Nightowl

And when you ask them, the answer is vague.

It’s been suggested before but it never happens. It would ruin the mystery about all the guys on the site if people actually saw what we looked like.

That third leg is pretty impressive!

I wonder how many guys who call themselves “vers” actually bottom. I would imagine it’s a designation used to draw in as many prospective clients as possible.

I have no problem in general with providers contacting me. A note of thanks following a session is great. Likewise, with providers I’ve seen before, I welcome texts at any time provided they’re discreet. Because of my personal situation, I don’t want to receive a text while I’m at the family dinner table that says “Enjoyed fucking you last week. I’ve got an opening next week if you’re available.” A provider reaching out to say he’s available, however, is nice, especially when we both know the rapport and chemistry are good. I’m less enthused about messages on RM and RMass that are vague or just say “hi.” If a provider wants to reach out via message on those fora and tell me why I should hire him, I’ll listen.

Love the use of the “model” in the context of OF (and JFF). Never understood why you aren’t just called “performers.” Must have something to do with professional actors’ unions….

I think his cock is looking out the window.

Depends on what he says when he contacts you. The fact that he didn’t throw away your contact information after you saw him is a good sign. I’d probably respond back with “I had a great time. When can we do it again?”

I usually fold the bills for the flat fee together in one pocket with the anticipated tip bills folded together in another pocket. A trip to the bathroom after I get dressed allows me to change the tip amount if necessary.

When you’re on your stomach and all you can see are the guy’s feet through the face cradle, all of the guy’s good looks mean nothing (unless you’re into feet)

Exactly!

I’m not a fan of the totally bare genital look. It may make one’s attributes look bigger without the surrounding forest, but to me it’s off-putting. I prefer a moderately trimmed forest, on myself and the guys I’m with, preferably with a smooth/near-smooth sac…Never had any professional manscaping done myself. I’m not even sure where to find it. The idea of it sounds intriguing…

That’s quite a load to cum from one…lamp.

It’s only an amenity if it’s the provider’s driveway.

The empath in me would want to reach out and see whether he’d like to come back but that would probably freak him out.

I suppose if he were to hire you again you might find out whether he had moved past any of those issues. My first gay experience was later in life and I had all kinds of concerns about what it signified about me, what acts I absolutely would/wouldn’t do, guilt, shame, etc, but I eventually came to accept that part of myself. I hope he comes to terms with whatever issues he has…

Weren’t there any spotlights trained on the bed so that the guy on his back could see the action in the ceiling mirror?

I’ve done that but I usually pull aside the liner too…

I can see the army of prudes in the U.S. mobilizing now to defeat the scourge of naughty bits being exposed to—gasp!—our innocent little children… I completely agree that nudity should be allowed wherever one is comfortable, especially now that I’m older and a little more in control of my erections…

He doesn’t know what he missed. The hottest experiences I’ve had have been when client and provider have their eyes locked as things get heavy. Looking to see what the genitals are doing is great but you can’t beat seeing the reaction in the eyes as things unfold.

One need only read some of the comments on CoM to get a taste of the negative attitude of some clients toward providers.

I eventually learned that there were things in my profile that attracted him, which jives with what you’re saying . Never learned what they were though since he ghosted me after I asked a few questions.

In other words, it’s a sacred dance. I did continue the conversation with the provider and learned that he liked my profile but when I asked him a few questions he stopped responding.

Exactly. If I can’t park, I won’t hire. I always ask prospective hires what the parking situation is. I find that having it in the ad is helpful.

I’m of the same mind. I don’t need the attraction, just the physical desire to pleasure and be pleasured. For me, the mind checks out when the horniness kicks in.