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Mine usually do, and it's funny because it's OK with me if they don't. In fact, sometimes I wish they'd hold off. I've had my fair share of 40-minute one-hour appointments .

No experience, but I find him very appealing.

I live in ATL but have never contacted him. I always kind of figure the porn stars are likely out of my price range so I tend not to even bother them. But you never know until you ask (or do that Europe/VPN thing). But he's a good looking guy for sure.

I feel like this guy would be very comfortable from gentle to rough to in-between. He was in-between with me and did check-ins and such to make sure I was good when he picked up the pace and intensity a notch. I just got a sense he reads his clients well. StephenVersTop - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - StephenVersTop: Young 🔥 passionate 🔥masculine...

Well, honestly I didn't notice PNP in his list of things. I don't pay a whole lot of attention to that list on the side -- mainly I go by the written material from the provider and in our case a productive phone call. He appeared decidedly sober and present with me. He functioned at full capacity, which most PNP dudes can't do. I can't speak to anything other than my experience, which was great. At any rate, he had a short, neat beard and if he had tattoos, I didn't notice. Seemed on the clean-cut end of things to me. I guess we all have varying degrees of what that means to us personally. My definition could be a bit looser. I wish I could just take the post down, frankly. I don't think I conveyed my thoughts very effectively at all, which seems to be an ongoing issue since I rejoined the board and making general enquiries.

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I have numerous "types," but one of them is the "boy-next-door" / "man-next-door" who is rather clean cut. By clean cut, I mean neat beard and a few tattoos at most. No PNP/extreme alternative vibe. There seem to be fewer and fewer of those kinds of guys out there these days. Do you have any suggestions of tops or verse tops of any race/ethnicity or age range (24 or older) who might be worth checking out?

I'm more of a basketball guy, but that's a pretty hot scenario. I have no idea how often something like that could happen -- I'm sure it's not common for a spring training guy to do a side hustle like that, but probably has happened. Let us know if you get a home run.

Are other prospective clients finding it harder and harder to discern from a RM ad if someone is offering: A) Just a massage? B) Just escorting services? C) A combo? Sometimes, it's clear. But other times, I can't tell if I'm supposed to be reading between the lines or not. But in the past year, I'm having more situations where I'm wanting escorting services, not a massage. The ad gives me no indication at all that a massage (erotic or not) is on the table, yet when I reach out, I get quoted massage rates and the person is only offering massage. Now to be clear, some providers do indeed make that clear. Others don't, I'm finding. I realize providers more and more have to be careful about what they post in an ad, especially outside big blue liberal cities on the West Coast and the Northeast. But still, I'm stumbling on more and more situations where I can't discern at all from the ad what's really on the table, so to speak. I kind of wish massage-only providers wouldn't use RM as putting an ad on there just by itself starts to create confusion -- unless the ad is super clear it's just massage. For instance, don't tell me you're a top and show dick pics and in your into's put "spanking" and "oral" and other stuff and then turns out you don't do any of that. Are other prospective clients find the same thing? More and more situations where you can't really tell what the ad is about or you find out after reaching out the services ain't what was listed or you are led to believe? I've just run into two different providers who indicate in their ads they do the full range, but when you contact them, it's just massage.

Yes, I definitely go through periods of low to no interest. Sometimes, it's simply lack of desire, fatigue. Other times, I'm busy and don't really have time or I just want to do something else. And other times, I'm interested but like others noted, prices are way up but I'm not sure the quality is.

He has a great body and ad.

Bumping this to see if anyone has any experiences within the past year with him.

Well, he's scheduled to visit Atlanta at the end of February. I might find out how terrific "HorribleMan" is. His tool is mouthwatering ...

I wonder where that guy came up with the name "HorribleMan." I'll give points for memorability, but still ... (I like his look).

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So many of the providers don't lead with their face, so to speak, for privacy/safety reasons. So it's hard to judge. I found these guys to be very handsome in the face: BoyNxtDoor_Tyler BoyNxtDoor_Tyler - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - BoyNxtDoor_Tyler: Tyler And Evan Bedford EvanBedford - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - EvanBedford: Let's have a good time And Spaniard XL https://rentmen.eu/Spaniard_xl

It's crazy all the workarounds we have to do. And it actually is getting worse. Things were more straightforward in 2010. Also, I had a typo in my item above. I should have typed "withOUT" a VPN ...

Agreed. I'm strictly speaking from the selection of providers. Many more tops than bottoms. Really, I think a strict top could find a bottom for free in this city without a lot of effort! LOL.

There are a lot of providers in Atlanta in quantity. Probably more than ever. And the numbers swell during certain weeks. But what's different than 10 years ago to me are the number of reliable, regular ones who have built a solid reputation. Those numbers have diminished. There is a lot more transience, and I am less prone than I used to be about taking a chance on a newbie or someone with no reviews (though I still do that time to time). If you're looking for a black top with an impressive tool, the city is a goldmine. I'm attracted to black men (among others) and to tops, so Atlanta is a good place in that way for me. I have two regulars currently, and one of them is a black top. The other is Asian/Latino, and I have prospects for a third who is white. In that Atlanta provides some variety and that I like variety, it's also a good fit for me. My problem in regard to the black tops is a good portion of them present themselves poorly in their RM ads (at least to me). They make me feel like they are sketchy. I have no idea if they are trying to give off a certain vibe or "hood" persona for business or if they really are sketchy. But if it's working for some clients, it's having the opposite effect on me. Fortunately, that's not every ad. There are plenty of others who have inviting ads and who feel on the up and up. There are plenty of pickings in that "better ad" basket. If for some reason (just preferential or for other, more troubling reasons) you're not into black men and specifically black tops, your options go down around half. If you are a strict top, the pickings in Atlanta shrink a lot across the spectrum. Not a lot of bottom or bottom versatiles from which to choose. Overall, I'd say the scene is OK-to-good. I've never had a truly bad experience. The worst I've ever had in more than 10 years here is "disappointing." I've hired a variety of guys here -- white or black or Hispanic or Asian or other; ages from mid-20s to 50s; visitors and residents; tops to versatiles; muscular to twink-ish; edgy to BFE -- and I've never had a truly bad experience. I just feel like the churn is so high here and that a good many providers are new, perhaps desperate, won't be sticking around long and just don't know how to market themselves well here.

Hey, a big thank you to providers and others who responded. This makes more sense now. Based on the replies, the biggest culprit in this not working more efficiently is the RM push notification system. More than ever, I'll keep in mind to use this as advanced notice only. If I am truly cranked up for a day-of appointment and it's a provider I've never met, I'll just go to the phone text. Maybe I should get a second phone dedicated just for things like this. ... It's too bad we can't see rates in the US with a VPN workaround and see more explicit details. In many cases on a good ad, that also would circumvent the need to use RM messenger at all.

It sounds like the RM notification feature to providers is the real culprit in all of this based on reading your great response and the others. And I had no idea it was that bad. But like you said in there, I use RM for general introduction and advance situations. If I am really super jazzed up for a day-of appointment, I will go ahead and directly text or call a potential provider I've never met before despite my misgivings about that. Precisely because of the number of times I have not heard back or heard back way too late.

I do sometimes get automated messages with rates when I send that initial RM chat asking for them. And that's very helpful.

I've done it before with no bad results, but I'm somewhat wary about starting things off with a text asking for rates. I'd much rather use RM messenger, and hopefully the provider will look at my profile, my number of reviews and from there figure out I'm a serious prospective client. But there a good number of providers who want all contact to start with texting. I'm getting a better understanding of why now that I'm reading these responses.