Bokomaru

Although he tends toward dom-sub interaction, he’s actually really down to earth, so BFE seems very possible. I enjoy the afterglow time with him just as much as the rough and tumble part; it feels intimate.
Engaged, handsome, super masculine, not a clock watcher, reliable. The list goes on and on. (I’ve been seeing him for quite a few years.)

Something tells me (a hunch) that he is totally legit. I remember asking james brando about him. James said he had seen the guy in the gym so he may be all that in his pics.
This is how straight guys start with other guys. Its baby steps. So when he says he needs respect and being treated like a piece of meat is a turn off... yes with new straight guys in the business he means it. I use to have a lot of fun having multiple sessions getting to know guys like this. Treat them with respect, having a nice clean appearance, nice clean house goes miles with these types. 
If you are looking for a quick up front "wham bam thank you ma'am" it's not gonna happen that way. Funny thing is they know how they treat women getting them in the sack yet want nothing to do with being treated that way themselves.
I've had a lot of fun with guys like this doing much more when they are comfortable than you would think. They arent dumb. They just wont jump right in the sack. Vegas Diesel, James Brando more current. Years past Colton, Jason Adonis and quite a few Chicago gogo dancers from the early 2000's come to mind.oh the stories! Lol

What is this "ask him" of which you speak?
In all seriousness, though, I can see why potential clients ask here. Some providers say "yes" to anything and then change their minds.  To me, asking here should be in addition to asking the provider, not instead of doing so.

Oddly, often the guys who charge WAY above average aren't digging the job.  And many of us who do love the work, charge average or below and always have.

Opus 40 is art. It is grand in scale and beautiful to behold. It’s also not that well known outside of NY, so I believe it’s underrated.
 
How bizarre that you feel the need to dismiss it by disparaging groups of people with clearly political statements.

New York
Overrated, Fire Island and the Hamptons. 

Underrated, Opus 40, near Woodstock. Never heard of it? Yea… underrated.
 

Opus 40 is art. It is grand in scale and beautiful to behold. It’s also not that well known outside of NY, so I believe it’s underrated.
 
How bizarre that you feel the need to dismiss it by disparaging groups of people with clearly political statements.

Longtime Companion is one of my favorite movies, in part due to the phenomenal ending. It was heartbreaking at the time considering there was very little hope back then but I remember watching it with tears streaming down my face imagining such a day. 

Critics loved that movie but disparaged the final scene. I say, that scene was the catharsis that we survivors needed, and I don’t give a fk if it was manipulative. I found it profound and heart breaking. 

New York
Overrated, Fire Island and the Hamptons. 

Underrated, Opus 40, near Woodstock. Never heard of it? Yea… underrated.
 

Critics loved that movie but disparaged the final scene. I say, that scene was the catharsis that we survivors needed, and I don’t give a fk if it was manipulative. I found it profound and heart breaking. 

Critics loved that movie but disparaged the final scene. I say, that scene was the catharsis that we survivors needed, and I don’t give a fk if it was manipulative. I found it profound and heart breaking. 

Critics loved that movie but disparaged the final scene. I say, that scene was the catharsis that we survivors needed, and I don’t give a fk if it was manipulative. I found it profound and heart breaking. 

no, they didn't have to camp out overnight for tickets.

37.8% of statistics are made up on the spot.  It's probably the same with reviews.

I am negative and on Prep and I *never* list my status as such. I simply put negative. If I say that I am on prep, many (most) people automatically assume I’m willing to bareback, which is inaccurate. In my experience , saying I’m on prep also tends to attract higher risk people. At least in the hook up world.  I imagine the calculus is quite different for a provider, who has to take business considerations into account. 

I am negative and on Prep and I *never* list my status as such. I simply put negative. If I say that I am on prep, many (most) people automatically assume I’m willing to bareback, which is inaccurate. In my experience , saying I’m on prep also tends to attract higher risk people. At least in the hook up world.  I imagine the calculus is quite different for a provider, who has to take business considerations into account. 

I am negative and on Prep and I *never* list my status as such. I simply put negative. If I say that I am on prep, many (most) people automatically assume I’m willing to bareback, which is inaccurate. In my experience , saying I’m on prep also tends to attract higher risk people. At least in the hook up world.  I imagine the calculus is quite different for a provider, who has to take business considerations into account. 

I am negative and on Prep and I *never* list my status as such. I simply put negative. If I say that I am on prep, many (most) people automatically assume I’m willing to bareback, which is inaccurate. In my experience , saying I’m on prep also tends to attract higher risk people. At least in the hook up world.  I imagine the calculus is quite different for a provider, who has to take business considerations into account. 

The growth will eventually stop.  A penis can't be more than 11 inches... Because then it becomes a foot!

I miss Vin's posts on the forum.  He's always shown a great deal of kindness here.  Hope he is doing well.

"Homesteading"?

Thats a bit cynical. Oprah is a billionaire. She doesn’t need more money, and has explicitly stated that money is not a main motivating factor for her. 
 
Oprah promotes many things. She’s in the business of promoting things. She tries to pick things that she feels can help people. Weight Watchers was an example. Now there’s something new that has helped her and she’s talking about that.
 
By the way in answer to what she has given away, about 20% ($400M)  of her net worth. Can anyone here say that they’ve given away 20% of everything? Gifting to providers doesn’t count.  😂