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Side=Not into anal penetration. Not side hustling/sex work.

Yes! I've come to realize I actually enjoy it more than anal. I was recently with a guy where we both came this way. We were both oiled up and he was on top of me. As he was thrusting against my torso, the friction from his torso was stimulating me at the same time. I love this because it provides direct cock stimulation while maximizing skin to skin contact. I clasped my hands around him as he thrusted with enough power to rock the bed against the wall. That does so much more for me than getting my hole pounded. I don't really understand why this position isn't more popular among gay/bi men. It provides opportunity for an active and passive role, stimulates both cock simultaneously, and to me provides a higher level of intimacy. And no annoying anal prep. I feel like it should have a name more specific than frottage which seems like more of an umbrella term and also has an antiquated air to it. One downside with this position is that with shaved pubic hair in its 'prickly' phase the experience can be a bit scratchy.

@7829V deserves an award! This profile has always seemed sketchy to me.

Prosecutors are seeking 20 years in prison for the two counts of transportation to engage in prostitution that he was convicted of (10 years per count). Hope y'all aren't Ubering providers from Jersey to Manhattan...

Interesting that he only lists Cupertino for location. That would make his listing invisible for those searching SJ.

Thanks for offering it as an option. Though I think your experience answers the question at the top of this thread... "because not enough clients care."

I've tried to do this many times and WhatsApp always rejects the number. I've also tried doing this with a "premium" Burner number and whatsapp still recognizes it as a VoIP so I'm not sure how to get around this.

I'm actually pretty meticulous about only contacting vetted providers. I've only ever made one exception, and that provider has since received positive reviews here.

What info did they ask for?

I haven't hired much. And yet I still got a solicitation from a WOMAN (yes, the horror) whom I've of course never met on my burner number. So there must be some way for providers to sell or share info.

Yeah, I still don't understand why Signal isn't more popular. Like you @Alabastrine I like that it keeps my real number private. I haven't figured out a way to use WhatsApp with a burner number so that's off the table for now. It's incredibly easy to obtain someone's real name if you have their actual phone number. And many of us have legitimate needs to protect our identity and privacy. Hey, if Signal's good enough for... err, nevermind, no politics...

Does anyone know which countries/major cities in Asia allow or prohibit hotel visitors? For planning outcalls or just for Grindr hookups. I've read conflicting info about this. I'm planning a trip to Tokyo and from what I've read this can be an issue there. Is that right? I'm also curious about the other major destinations in Asia too. For the most part I prefer to stay in large "4-star" hotels if that makes a difference. Thanks for any advice!

I'd be curious how much alimony he'll get for that year. That alone might be enough to set him up for life. Even without a prenup he probably won't get much else. Oh, and David... call me, handsome 😘. I have a thing for bespectacled men with their name on concert halls 🤩

I'm confused by this. You're not supposed to wait for anything, just push it out. Am I misunderstanding? Are you saying you tried and were unable to expel after taking in the solution? If so that sounds highly unusual. I've never been unable to push liquid out after inserting. It's not like an enema where you wait for the urge. Just push it out right away. I use future method without any issues.

@Gar1eth I mean this respectfully -- reading about this case, it's clear he targeted the doctor as being emotionally vulnerable to take advantage of. It's good that you recognized something wasn't right with your relationship with him and ended it. I think something to take away from this is recognizing the signs of sociopathy so that you can reduce your chances of being targeted in the future by similar men, and also recognizing signs you might be revealing to such men. There's a scary number of people out there who will do whatever they can to gain advantage for themselves if they can do so without consequences, even if that means murder. They have no remorse at all. They are often incredibly charming people and use that quality to cast a spell on others for their own purposes. I cut off communication completely with men once I pick up on such signs.

You're right, we shouldn't just take that post as fact. Sometimes people do indeed have an axe to grind. Wishing you the best. I hope you can get everything sorted out.

It's kind of hard to understand why a guy who has so much potential to be very successful (and an actual history of very positive reviews) would be willing to trash his reputation (and viability on the RM platform) by stealing deposits.

I'm sad to hear this. He was going to be in SF end of this month but that timing didn't work for me. This guy was high on my short list. Hopefully just a temporary absence.

Sorry that happened to you. It's possible the scammer stole those pics from IG in the first place so the pictured guys may not even be the one/ones who took your money.

It's really surprising that many providers and clients have no idea this site exists. I found it the very first day I even considered hiring and I don't think I would have been comfortable moving forward without it.

I think it's a very real concern. Also, any random person can now do a facial recognition search online which are scarily accurate, from what I've read (for example, finding matches even when sunglasses are worn). Ultimately it's up to the provider to decide what's best for them. I don't hold it against providers who don't provide public face pics but I imagine it might affect business. For me, a body photo along with the profile description is usually enough for me to get a sense of whether I want to get in touch. As a client, why would you prefer no face pics in profiles? Just because you're concerned for their sake?

In that case, probably just asking if there's any areas you want to focus on or spend extra time on. Again, a common question for therapeutic massages. Sorry if I'm being a wet blanket .

In that case, I don't think it's likely that you missed anything. It was probably just a "we're running out of time, any muscles you want me to get before the session's over?" kind of thing.

Also depends on where you found this guy. That's a common question in therapeutic massages. With no other physical cues or obvious suggestive tone of voice, I would not read anything sexual into it.