Decatur Guy

I can afford it, but I have to limit myself. I don't hire as often as I'd like to. Financial stability is more important.

Not a deal-breaker. In fact, with the right guy, it can be hot to give and not receive.

In the end, it's just another thing you have to ask. I don't mind asking as long at they don't complain about getting so many questions.

I liked his pics and ad.

Bump ... he's in ATL. Any experiences with him in the past 18 months or so?

Good point.

I haven't noticed an increase in Atlanta. We have about the same number as usual. You seeing a bump, holding steady or a decrease in your FIFA city?

He's handsome with that African-American / Filipino mixed heritage.

$300 or $350 is now typical in ATL. So I could definitely see $400 being the norm in NYC.

I like two hours when I can afford it. First, you can spend five or so minutes just talking instead of feeling like you've wasted precious minutes. You could spend five more minutes kissing or massaging. You can just take every step and go more slowly with it. If you plan on anal, let's say, I'd make sure you've had at least 45 minutes or an hour of foreplay. And of course, two hours can leave time for some cuddling, etc. I did two hours recently and the time flew by.

You could get around $180k a year with one client a day for two hours at $600 or two clients at $300 each, working 300 days a year.

One more stab at the bumping.

Bump for any more recent experiences.

I mostly prefer meeting the same four or so providers regularly. But sometimes I like the excitement of a new provider. I'd say it's an 80/20 split.

I find him $300 an hour sexy.

I just sent a message and it worked. I got an auto reply asking me to text instead.

Very sexy profile and pics. I'd love to meet him and take care of his feet and other parts. But $400 or $450 an hour plus deposit is asking for NYC rates in Atlanta and is about $100 an hour and a deposit too much for me. These hot guys are busting my budget.

I'd say about a third of the time, I hire for just oral and rimming. Giving.

He really is the total package!

I think Nate_SF is right. This site seems like part of a fading era of the internet. But I did meet Nate_SF more than 10 years ago because of this site, and it was one of my best encounters ever. And I recently met GentJ via this site. So it did and still can work. When I tell providers about the site, I do warn them that some clients (not many) can be really harsh on here and just to be cautious about that. Just a handful of bad apple clients (and providers, too) can ruin the whole barrel. I still find the experience mostly positive, though.

Good point.

I definitely have to think twice once someone is quoting more than $300 an hour. Factors that could make me go up: Great chemistry on a get-to-know-you-call. He advertises a fetish I really like (such as a top who enjoys being rimmed). I don't really have physical types, but sometimes someone has a certain look where my interest goes up. And sometimes, my drive is higher and therefore my price tolerance is too.

I have never had free. I had an offer for free once but turned it in down. I do think I have received the "regular client" discount from certain providers, where they may ask $250 vs. $300 for others. I'm not high maintenance, so it's pretty easy $$$ for them.

Interesting topic! As with many of the other people who have replied, I tend to go with regulars over new hires but do both. That's because I also find the first-time hiring process increasingly problematic. But even more, I find the encounters get better around the third meeting onward. Of course, providers leave the biz, move out of town or things fizzle, and the only way to find new regulars is to do the first-time thing again. And then sometimes, I just spot someone new who really gets my attention. But I'd say 75% of my hiring is repeat business.

Yes! He's fantastic.