misterhumphries

You took this encounter WAY too far, expended far too much time and energy on it. And in the end all you have is yet another promise to take action that, based on past behavior, may not be kept. The last thing I would want, if I were in your situation, is to pursue a meeting with this man after he may have scammed you and you were threatening to lodge a formal complaint. Too much hurt feeling and possible personal risk of retribution at the escort's hands.
My rules are simple: if an escort doesn't reply or takes what I consider too long to reply. I shrug and move on. Insisting that you meet with only the one escort makes  you appear desperate or stalkerish; primed to be taken for a ride. 

thanks for the opinion. next time he comes to my area i might have to look him up. I love a man with a round hard ass.

You took this encounter WAY too far, expended far too much time and energy on it. And in the end all you have is yet another promise to take action that, based on past behavior, may not be kept. The last thing I would want, if I were in your situation, is to pursue a meeting with this man after he may have scammed you and you were threatening to lodge a formal complaint. Too much hurt feeling and possible personal risk of retribution at the escort's hands.
My rules are simple: if an escort doesn't reply or takes what I consider too long to reply. I shrug and move on. Insisting that you meet with only the one escort makes  you appear desperate or stalkerish; primed to be taken for a ride. 

I don't believe location matters; you're paying for the erotic experience that you request. If you have a straight escort, there are going to be definite limits (I've yet to encounter one who would even consider fucking a man's ass). Just don't overthink it. Be clear about your wants and needs, keep an open mind, and have a ball!

I don't  know if a man "NEEDS" to jerk off but it is a form of sex with someone I love and admire. 

I had an acquaintance who claimed he never jerked off or had to stimulate himself manually during sex with a man. Just goes to show the biggest sex organ is the brain. But for me, jerking off while I'm choking on a massive dick makes me EXPLODE!

It's always a case of buyer beware. And when I hire, I state upfront if I don't like your looks or hygiene, or you find me repulsive, we can put a stop to the transaction. 

I don't  know if a man "NEEDS" to jerk off but it is a form of sex with someone I love and admire. 

You may not have meant it but that comment is racist. It's an old trope of the black person being sexual or seen merely as a sex object. No black person ever got his/her civil rights respected because they are good or adventurous in bed.

I don't believe escorting is traumatic for men. Unlike women, I believe most men are motivated by the money and the ego strokes. Then, of course, once reality sets in (rude, demanding, flaky clientele with questionable hygiene or health status) some men may stop  escorting as quickly as they began. I suppose the biggest concern would be that family and loved ones find out. But in general, I like to believe men are doing it because they want to, not at all a Lifetime movie backstory.

You may not have meant it but that comment is racist. It's an old trope of the black person being sexual or seen merely as a sex object. No black person ever got his/her civil rights respected because they are good or adventurous in bed.

I don't  know if a man "NEEDS" to jerk off but it is a form of sex with someone I love and admire. 

When I look at porn (rare these days) my go-tos are the pre-condom movies of Falcon and Colt studios. The men back then were more sexual, I believe, in contrast to the slick packaging and ticking off aesthetic boxes. Chad Douglas was one of my favorite porn stars. I got a thrill watching those greedy but unsuspecting boys grimace and cringe to be stretched by his thick heavy dick. For brute, often homely muscled MEN, I like Erotkius and Hunter Hunted from the Raging Stallion studio. That Xerxes had it all: huge muscle ass like that on a statue of Hercules; wide open asshole and an ever-hard big dick. 

I can't tell you how or with whom I discovered I am a nipple pig but it's been a revelation. I once dated this man with genuinely HUGE MASSIVE bodybuilder-style tits with thimble nipples that he loved to have nursed and chewed. It was awesome. And then he did things to my nipples that made my knees buckle. For me, the acid test is if any potential date or sex partner knows what to do with nips.

Disrespecting my Doctor of many years, simply because you don't agree with him seems a bit immature doesn't it ?
This is not some Jack-in-the-box GP from a walk-in-clinic.  My G.P. is a highly respected doctor and has a long standing practice. I pay out of pocket for his services, because you don't get high quality practitioners from your insurance company these days.
The most important fact here is that he is NOT one of these guys who's taking money on the side to prescribe medication. His holistic approach is "health first" and he is being reasonable in his evaluation of a drug that has a history of destructive side effects.  I can certainly strap on a condom. I spent plenty of years when I was younger, using condoms because I didn't want any unexpected pregnancies with my female companions, I didn't want to catch HIV from my male companions and I didn't want any STD's from either.
If bare-backing is SO important to you...then you do you. But don't bury your head in the sand and call people stupid for not joining you there. That's dangerous and irresponsible to your community.