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Personally, I don’t think modesty should ever be criticized. It should just be accepted. I’ll add that if I were in a locker room full of modest men, then I’d feel a little pervy being the one guy walking around like “hey! Look at me!”

It’s called a “starter dick” for those new to bottoming.

More likely he’s either exhausted or on anti depressants.

I agree with that and I’ve been called a “mean girl” here for advocating that very point in this forum. But this is a repeated occurrence. Now, if the expectation is that he must cum and that takes him off the market for a couple days to insure it happens, I believe it’s the client’s responsibility to pay extra for the forgone income But FTR, my ex wife told me to “cum now” so often that I stopped wanting to have sex. I generally go an hour or more and sex is aerobic exercise for me

Uninformed Perspective: You're agonizing over this because you have a good heart and you don't want to hurt his feelings. But perpetuating your own dissatisfaction is not the solution and he's a professional and should know how to process rejection. I will offer this thought - the fact that he put the issue back on you saying that your constructive feedback is "off putting" really doesn't sit well with me. It's not a professional response. Just my additional 2 cents since, although I think you know what to do now with everyone's feedback, I suspect you're still feeling like a heel and shouldn't.

Just be honest with him and lay it out like you did in the last paragraph - time for a break, if you're in town - let you know, but other than that - you're needing something more. As I'm generally a weekend scheduler, I know that each planned encounter costs a small fortune with planes, hotels, etc. There are other guys you can fly in.

I'm OK with sloppy seconds

Cuteblondeboy is in LA. We’ve met twice and have a third trip on schedule in Feb to Palm Springs. He’s awesome! AngelGabe is the TransMan and in NOLA. We have our second meeting planned this weekend. He is well educated and worldly with an edge of sarcastic humor that matches my own. Looking forward to our Friday meeting. 🕺🏼

I’ve arranged 4 threesome’s in recent months. Most notable being recent experiences with cuteblondeboy/FTM_AngelGabe and last weekend with Roman_Speers/AshtenSky. I once had a regular indicate he’d prefer not to participate in a threesome His reason was that, whereas in an orgy he could tap out if he needed a break, in a threesome he felt he needed to stay engaged. Silly me, I never considered that But, while in my 60’s, my catholic school upbringing has still left me somewhat naive in certain things. So, I’m curious - should a threesome be a completely “go with the flow” exercise, or are there certain techniques/routines that keep everyone engaged and satisfied? Please share your favorite examples if you have any.

Oh yeah…and NObody calls me “Daddy” except my kids

Punctuation and complete sentences 👍🏼 Transit confirmation 👍🏼

He’s very bright and articulate

Well, I am in Atlanta for a weekend with Roman Speers (my second one) and we invited Ashten to join us for the evening last night. I’m still floating…they are both super sweet guys, incredibly sensual with the flexibility of slender youth. Definitely both keepers and they tag teamed well unfortunately, Ashten is taking a break from RM for a bit, so I’m pleased that we were able to connect to make the evening work. Roman is super sweet with golden brown eyes that just suck you in to Latin sensuality. AshtenSky - Male Escort, Gay massage - Atlanta | Rent.Men RENT.MEN AshtenSky Gay Escort in Atlanta, Georgia, available for Modeling,Available for videos. |... Roman_speers - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Atlanta, GA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Atlanta, GA - Roman_speers: Roman Speers

I wanna party with you!

kspa, hmmm, Kansas Schloastic Press Association? 🤓

No drugs has quickly gone to one of my main requirements. since you’re looking for good cities, I wonder if there is a list of cities that are more likely to have PNP or not. But that might be a topic for another thread.

To be fair, the counterpoint to enjoyment might warrant “combat pay” in which case I would expect that the base price would be increased for the second visit….tip or no tip

I corresponded with a provider the other day that didn’t renew RM. he basically said it was because of the complete lack of respect from clients who treated him like crap and acted as though they owned his time and his body

They get an inquiry saying just “hey” or “I wanna fuck!” Or “Can you come over now”

You're completely right. In my experience, I wouldn't have progressed to that point until I think mutual trust was established.

I understand completely and feel the same way. But would you, for instance, go the extra step of arranging a video call?

I know a lot of members here have a firm rule: no face pics, no hire. We all have our boundaries, and most of us have them for perfectly valid reasons. But in the last few weeks, I’ve had two extraordinary experiences with providers whose profiles don’t show their faces — encounters that never would have happened if I followed that rule. One was just this past weekend in New Orleans with SamRockdale. @SamRockdale is an exceptional young man whose personality, grounding, and connection far exceeded what any picture could convey. (His 7 five-star reviews speak for themselves.) The other was last month in Iceland with someone - nameless - who prefers to keep a low profile but has built an incredibly strong reputation with over 60 five-star reviews. Because I tend to advocate for providers’ perspectives in these debates and their rights to be respected, I’m genuinely curious why some clients maintain such a strict - and risky to the provider - requirement. There are other ways to “meet” someone — video chats, voice calls, verification through reviews or references — that still respect a provider’s desire for privacy and do not require a face pic on an uncontrolled public forum. In today’s world, privacy isn’t just reasonable; it’s necessary. These guys already give a lot of themselves in this line of work. To me, the choice not to reveal their face often signals that they have meaningful lives outside this space — careers, families, social networks — which can actually make them more grounded, well-rounded, and appealing companions. So I’m honestly interested: what drives the “no face pic” rule for those of you who hold to it? What risks or concerns outweigh the potential of meeting someone great or seeing their face in a different way?

If I recall, nurses draw the blood based on Doctor’s orders only In similar situation, I asked the nurse to draw the extra blood in advance of the Dr’s orders At the same time, I was in the web portal sending the Dr a text telling him I wanted to add my STD tests to the list I now simply plan in advance using the web portal

I frequently receive feedback about the thoughtfulness of my initial inquiry. It says who I am, physical/health characteristics, what I’m inquiring about, what I like, etc. I hear story after story of providers receiving inquiries like it’s a dating app Often the response is a reflection of the effort put in to the inquiry.

He wants you baaaaad