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I'd be curious how much alimony he'll get for that year. That alone might be enough to set him up for life. Even without a prenup he probably won't get much else. Oh, and David... call me, handsome 😘. I have a thing for bespectacled men with their name on concert halls 🤩

Question 1: No. Question 2: Almost always no but maayybee if they broach the subject and you've already met several times and are familiar with each other. It would depend on the dynamics but I'd of course always lean toward not discussing politics or religion. Would I chose not to hire someone based on their beliefs? Mostly no, but maybe if their beliefs are so whacky that I question their general sanity and how that might apply to my safety. Just voting for "the other side" wouldn't fit within that. It's an inappropriate question from a prospective client and you're wise not to go forward with that. Your response was gracious.

I'm confused by this. You're not supposed to wait for anything, just push it out. Am I misunderstanding? Are you saying you tried and were unable to expel after taking in the solution? If so that sounds highly unusual. I've never been unable to push liquid out after inserting. It's not like an enema where you wait for the urge. Just push it out right away. I use future method without any issues.

@Gar1eth I mean this respectfully -- reading about this case, it's clear he targeted the doctor as being emotionally vulnerable to take advantage of. It's good that you recognized something wasn't right with your relationship with him and ended it. I think something to take away from this is recognizing the signs of sociopathy so that you can reduce your chances of being targeted in the future by similar men, and also recognizing signs you might be revealing to such men. There's a scary number of people out there who will do whatever they can to gain advantage for themselves if they can do so without consequences, even if that means murder. They have no remorse at all. They are often incredibly charming people and use that quality to cast a spell on others for their own purposes. I cut off communication completely with men once I pick up on such signs.

You're right, we shouldn't just take that post as fact. Sometimes people do indeed have an axe to grind. Wishing you the best. I hope you can get everything sorted out.

It's kind of hard to understand why a guy who has so much potential to be very successful (and an actual history of very positive reviews) would be willing to trash his reputation (and viability on the RM platform) by stealing deposits.

I'm sad to hear this. He was going to be in SF end of this month but that timing didn't work for me. This guy was high on my short list. Hopefully just a temporary absence.

Sorry that happened to you. It's possible the scammer stole those pics from IG in the first place so the pictured guys may not even be the one/ones who took your money.

It's really surprising that many providers and clients have no idea this site exists. I found it the very first day I even considered hiring and I don't think I would have been comfortable moving forward without it.

I think it's a very real concern. Also, any random person can now do a facial recognition search online which are scarily accurate, from what I've read (for example, finding matches even when sunglasses are worn). Ultimately it's up to the provider to decide what's best for them. I don't hold it against providers who don't provide public face pics but I imagine it might affect business. For me, a body photo along with the profile description is usually enough for me to get a sense of whether I want to get in touch. As a client, why would you prefer no face pics in profiles? Just because you're concerned for their sake?

In that case, probably just asking if there's any areas you want to focus on or spend extra time on. Again, a common question for therapeutic massages. Sorry if I'm being a wet blanket .

In that case, I don't think it's likely that you missed anything. It was probably just a "we're running out of time, any muscles you want me to get before the session's over?" kind of thing.

Also depends on where you found this guy. That's a common question in therapeutic massages. With no other physical cues or obvious suggestive tone of voice, I would not read anything sexual into it.

Since this got randomly bumped, I'll add a couple updates: 1 - It turned out to be a moot concern because he moved to the east coast not long after I posted this. 2 - I also realize this wasn't really a big deal (as another poster wrote). I did the right thing for me by not moving forward but... meh. I'm less paranoid about complete privacy as I used to be.

I'd love to hear more of your stories @haring222. That was an entertaining read.

That's really intriguing @Whippoorwill. I wouldn't be surprised if that's part of the problem for me too. I want to thank @56harrisond for introducing me to the world of lip masks. I haven't tried Laneige yet, but I tried one called Jouer which is definitely helping.

I've tried scheduling with Garik but found communication to be challenging. The first time he responded to me after 36 hours, and unfortunately the timing didn't work out. The second time I tried I got no response. I wish I knew what the issue was as I saw he was active online throughout 🫤.

I asked this question because I have a good friend who I thought was straight but has been dropping hints with me that he might be bi, while also dropping hints that he might want to play. I value my friendship with him too much just to risk it with a fwb situation. But I would consider a LTR with him and he's one of only a few people I've ever met who I could say that about. It's easier to compartmentalize those feelings with a straight guy but it opens a can of worms if he's bi. He's also hot af. So I was just curious how common a successful gay/bi ltr might be in general since I've never actually seen it.

The only examples I've seen of this in my life have actually been gay men who were married to women but who were deeply closeted (like Mormons). Having been married to a woman doesn't necessarily denote bisexuality which is kind of confusing. That may be a debate among some but I consider sexual orientation to be based solely on intrinsic attraction and not on behavior, which introduces a lot of potential confounding factors. E.g., gay-for-pay guys are not actually gay. Charlie, that's great to hear you are all a big family now!

Has anyone ever seen a successful example of this -- a long term, committed relationship between a gay man and a bi man? (even if it's an open relationship) I know it might seem like a silly question but I'm genuinely curious. I don't have any examples of this in my own life. What I hear most from gay men about this is that bi men will tend not to choose a man as a romantic partner due to social and family goals/pressures. But I also know bisexuality is a spectrum with many preferring guys over women, but even then that preference may be purely sexual and not romantic. So I'm curious if any of you have seen this play out in real life and what your experiences are. Just want to add that I love bi men and don't mean for this to be disrespectful in any way.

Has anyone noticed a fair number of Latino providers "dropping out" in the past couple months? Of course it's impossible to say whether it's just normal attrition. I was especially sad to see that a well-reviewed Mexican masseur in PS I had been planning on seeing soon had an expired Rentmasseur page, which was deleted a month later.

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Hmm, international number. Not a good sign. I'll assume this is fake.

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Just kidding. Leave it to Simon to be the consummate professional.