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    nate_sf got a reaction from + JEC in So there’s this guy…   
    What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
    Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
    Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from + m_writer in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from SlimJim in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from + Just Sayin in So there’s this guy…   
    What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
    Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
    Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in So there’s this guy…   
    What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
    Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
    Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from + Oliver in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf reacted to Tactile Daddy in Rentmasseur's profiles "Online Now" vs. "Available Now" ?   
    If a provider is actively searching for a client at that moment, he will most likely place his status as AVAIL NOW. 
    Not sure why RM includes anyone signed on in the avail now search, but probably because it's worth a shot to inquire. But I'd guess majority will not be available at that moment. Most of us providers will sign on check messages, make changes to profile, or show that potential client that we might be available sometime today or near future if you are flexible. 
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    nate_sf got a reaction from Johnrom in So there’s this guy…   
    What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
    Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
    Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from marylander1940 in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from + Summerson in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from + purplekow in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf reacted to + Cash4Trash in What do escorts do after they leave the profession?   
    But now since all the young ones have daddy issues you'll work forever. 
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    nate_sf got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from youngboldone in Palm Spring meeting Which escorts are attending?   
    I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from thomas in So there’s this guy…   
    What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
    Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
    Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from Simon Suraci in So there’s this guy…   
    What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
    Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
    Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Structuring a multi hour visit   
    On longer sessions there's usually dinner or drinks either before or after. Or as a break in between. Some of my favorite appointments have been where we do a quickie when I arrive, then go out for dinner, then come back for a longer session.
    @Jamie21 has great suggestions as well. Showering together can be a great icebreaker or interlude, as can massage.
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    nate_sf got a reaction from NYXboy in Structuring a multi hour visit   
    On longer sessions there's usually dinner or drinks either before or after. Or as a break in between. Some of my favorite appointments have been where we do a quickie when I arrive, then go out for dinner, then come back for a longer session.
    @Jamie21 has great suggestions as well. Showering together can be a great icebreaker or interlude, as can massage.
  21. Haha
    nate_sf reacted to SirBillybob in Montreal - last minute updates?   
    A close second.

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    nate_sf reacted to + azdr0710 in 1 year as Company of Men   
    I still remember when this @RadioRob guy came out of absolutely nowhere in early 2021 and saved the day!.......hell, many of us were exchanging email addresses and phone numbers in anticipation of the entire website and forum disappearing during the uncertain days after "Daddy"'s death.....
    the website needed a colossal comprehensive update by a willing and capable IT guy and RadioRob was evidently the man for the job.....
    part of that update was a new domain name and, after a spirited round of discussion and voting, we now have COM..........
    thanks to RadioRob and all the moderators for all their work.......

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    nate_sf got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Latino circumcised bottoms - the near impossible find   
    I’d suggest finding a guy you like who says he’s vers, then when you contact him tell him you’d like him to bottom for you. Be direct. That should do the trick. 
    I’m vers, and it’s not unusual for a client to mention whether they want me to bottom, top, or flip. I love all of it, but if he says he wants me to bottom, then that’s what he’ll get, with enthusiasm. I’m sure you can find a sexy guy who will be up for what you have in mind. 
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    nate_sf got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Latino circumcised bottoms - the near impossible find   
    I’d suggest finding a guy you like who says he’s vers, then when you contact him tell him you’d like him to bottom for you. Be direct. That should do the trick. 
    I’m vers, and it’s not unusual for a client to mention whether they want me to bottom, top, or flip. I love all of it, but if he says he wants me to bottom, then that’s what he’ll get, with enthusiasm. I’m sure you can find a sexy guy who will be up for what you have in mind. 
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    nate_sf reacted to Marc in Calif in 411 on MattRyder in San Francisco   
    It's much better to get a room at higher-end hotels by using dayuse.com. You get a room for about four hours with a very reasonable rate.
    Those cheap motels in SOMA are often pretty sleazy day or night. And you can even find some of them on the Bedbug Registry: bedbugregistry.com 🐞
     
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