Decatur Guy

I'm a bottom who mostly follows tops in porn. Once in awhile, I'll take a liking to a bottom.

I know that PNP has always been a part of this scene. (Not a part I like, BTW). Is it just me, or has it become a bigger part in the past few years? I can't count the number of profiles I've clicked past on RM recently because not only is PNP listed, but because it's emphasized. I don't remember seeing it as much back when I first started hiring. Am I being more sensitive/aware, or have any of you noticed what seems to be more providers playing PNP up - not just clicking on it as an "Into" but actually taking the time to mention it again in their write-ups? In my case, it's costing them a potential client.

I did an archive search. This is what I wrote at the time: I hired Luke and what I assume what his boyfriend/traveling companion at the time. It was one of my first hires and definitely my first double-hire/threeway-for-pay. I had a great experience, including bending over for Mr. Marcum on a high-rise hotel balcony on a warm Atlanta night. The only reason I didn't write a good review of him was because I wasn't aware of this site yet.

I really like the picture you chose to lead with, and I think one way-back photo and one tongue picture are enough of that. You and another provider you were traveling with once pounded the hayll out of me on a high-rise hotel balcony one summer night in Atlanta more than a decade ago. I still remember it and would get with you again if you're ever in this city.

Can't say I like that mustache style either, but ain't gonna let that ruin what could otherwise be a good experience. I think I might reach out to him and at least find out his rates.

I'd give you a full 60 minutes of just being rimmed. Seriously.

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Anyone had an encounter with him since late 2023?

I'm nearing the end of my third visit with "Stranger in a Strange Land."

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I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate.

I met him a couple of weeks ago and enjoyed the encounter. He's a little on the quiet side but fun once you get going.

I've never had a session where WS was the main focus, but I've definitely had times where we discussed it as something to do at some point during the visit. I won't bring up WS unless it's listed in his profile already. I have a couple of regulars who really enjoy being WS givers, so it's now integrated into the planning. They hydrate ahead and I have plenty of water and/or beer on hand upon arrival. I can't do it unless the provider is well hydrated.

Yes, I like to chat afterward. If nothing else, I like to tell them what I liked about the encounter.

It's definitely not a selling point for me. If I like everything else about the profile and it's just in there one time, I usually let it slide. But if he's giving the finger in other pictures, too, and generally gives a sketchy vibe, I move on. I think some Tops do it because they think it makes them look tough. I think there are better poses to get that "service me vibe" across. For instance, of picture of him in a relaxed manspread while sitting in a chair with an erection and big grin on his face. Give me a couple of those and an easy-going Alpha vibe in the write-up, and I'm likely at least ask your rates.

I'm less likely to hire someone with no anal involved, but there are times, for sure, when I just do oral sessions. And sometimes that's my desire, not the provider's limits.

Red flags: Profiles with just a few pictures and just a few words in the descriptions. Providers asking for a deposit upfront. Profiles with pictures that I recognize from five or 10 years ago. Pro-active complaints about clients. Super vague descriptions. Name changers (I don't mind one name change, but when it becomes a habit).

Just saw this. I met with him once. I wouldn't suggest him if it's your first few times meeting up with a provider with his kind of Dom energy. But if you have even a little experience under your belt and are drawn to his type, you might have a good time. I'd meet with him again, but it didn't work out schedule-wise.

Adding my voice to the chorus of fans of Sherman Maus.

Tom Isern.

I make an exchange after but I show them envelop at the start. I mostly meet with regulars, so it's no issue.

Some of us like to hire guys in their 40s and beyond.

They don't come better than NateSF. Absolutely top tier hire for me. I'm just sorry he's on the other side of the country from me.

I don't have an issue with "upcharges" as long as it doesn't become a long laundry list and I know about them upfront. But I can understand someone charging more for anal either way and more for bottoming than topping. Those are bigger asks, I think.

I'm not necessarily looking for "nice," but I certainly want someone dependable about appointments, discreet about the arrangements and trustworthy no matter how animalistic the encounter might be. A "gentleman in the streets, a devil in the sheets" kind of situation. And if "nice" and "friendly" and "outgoing" are part of that package, so much the better.