PhileasFogg

Is it specifically a massage you’re looking for? I don’t know this guy but if there’s any other criteria that interests you, let’s discuss in private message if you prefer

Earliest review is 2017 and last one is 2022. Something doesn’t connect for me - “negative, on prep” but no bareback. I’d never judge someone being safe and being honest about it up front, but it is unusual in the current environment

Maybe in some cases — but the real question is what you do when that pivot happens. If someone shifts the boundary in person, you either stay or you leave. Your decision in that moment is the only “proof” that matters.

Isn’t pre screening the hook ups part of avoiding such harsh treatment?

Thank you @MikeBiDude. All good — different opinions make the forum lively, and I’m perfectly fine with the discussion (and observing the rhetorical techniques that some use to deflect from weak arguments) Just to re-center things: I’ve now spent two full weekends with this young man — one in Palm Springs and one in New Orleans — and my time with him has exceeded expectations each visit. We already had a third weekend planned for Palm Springs (in three months), even before this weekend’s awesome reunion He’s been on RM since MAY and (excluding my two) already has NINE 5-star reviews. For anyone assessing what actually matters, these firsthand experiences and consistent ratings speak for themselves.

all true. Look how many different guys there are and we see all the different attractions. BUT, you are casting shade - UNNECESSARILY - to suggest that yours is the only view that matters and casting dispersions through a telescope from a distance. Let it go please or continue proving that there are also different opinions on whether someone has any sense of propriety or not.

appreciate you casting shade on my opinion 🙄 There are a couple of relevant facts, 1) his blond hair is pressed against my face right now and not yours 2) you’re relying on photographic assessment and not reality. And so if you say he’s lying, then you’re saying I am too based on your limited perspective. And now you suggesting he’s not cute…you’re wrong and he’s angelic and adorable too You’ve made your opinion clear. Thank you. I disagree and suggest I’m in a better position to draw a conclusion than you. So, can you let it go please? edited to add. As of this morning he had many more positive reviews than most RM guys. I guess that refutes your lying assertion, right?

Last night was a complete blast as CuteBlondBoy and I were joined by FTM_AngelGabe for some fun and dinner. It was a night of “firsts” for each of us. I have to say that this young addition to my weekend with CuteBlondBoy was smart, witty, sensual, energetic and exceeded both our expectations. It won’t be my last visit with Gabe who is a recent addition to the New Orleans scene. i can’t think of a better introduction to the FTM experience than Gabe! Ftm_angelgabe - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New Orleans, LA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New Orleans, LA - Ftm_angelgabe: Horny intellectual (trans man)

Are we refocusing this thread on hair color again??

Message him on RM and the auto reply will give his number. I’ve suggested he change that and he probably will

Haha…I think forum rules prevent me from posting THAT picture 😅

I’d encourage you to consider one other factor - we all talk about cost of living, but we don’t talk much about cost of employment. The upper Atlantic and New England suffer from high taxation, high cost of living, but because soooo many people live there, relative wages may be lower. Pondef options in a low tax state like Knoxville or Chattanooga.

Shared with his permission. This morning in New Orleans!

I completely relate. I suspect with the apps, you kiss 9 frogs to find a prince. But for me, the prince would also be one who saw something cool in you AND might be a FWB. I’m new to the apps. I’ve had 100 or so app “inquiries” (from me or to me) which resulted in five encounters, of which 2 were princes…and I’m neither a spring chicken nor a silver fox (and there are members of this forum who’ve met me and can attest to that 😅) Don’t make it about your appearance. Make it about “the package” including experience, respect, nurture, fun loving etc. Be as fit and energetic as you can be but don’t apologize for what you can’t change. And see it as an excavation where you’re peeling back layers of mud to find a few diamonds

Indeed you do! What’s are you doing on…. 😉 Recently, I’m corresponding with a young man in South America that I’m meeting next month and he didn’t know that US ip addresses couldn’t see the comments. He was about as shocked as you are now learning of their existence

At my age, some things are best left untouched - at least by the surgeon’s scalpel!

For overnights I always arrange a video call in advance to assure we sync

This name has been suggested as an addition to weekend plans I have with another Atlanta twink later this month. . Anyone have info or experience to share? https://rentmen.eu/AshtenSky

He advertises himself as a “thug”. To me, that does connote a certain reservation as to what one should expect as he plays his role….don't know if that contributed to the resulting experience.

We are texting while he’s traveling home. Everything so far seems very straightforward and he seems sweet.

A pimp would be a hard stop for me. It makes me doubt whether or not the escort is working under compulsion and not as a consenting adult.

It’s always hard to reconcile conflicting experiences, but when it comes to disagreements that might be rooted in lack of clarity in communication vs tangible one on one experience as you’ve described, I’m inclined to give the guy a chance. I’ve reached out to him and will let you know how that goes.

BTW…did you notice one of the posted pictures is dated in 2017??

Intuitively, you’re right. And since I hire for overnights and weekends, I always do a call as well. But my experience with RM guys is consistently better than guys on MB In fact, if I see a guy who advertises on both, it kinda signals to me that they’re past their RM prime and trying to take the shot gun approach for exposure

I’ve just arranged to fly him to New Orleans for a weekend! just kidding 😉🤪😅🤣