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I meet him recently. Class act and lots of fun.

I thought he had quit long before two years ago. It was a memorable encounter.

So I had a somewhat similar experience about 11 years ago. I was in New York and hired Tom Isern for three hours. As part of the plan, he was going to hire a surprise second provider to join us for the last half of the session (with the overage I was to give him). The agreement was I'd give him about a dozen names and he'd get one of those or get back to me if none could do it. But I had no idea which one. So he told me the night before that he got someone. When the time came for the second guy to arrive, to my surprise, Tom handcuffed my hands behind my back and put a blindfold on me. Second guy comes in. I have NO IDEA who is it. On Tom's orders, I start to suck him. This guy's dick is huge and I can't guess who it might be. It was very hot. I stayed blindfolded for at least 40 minutes. Finally, they took the cuffs off and the blindfold off. Second big surprise. It was none of the dudes off my list. In fact, it was a guy I didn't put on the list specifically because I thought his dick was too big! LOL. I had been handling in two directions by then! His name was Jake Havoc -- very nice guy and he and Tom made a great work-a-guy-over team.

I once hired a regular to take me to a colonoscopy and take me back home.

I don't see any reason to tell anyone that. I do usually say something along the lines of: "I realize this a last-minute request and that you're most likely business. But I was wondering if you're free at xx p.m. tonight? I'd love to make an appointment if you happen to still have your calendar open." And most of the time, it's because I found myself without plans and horny. Not a last-minute backout of someone already set up.

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Never been to Hawaii. Bucket list. And so is a session with CR. Much closer to me in NYC.

I had a threeway with them, too, and got food poisoning the night before our late afternoon appointment. I somehow rallied and made it. I had a double penetratingly good time. I'm pretty sure I'd have to cancel today. Ain't the rally-er I used to be.

Do you mind sharing what city you two met in?

That's good to hear. I wasn't able to set up anything on Friday but hoping to over the weekend while he's in town.

Yeah, I'll make do. I'm worried he's too much man for me as it is. I can't handle the well-endowed, strong guys like I once could.

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Eric Manchester was incredibly sexy.

Oh my goodness. Michael Vincenzo is another good one I wish I had met, though I knew him more from his ad than video work.

I didn't realize he died of AIDS. So sad. He was super sexy.

I had a major thing for Jason Branch. I would have paid a "fame tax" for him! Blake Harper was sexy, too.

Did you think he was better in person than in his videos? I did. I don't think his videos captured how dynamic he was. They were a little on the flat side. I hope he's well, too. I wonder if he's still in Peoria, Illinois.

I've only been with a handful providers who were already established porn stars. One who comes to mind is Andrew Justice. To me, he was better in person than on the screen. His videos did not capture, to me, how much fun he was in person. I've also hired Scott DeMarco, and he was really good. He also seemed hotter in person as well. And neither of them charged much of a "fame tax." And in each case, I learned of them first from their escort ad and then later looked up their videos. Then there are a few who I saw pop up later in porn after I hired them. That can be a fun surprise. What I've never done is hire the likes of a Rafael Alancar -- already well-known to me and someone I liked to watch. I'm not against it, but just haven't had the scheduling/money opportunity. Whether I'd hire a major porn star depends on how much of "fame tax" is involved (like I'd consider a $100 fame tax; probably not $200) and just how much I've enjoyed that person's performances. But I've been with enough guys who did both to realize that you can't 100% equate what you get in a video with what you can expect in person.

This is one reason I don't travel to another city for brief appointments. I take what's available where I am and try to develop about four or five regulars. If I'm traveling with this kind of thing in mind, I do it at a place such as New York City where there will be plenty of backups -- and other fun, nonsexual things to do. I've also never traveled exclusively to meet a provider. That person might be a major reason, but not the only one. If I have an open day, I will tell providers with whom I am just booking for an hour that I am flexible on time if they can get another short appointment in that I'm glad to change the time with a couple of hours of notice. As far as I know, I've never been ditched for an overnight. But I also book mostly same-day appointments.

I think for younger folks, time and appointments are more fluid.

I've also found that punctuality is generally less important to providers younger than 30 than those older. Though I must say I've found notable exceptions to both rules. That's yet one more reason I tend to go with guys in their 30s and older; odds are better they'll keep the appointment and be on time. I rarely hire below 25 for a variety of reasons. Punctuality is just one of them.

Contacting me first if you're going to be running late goes a long way with me. I'm much more willing to extend out the time (within limits) if I'm not having to track down the situation.

I usually have them come to me, and I realize there can be traffic issues, parking issues and such. I'll grant more leeway on that depending on the guy. Up to an hour. If I'm in a hotel lobby, I generally will wait about 20 minutes max with no text or contact all. If I'm not hearing anything by then, I'm out. And I'll grant about 20 more minutes if there is an issue. But 40 minutes is pretty much my max. I usually do two confirmations after an appointment is set. So say I make an appointment at noon for a meeting at 9 p.m. Around 6 p.m, I'll confirm I'm still good to meet. Then I'll confirm I'm leaving my place if I go to the provider. If the provider is coming to me, I ask him to let me know when he's on the way. And sometimes, I'll send an "in-progess" text if I'm hitting bad traffic, etc., if I'm traveling. Communication is key. I don't mind waiting for a legit reason. But do not leave me in the dark.