Bokomaru

Well, my friends that own a bar in Chicago sell them out of these for $10. They have to make a killing and everyone sees it. So…

You’d be surprised how many twinks and twunks I’ve turned into doms, although not hardcore. It’s role play and some have gotten quite good at it. Of course, they love to switch and be a Daddy’s boy from time to time. I’ve never had any issues training them.

If he knows he has to perform, maybe he’d be more careful about booking other clients near the same time. Or perhaps he’d want to make sure his sexual energy wasn’t otherwise spent?

I doubt there will be a site specifically for SM dom providers. For instance, Whosnext (Sir Kirk) in NYC markets as a pro dom  yet has only the usual listings on his linktree: RM, A4A, JFF, Twitter.

It’s so disappointing how few providers specialize in this. The frequency of seeing in RM profiles variations of “I can be very dominant or very loving” is frustrating. I know that they are trying to appeal to a wide audience but part of me screams, “Pick a lane!”

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I doubt there will be a site specifically for SM dom providers. For instance, Whosnext (Sir Kirk) in NYC markets as a pro dom  yet has only the usual listings on his linktree: RM, A4A, JFF, Twitter.

It’s so disappointing how few providers specialize in this. The frequency of seeing in RM profiles variations of “I can be very dominant or very loving” is frustrating. I know that they are trying to appeal to a wide audience but part of me screams, “Pick a lane!”

I think there's a lot of that in general when you're dealing with gay men on meet-up sites. 
I have been  ghosted on Grindr by people who spent an hour telling me how hot I was and how they wanted to submit to me and let me have my way with them. Clearly jerking off at home and with NO intention of actually meeting up.
That component of gay life seems unavoidable. You just have to dig through the bullshit every time you go shopping. Think of it like one of those discount stores where you have to sort through endless rubbish until you find a shirt you like 

Yesterday at Target I sifted through the rack of all the shorts on sale ("30% off!"), but when I finally found a pair I liked, it was the wrong size, so no sale.

I doubt there will be a site specifically for SM dom providers. For instance, Whosnext (Sir Kirk) in NYC markets as a pro dom  yet has only the usual listings on his linktree: RM, A4A, JFF, Twitter.

It’s so disappointing how few providers specialize in this. The frequency of seeing in RM profiles variations of “I can be very dominant or very loving” is frustrating. I know that they are trying to appeal to a wide audience but part of me screams, “Pick a lane!”

thanks for the nudge!..... 
the Mariot ad is pictures of a London-based artist/model.....
and the Massimos ad is pictures of a probable Charlotte-based IGer......
reported to RM, the frauds themselves, and to the real models.....
 

easy, guys, easy!.......  @rustyrex is a longtime, respected forum member and can post what he wants......it's possible "outing" the provider will put rusty at risk for retaliation........a PM to rusty might work if you're trusty (hey, I made a rhyme).......I do agree that posting the city or homebase of the provider might be helpful.......

Private NYC clubs are very different from Hotels. 
Some think they’re stuffy….I think they’re fabulous!
Honestly, I’d be more worried about the "no whores" requirements.

My partner’s is Miss Ann Thrope. And we’ve dubbed his best friend Aunty Social. 

My partner’s is Miss Ann Thrope. And we’ve dubbed his best friend Aunty Social. 

You seem to have an increased risk for GC and disseminated GC in particular.  There are several risk factors which may cause such a predisposition, immunocompromise for example,  IT may also be more common after removal of the spleen.  It may be worth investigating other risk factors rather than just bad luck and bad selection of partners.  

"This one time…at band camp….."
It’s easy. Try it!

Just smile and say, "Sorry, I don't kiss and tell."

as others have mentioned, the formulas have changed due to laws prohibiting certain ingredients. that’s for the legit produced “poppers”
then there’s the counterfeit poppers problem which is where you can question the retailer about source.  
if you think about it - poppers are an easy mark for counterfeiters because consumers don’t really know where they come from and there are no real “brands”.  the retailers just want a product to sell with a big margin & the counterfeits are everywhere 
the fear is who knows what’s in the counterfeit products.  I would be very selective where you buys these products 

Get a new table lamp instead. 
Most likely more reliable….and brighter. 
 
I always find it odd, when someone I couldn’t wait to get rid of 
texts me in follow up about how much fun they had. My first 
though is always "were we on the same date???", followed by,
"Damn, I’m a good actor!"

Save some money and just watch campaign ads in October.  🤭

I’d suspect that the problem isn’t that he can’t afford a collared shirt. That’s an incredibly basic request. Maybe he has plans before or after the suggested time, so it would be very inconvenient for him to change. Is it during Pride weekend?

You could always get a room for a few hours on Dayuse with your friend and then slip back into your navy jacket and tassel loafers to hit the club. Best of both worlds approach?

I was in a club recently that does enforce a collared shirt policy and even worse, has a zero tolerance policy for mobile phones in public areas. Very old school. Exclusive? Well, it’s all relative I suppose. Very exclusive? No. More like traditional old money, boys’ club. But anyway they have rooms that are dirt cheap considering that they overlook Central Park from the south. If that’s the place we are talking about, I’d fully understand the desire not to go to a regular hotel. 

I was in a club recently that does enforce a collared shirt policy and even worse, has a zero tolerance policy for mobile phones in public areas. Very old school. Exclusive? Well, it’s all relative I suppose. Very exclusive? No. More like traditional old money, boys’ club. But anyway they have rooms that are dirt cheap considering that they overlook Central Park from the south. If that’s the place we are talking about, I’d fully understand the desire not to go to a regular hotel.