BaronArtz

I am in NYC and seriously tempted to hire him by the end of this month.
As I understand it, the rates are:
300 just to show up and spend an hour with you
500 nudity, foreplay, oral
1,000 fully interactive sex
My hunch is that the rates and services may change a bit depending on which city he is in, how busy he is and on how the vibe with the client is.
 

Several of my favs retired but continue to see me.  Except one, who married and now has 2 kids.  It is always good to have several favs, not just one.  
But yes, I understand that it can be annoying if several retire at the same time.

Several of my favs retired but continue to see me.  Except one, who married and now has 2 kids.  It is always good to have several favs, not just one.  
But yes, I understand that it can be annoying if several retire at the same time.

Can this thread please be retitled 'Dare To Dream...  The Ever-Elusive Escort Operational Upgrade.'

I had an escort tell me he dislikes working with younger, attractive clients.  They expect more and therefore are more work for him.  In his opinion, older clients are easier, expect less and tip better.
There are two (or more) sides to everything,

I think is a generational thing. Until the 1960s the uber majority of men had short hair, and since then we got used to see more men with long hair. I was a teenager in the 70s and sometimes I had longish hair, but it would still look quite odd to me a man with hair to his shoulders. Nonetheless, nail polish of every kind was only for women.
I think it is quite recent that men started to polish their nails. I even tried once myself to get it (no color) during a manicure, but I washed it out immediately when at home, I felt uncomfortable, like I was using eyeliner.
I totally feel that everyone is entitled to choose if doing it or not, but the couple of times that I hired or hooked up with a masculine man (what I like) with colored nail polish (hands or feet) I felt like it was a turn off. 🤷‍♂️

For guys breaking norms (and laws and in many cases marriage oaths) by hiring escorts many of you are — dare I say — awfully narrow minded and judgmental. 
 
@coriolis888that same woman speaking to her husband would have a few choice words to say to her husband about your activities, I imagine, if she only knew. Try and be a little more open minded, I invite you. 

No big deal. Might look good in fact. 

RE: Tipping. 
Both the amounts and the breadth of people to be tipped has increased. Here is one guideline for the US. $1/nite for a hotel maid definitely does not cut it. Say she does 25 rooms in an 8 hr shift. $25 total tip is nothing. 
The Latest Rules Of Tipping: How Much To Tip In 2023 | Bankrate
WWW.BANKRATE.COM If you’re confused about how much to tip your waiter, bartender or barista, Bankrate has the latest guidance.  

Sure,
The Eagle in NYC.
Home - The Eagle NYC (eagle-ny.com)
Management doesn't officially host sex parties but turns a blind eye on the shenanigans on the 1st floor on Friday and Saturday night.  Or is it every night?  

Sure,
The Eagle in NYC.
Home - The Eagle NYC (eagle-ny.com)
Management doesn't officially host sex parties but turns a blind eye on the shenanigans on the 1st floor on Friday and Saturday night.  Or is it every night?  

Back in the day we had Stella’s, the Savoy, Gaiety, Kings, the cock and so many other spots where you could always find action with no drama except maybe the occasional bar fight. That’s not even the tip of the iceberg when you consider how incredible some of the sex parties, back rooms, movie theaters, bathhouses, bookstores booths and tea rooms. I met one championship top in the bathroom at penn station newark. He just stood next to me at the urinal whipped out an uncut dick that hung literally down to his knees. Within a half hour he was balls deep in this and I will never ever forget it either bwahaha
this city- and our culture in general- was much more interesting when we weren’t all normalized into cishetero judeo-christian institutionalized bland complacency and miserable self loathing numbed by chemical, religious, sexual, financial, physiological and egotistical distractions to the point that we are talking about it here rather than out there doing it.
 It was an act of bravery and defiance when we were unapologetically sexual by the very definition of our shared identity and it was so much fun! making eye contact with someone and fucking them five minutes later - it was like a shared secret language that hadn’t yet been co-opted, exploited, gentrified, whitewashed, studied in institutions of higher learning or turned into memes and tropes.
there was a certain level of danger just being in the city back then, and being openly queer meant accepting being under constant threat of discrimination, violence, harassment and abuse in many different forms. But it also meant freedom from fear of being found out, which freed us up to take risks - especially when we were watching so many of our friends die young and often assuming we were next.
I love that younger queer people don’t have to contend with as much of that bigotry anymore but I also feel sad that they won’t ever get to experience that feeling of freedom. At least not in the same way.
I think there are still several spots where things go down and I know there are lots of parties - and if i were younger I’d probably go, but I have what I need and- like clubbing and X, and too much alcohol - I already experienced it when it was at its best and choose to let those be enough

