a top who enjoys being rimmed). I don't really have physical types, but sometimes someone has a certain look where my interest goes up. And sometimes, my drive is higher and therefore my price tolerance is too. 

I just met with GentJ this evening.BIG THUMBS UP! It was a BFE but some naughty, quietly confident jock thrown in for fun. I found him easy to communicate with over RM messenger and on text. 

I met him a couple of weeks ago and enjoyed the encounter. He's a little on the quiet side but fun once you get going. 

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

There have always been cities that puzzled me for their surprising low number of escorts. New Orleans is another. That is such a hedonistic playground but has relatively few escorts. (At least on RM). Then there are cities that have more than I expected, such as Orlando. 

I have never had free. I had an offer for free once but turned it in down. I do think I have received the "regular client" discount from certain providers, where they may ask $250 vs. $300 for others. I'm not high maintenance, so it's pretty easy $$$ for them. 

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

I have never had free. I had an offer for free once but turned it in down. I do think I have received the "regular client" discount from certain providers, where they may ask $250 vs. $300 for others. I'm not high maintenance, so it's pretty easy $$$ for them. 

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

Interesting topic! As with many of the other people who have replied, I tend to go with regulars over new hires but do both. That's because I also find the first-time hiring process increasingly problematic. But even more, I find the encounters get better around the third meeting onward. 

Of course, providers leave the biz, move out of town or things fizzle, and the only way to find new regulars is to do the first-time thing again. And then sometimes, I just spot someone new who really gets my attention. But I'd say 75% of my hiring is repeat business. 

There have always been cities that puzzled me for their surprising low number of escorts. New Orleans is another. That is such a hedonistic playground but has relatively few escorts. (At least on RM). Then there are cities that have more than I expected, such as Orlando. 

I just got back from a visit to an all-male clothing-optional resort in Florida. I'm a 66 year old man. I invited a 29 year old I met years ago on an app and we have been communicating since.  I told him that he was free to enjoy wearing a speedo or a jock or nudity and to play if he wanted. He has little experience and lacks some confidence.  I told him I want to be the person I wish I had when I was new to gay life. I told him we could play with others, I could watch him play, or he could play on his own.  Our first time visiting a jacuzzi there, he and I kissed and then I sucked him. Apparently, there was a man around my age watching and beating off.  I couldn't see it, but my friend  could and was excited that someone was enjoying being a voyeur. The next day, we returned to the jacuzzi and while relaxing, two other guys joined us. My friend has a perfect uncut dick. One of the guys around us was probably mid 50s and fit looking. The other was probably around 50, full head of grey hair, and kind face. Each of the older guys independently told me they thought my friend was good looking. I told them each that we are friends and it's up to him what he does. After a little lounging, I started to kiss my friend passionately while he sat on the side of the jacuzzi. The grey haired guy started to enthusiastically suck my friend, who seemed to be really enjoying it and fighting cumming to fast.  The other guy tried to touch his ass but had his hand moved to the nipples.  So I was kissing and playing with a nipple, someone was playing with his other nipple, while he was being sucked like a pro. It wasn't long before my friend lost control and came in the mouth of his sucker.  I think a great time was had by all.

I'm relatively new to this game, but I find the hiring process stressful. I've tried to rehire one I was comfortable with, and that would be my standard MO. I don't enjoy working out the logistics and worrying if they are as advertised,  will show up, try and upset me, not like me, etc.  
Maybe some day I'll do this enough to get bored with someone, but I think I'd mix it up with a known provider first 

The physical attributes are 50% of the appeal to me - at most. I definitely respond to a providers' text, how he presents himself and what he seems to be interested in. 

The physical attributes are 50% of the appeal to me - at most. I definitely respond to a providers' text, how he presents himself and what he seems to be interested in. 

The physical attributes are 50% of the appeal to me - at most. I definitely respond to a providers' text, how he presents himself and what he seems to be interested in. 

I just met with GentJ this evening.BIG THUMBS UP! It was a BFE but some naughty, quietly confident jock thrown in for fun. I found him easy to communicate with over RM messenger and on text. 

I just met with GentJ this evening.BIG THUMBS UP! It was a BFE but some naughty, quietly confident jock thrown in for fun. I found him easy to communicate with over RM messenger and on text. 

I'd guess around $4k to $5k a year. I'm cautious financially. I'd likely do $10k a year if I were indulging myself as much as I'd like. 

I'd guess around $4k to $5k a year. I'm cautious financially. I'd likely do $10k a year if I were indulging myself as much as I'd like.