silken_mist

I definitely need Oral... I'm not getting all dolled up for nothing... 

I definitely need Oral... I'm not getting all dolled up for nothing... 

I definitely need Oral... I'm not getting all dolled up for nothing... 

Howdy. So I am interested in some sort of fetish play with pantyhose with other men. 
I've been to 'dungeons' in NYC and have got my fill of wearing pantyhose for mistresses and it's super hot. 
Also have been to a handful of different foot fetish parties / 'underground' strip clubs (right term?) as well and that has worked out well...
 
That said, I am not wanting 'to explain' every time so to speak. Looking for some sort of meetup in NYC where pantyhose / nylons  is a the primary shared interest.
I was thinking maybe NYjacks (never been to any circle jerk / group j.o yet) but I don't wan't to 'be an exception' (does that make sense?).
 
Hope that made sense....Thoughts welcomed 
 
 
 
 

I definitely need Oral... I'm not getting all dolled up for nothing... 

I definitely need Oral... I'm not getting all dolled up for nothing... 

They happen in all human activities commercial, personal, etc. but they're highly annoying when they happen to providers because they are the product. 
Regret Cold feet. Got someone closer, better, cheaper? Prank The guy is a loser and can't afford hiring...   

Interesting. I reckon I’ve pre cum just about every day of my post teen life! I wonder what the medical reason is for it and what it might link to. Hopefully it equals a long life… or maybe I’m just horny?

I hate this new STR skyscraper model.

I would worry about this more from a problematic "provider" than the AirBnB host.

I don't think I'm the first consumer to hit on a masseur online, one whose photos and description imply more than a massage is possible. No? Then either online have been rebuffed by an 'offended' provider. Or found out during the massage that the suggestion that more than a massage was an option was just a tease? I have my stable of providers who started as massage therapist and as escorts. All sweet guys. Very fluid and go with the flow types. 

I love Different Colors.... Looks like he's in green tights.. 

I am mindful and respectful to people, period. Yes, especially now, rudeness and nastiness seem to be the way of living for many people, including providers and clients. I agree that it is a give an take in the interpersonal too. Even in my bad experiences I've remained calm and collected, and have ended a session politely. When things don't work out, they just don't work out. Getting or giving attitude about it doesn't do anything if making things unsavory when they don't need to be.
When some of the logistics don't work out, patience.
 

Not sure this is the right location for this. Kindness. Simple but often absent. A give and take. Maybe the provider has to cancel last second. Or the client has to do the same. Or if the meeting occurs there is an understanding if one or the other has a performance issue, a cleanliness issue, an expectations issue, etc. that the two can kindly extend to  each other understanding and respect. And so on. Personally have experienced a dramatic decrease in kindness with potential providers in the last year. But fortunately have a stable of stable kind men/boys I can depend on. Give and take. Thoughts?

My local Walgreens stocks Elbow Grease Lube!! I didn’t know whether to take offense and raise hell with the Manager or to stock up.

It keeps beautifully in the fridge.

HuffPost today profiles a company that makes and sells lube and sex toys, which they then market at Target, Walmart, and Amazon. I have never seen them at the first two stores. They seem very gay aware.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/cake-wellness-sex-toys_l_63618dace4b045895a9760c8

I’m a pre cummer. The minute my cock gets hard it is usually followed by pre cum. Most providers don’t care but I’ve notice a few won’t suck me off. Mostly young guys. Some of course find it hot. Providers - what are your thoughts?

Exactly.... No Ty... I had one Ask me For A full body pic... 

Was wondering how many of you have a fetish for tights... Like nylon running tights (i.e. Nike, UnderArmour, etc), and shirts... It's my big fetish and turn on, seeing a bulge in these tights makes you want to lick the guy from toe to head... Sometimes I request an escort to wear that, as my fetish request. And then also into sexy underwear and jockstraps...just immediately want to start licking that bulge, making it really nice and wet. Also love those really thin no show liner socks that you wear with loafers, or long dress sheer socks. And then lick the feet of the guy and making the material all nice and wet.
 
Anyone else into his? Anything that's athletic gear? Any comments or suggestions? Can't wait to hear some responses and ideas.

Exactly.... No Ty... I had one Ask me For A full body pic... 

Being a fitness influencer vs an escort or masseur are two completely different things with very different needs. One has a predominate focus on social media marketing while the others are not. You would probably want to also present ideas on what you're planning on offering rather than just  saying that you will give general help as that doesn't say much.

Light touch can be very arousing .....

is "effleurage" the word you're looking for? A strictly-therapeutic massage therapist I saw many years ago used to do light almost tickling touches on my belly & almost going down to my nethers. It'd get me hard as a rock, he had to notice, but it never went further than that. 

Generally, my response is "no, thank you."  And it's a deal breaker for me if it's a requirement. 

Both!
I've met escorts who retired with nothing saved while I know others who bought a home, helped their families, etc.