Hi musclestuduws ... I didn't think about it at first but now that you wrote this - I think you are absolutely right.  I met with him this afternoon, at his apartment, not (yet) at The Eagle.  Not only did he give me 2 hours overtime off the clock - naked on his couch, sipping a few gin & tonics - and began to describe the various kinks that he is into.  He clearly wants more than a wham bam transactional experience,  Or maybe he is a great actor ...
In any event, I am enjoying the ride,

Do you want action with the strippers, or with your fellow patrons?  I know a place that gets really WILD on Friday and Saturday nights.

Do you want action with the strippers, or with your fellow patrons?  I know a place that gets really WILD on Friday and Saturday nights.

I had an escort tell me he dislikes working with younger, attractive clients.  They expect more and therefore are more work for him.  In his opinion, older clients are easier, expect less and tip better.
There are two (or more) sides to everything,

I had an escort tell me he dislikes working with younger, attractive clients.  They expect more and therefore are more work for him.  In his opinion, older clients are easier, expect less and tip better.
There are two (or more) sides to everything,

When I sense a provider is nervous, which happens sometimes with newbies, I refer them to the list of multiple positive reviews I have written over the years.  Mostly on rentmasseur.  It shows them that I have done it for a while, with repeat appointments.  It works well for me.
I know from an escort in NYC that Callen-Lorde offers self-help group discussion sessions for escorts.  Think of it as AA meetings for escorts.  It allows them to vent, to network and to share information about problem clients. 

though many here are entirely comfortable hosting even first-timers in their own home and have had no problems ever, I've never done that......only once did I have a provider come to my house - and that was a longtime regular who was passing thru town and I said stop by for coffee (and it was only for coffee, perverts)

This provider politely requested we use condoms during our sessions which is something I was delighted to hear.
I know it is not perfectly 'safe' but that is a discussion for another thread, I would think.

"Very disappointed because he was not careful i was prepared. I enjoyed it but not worth what I got after. It’s a long story and have spoken to others because he was recommended althogug i was told to be cautious and didnt listed -"
 
What does that even mean "he was not careful but I was prepared" - prepared for what?    
You guys are amazing - one mention of a totally vague "I caught something from him" post and everyone goes in for the kill.   No details about what the socalled "Client" caught - covid?  cold?  STD? - and everyone jumps of the bandwagon of "don't see him...he's bad" - but a real client with a recent experience is totally not taken into account.   SAD.

Also interesting that you just joined a week ago and the only post you have is this one - me thinks there is more going on here than meets the eye.

This.  Less than a dozen posts and already a sniper.  That's cause for question.
It also doesn't help that some of these replies sound either drunk or like they were put into a blender and someone hit the 'frappe' button.

Thank you for your message and for expressing your concern,  
A few years ago, I was almost lured into a relationship like that with (now retired) Muscle Stud Boy.  Thankfully, I didn't go through with it - long story.  With this guy, the age difference is not extreme, but it is there - 20 years.  I am not going to be a sugar daddy to anybody,  Those relationships have a limited chance of succeeding,  No, thanks.

Hi musclestuduws ... I didn't think about it at first but now that you wrote this - I think you are absolutely right.  I met with him this afternoon, at his apartment, not (yet) at The Eagle.  Not only did he give me 2 hours overtime off the clock - naked on his couch, sipping a few gin & tonics - and began to describe the various kinks that he is into.  He clearly wants more than a wham bam transactional experience,  Or maybe he is a great actor ...
In any event, I am enjoying the ride,