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Most providers will value a potential regular customer over a one-off.
Thus opening the door to a more natural human interaction, and possibly affection.
Champagne is nice too. 🍾

Unless he's done something to personally spite you, the level of bitterness by some here is odd.
If they aren't for you, move on.  Putting constant negative effort into something just to make yourself feel better is the key trait of the brave keyboard warrior and classic internet troll.
People here have met with Alam and clearly enjoyed their time.

Given the major inconsistencies between their responses to you and @glutes, I think you clearly dodged a bullet, or more to the point, a big disappointment.

This is only my opinion, but it seems only fans has really cut back on the number of adult film stars who are escorts.  It used to be I'd constantly run across notable performers who escorted...now they are all making 10x the money producing model generated content.  Has anyone else noticed this?

It’s definitely cut down on the number of porn providers.  I used to work with a pretty well known performer in porn and we’ve kept in touch as friends and he said most porn performers would prefer creating content vs escorting. Some performers have heavily raised their rates , requiring deposits, etc. and prefer high end big money meetings.  He also said a lot of performers use RentMen for the most part to market themselves and as a platform to connect with other porn content providers to collaborate.  “Available for videos” has a stronger meaning. 
Honestly, I’d do the same if it provided a decent income.  I, too, have been told that alot of escorts get frustrated with rude clients, ongoing messages that lead to no actual sessions - bookings and constant criticism of their rates. 

Moderator’s note: Let’s get back to the subject of this thread, the passing of Adam Rich.

https://www.stadiumpal.com/product/stadium-pal-kit/
 

Saw it a couple days ago.  With a pee break, three-plus hours of great special effects isn't too long for yours truly.  But, sadly, there was no reason for it to be that long.  Many of the special effects were repeated and the storyline would have benefitted from much crisper editing.
I kept thinking of the old wheeze that Cameron made a three-hour movie because he didn't have time to make a two-hour movie.
Even odder, I understand he shot a sequel or two at the same time he shot this one.  One of the actors commented that he watched himself age from fourteen to sixteen during the course of the film.
In fairness, the film has already come close to breaking even, so what do I know?  

In the past I've hired two straight guys.  One was an outstanding experience while the other was a total waste of time.  My success rate with bi and gay guys is much better.    

The outstanding guy was very interactive, take charge and met my criteria for being satisfied (except no kissing).  The waste of time was passive and just wanted to be serviced.  Of course some guys like that but it wasn't what I wanted.
I found both on Rentmen.  If you do a search and list "straight" in the filter for orientation then you can see the options there.

In the past I've hired two straight guys.  One was an outstanding experience while the other was a total waste of time.  My success rate with bi and gay guys is much better.    

In the past I've hired two straight guys.  One was an outstanding experience while the other was a total waste of time.  My success rate with bi and gay guys is much better.    

RM requires a record of some back-and-forth chat via their messenger system in order for a client to leave a review.....some providers who fear a bad review may, therefore, try to avoid communication via the RM messenger.......but not saying this is the only possible reason......
I'm sure some guys just like to chat via more-direct text...... 

I've never done it and only been asked once by a new provider. I showed him the money but didn't hand it over until after our two hour session. It went alright but the lack of trust bugged me a little and I didn't hire him again. 
I am a premium client and providers can see my track record on my profile. I tell them in advance before setting up the appointment 
I generally do reviews on all the positive experiences. The odd negative one I let go.

I have no problem paying up front. I actually think for first/new meetings with clients it can be wise for a provider to ask for payment up front. This is different from asking for a deposit. Just make sure client is dealing with a well reviewed, and established provider. There is not much a provider can do if a client runs away without paying. They can’t call the cops or anything.

If you are just into watching go to a bodybuilding show.  There are lots of hot muscle guys and you can take your fantasies home with you.  For me, look and don't touch would not work.  I can jerk off to a video or a picture or a movie I would not need them in the room.   When they are in the room, I want to touch, smell, lick, see and hear the groans of the flexing and the pleasure that he is having from my doing the other four. . 

"Rain check" means "not now, but later" to me.  If you mean a definite no with his new rates, I would've just said that.

True... though I tend to agree with poolboy as a raincheck is a weasel word. If he indeed wanted to meet up at somepoint again, perhaps offer a few other potential dates that would work. If the rate is an issue, then I would let the escort know.

I’m becoming more interested in “different” experiences and my interaction with this provider has been excellent and I’m probably going to meet them.
https://rentmen.eu/Sexyseattleite

To me age is a number, Rafael looks fantastic and is, as mentioned before adorable and super nice. Rentmen doesn’t update age automatically. As long as the photos are updated and I like what I see, I personally don’t care about age. 

That may be true.
But then 100% straight men don't work as gay escorts.
As I stated here previously. That's all marketing, not fact.
Human sexuality is a spectrum ( like Asperger's). Some people are 100% gay and some 100% straight but an increasing number of people are finding their sex life to be more in the great gray area in the middle

For what is worth:
 
The text from the 1 star review: 
"As mentioned in my chat with you, this escort scammed me out of $500. He got to my hotel room, we chatted for a couple minutes, he asked for payment, then 2 minutes later there was a knock at the door. It was a thug, and the escort left. Very scary, and disappointing that this type of individual is allowed on a reputable site like rentmen."
The text from the 4 star review: 
"Very cute , pics accurate , needs to be clear on what he offers"
The texts from the 5 star reviews: 
"Thank you for your amazing site, good sir. I hope your site is around forever."
"everything fine."
"He was really nice and a good experience. Was very clean and really a nice person too"

In the past I've hired two straight guys.  One was an outstanding experience while the other was a total waste of time.  My success rate with bi and gay guys is much better.    

As with us and dealing with clients. You have no idea the crazy we see and the tough and dangerous situations we encounter. Held at gun point and robbed by someone acting like a client and called me to a hotel just to steal 😒 everything I had. The STDs we have to be vigilant about so that we are not the cause of someone else being exposed because a client exposed us. The multitude of prank texts and calls wasting our time and sending us to abandoned buildings. The complete lack of respect from others and late nights all hours day and night having to be right there at a moments notice. Yes, I love doing this because of the good people I have met especially my chosen family I have developed through this because they are my only family. So your statement holds no value attached to my name or this thread and I do not appreciate slander. Who knows you may even be another rent man competitor trying to hinder the good I am trying to do by providing connection and appreciation to these men that otherwise may not get it. So until you can back your statement up with some sort of proof that doesn't even exist then I would appreciate the comment be removed because that sir is the right thing to do. I am a honest and caring person that couldn't even hurt a fly and never have but I have faced demons face to face and won so a little slander is not going to stop me from showing attention and love to those that call me and are of good character and personality. Nothing has ever stopped me even the pits of hell didn't hold me down and this here sir won't stop me either. 

My only goal is to bring a positive experience to each person and foster connection in a world that is disconnected from one another. Yes, sex is apart of it but at the core of this it is all about the connection and feeling seen and wanted. I have so many wonderful friends that hired me and we grew a bond and if not from them connections I might have given up a long time ago and ended the suffering I allowed myself to experience but through these relationships I found this new me. This “job” is not a job to me, it is the way I can help others that is important and meaningful. These men that have been closeted their whole life get to have a moment of joy and I freaking love seeing them happy and smiling because for a moment they got to be the person they have been suppressing. There is meaning to this lifestyle and I am willing to walk in the trenches if that is what I have to do so I can help the good men that are out there needing me to show them they do matter and they are seen and appreciated. Thank y’all and I am signing out!!