misterhumphries

YES! Most of them, from the ones I've seen around Lowes and Home Depot speak minimal English. It's taking advantage of desperate men in the worst way. It's a type of sex trafficking. 
Don't even think about it.

YES! Most of them, from the ones I've seen around Lowes and Home Depot speak minimal English. It's taking advantage of desperate men in the worst way. It's a type of sex trafficking. 
Don't even think about it.

YES! Most of them, from the ones I've seen around Lowes and Home Depot speak minimal English. It's taking advantage of desperate men in the worst way. It's a type of sex trafficking. 
Don't even think about it.

YES! Most of them, from the ones I've seen around Lowes and Home Depot speak minimal English. It's taking advantage of desperate men in the worst way. It's a type of sex trafficking. 
Don't even think about it.

YES! Most of them, from the ones I've seen around Lowes and Home Depot speak minimal English. It's taking advantage of desperate men in the worst way. It's a type of sex trafficking. 
Don't even think about it.

Sorry but I don't understand sounding so apologetic about booking a masseur/escort. He CHOSE to book you for the hour. You didn't "cost" Rick anything. In fact, you enriched him by paying his hourly rate. As for your being chatty, it's probably not the first time that's occurred when a fan meets his porn idol. We are still human, after all. And it's not likely that you'll see him again in a social setting. His not replying to your thank you note is par for the course. It is not a reflection on you.
However much we may admire or lust after these escorts/masseurs, there's no need to feel inferior to them or that by offering them our custom that we are "bothering" them.
Grow some backbone, man!
 

Sorry but I don't understand sounding so apologetic about booking a masseur/escort. He CHOSE to book you for the hour. You didn't "cost" Rick anything. In fact, you enriched him by paying his hourly rate. As for your being chatty, it's probably not the first time that's occurred when a fan meets his porn idol. We are still human, after all. And it's not likely that you'll see him again in a social setting. His not replying to your thank you note is par for the course. It is not a reflection on you.
However much we may admire or lust after these escorts/masseurs, there's no need to feel inferior to them or that by offering them our custom that we are "bothering" them.
Grow some backbone, man!
 

I would have loved to have hired Tom Howard -- that beefy bodybuilder with a nice opened hole -- former Colt model. 


I would have LIVED between them thighs and those asscheeks.

I would have loved to have hired Tom Howard -- that beefy bodybuilder with a nice opened hole -- former Colt model. 


I would have LIVED between them thighs and those asscheeks.

I got a response from DarkChocolate: NO SEX or kissing (no surprise there). Boyfriend experience includes a date: dinner, movies, muscle worship, cuddling. I assume I'd pay for both the dinner and /or movie on top of a three-hour fee.
It's a hard pass for me.

For me, it's a idiotic, sad decision for competitive bodybuilders to get tattoos that cover their entire backs, torsos, or any part of their physique they are trying to showcase on stage. They slave for hours in the gym, go on crazy, often dangerous diets, THEN decide it's a good idea to mask the definition and hard work with a garish bit of blue-green ink. I keep wishing bodybuilding competitions would issue an official ban against tattoos, but if they did that, they wouldn't have many competitors.
Tattoos and beards! I'm sick to death of both of these chronic trends.

That's right. For me, the second I read "straight" it's a no-way, no-how. Straight boys have too many issues around their sexuality -- that they expect to be paid for by presumably desperate gay men. There is no shortage of gay or even bi- men who are happy to be with another man and who can be fully engaged in the encounter. Why settle for less?

I'd say the best position is with you straddling your partner. Use his cock like a living dildo. This way you control the speed, depth, and duration of penetration. In the missionary and doggy style you are at the fucker's mercy (unless you get hot from giving up that degree of control and possibly being pounded into oblivion). 

Other than the best position , don't overthink it! Sex is chemical. It's not a recipe or a mathematic equation. Just take the right precautions, use LOTS of lube,  make your interests and boundaries clear THEN HAVE A BALL!

That's right. For me, the second I read "straight" it's a no-way, no-how. Straight boys have too many issues around their sexuality -- that they expect to be paid for by presumably desperate gay men. There is no shortage of gay or even bi- men who are happy to be with another man and who can be fully engaged in the encounter. Why settle for less?

Nobody is BUYING your body. Buying implies slavery. Clients rent an escort's "time." And as we've read on some of these forums, some men merely want a human male connection where the sex act is secondary.
And one chooses to escort. As you write, if a client doesn't tolerate your brand of B.S., there are those who will. Same with escorting. If you decide to leave the biz, there are plenty of other men with possibly more or better of whatever you offer to take up the slack.
As for being a "slut"... well....

Call me crazy, but I use mouthwash just to freshen my breath after sucking cock or eating ass. I've never mistaken Scope or Listerine as a form of liquid prophylactic.  A swish of mouthwash is just good manners. 

Call me crazy, but I use mouthwash just to freshen my breath after sucking cock or eating ass. I've never mistaken Scope or Listerine as a form of liquid prophylactic.  A swish of mouthwash is just good manners. 

Call me crazy, but I use mouthwash just to freshen my breath after sucking cock or eating ass. I've never mistaken Scope or Listerine as a form of liquid prophylactic.  A swish of mouthwash is just good manners. 

Call me crazy, but I use mouthwash just to freshen my breath after sucking cock or eating ass. I've never mistaken Scope or Listerine as a form of liquid prophylactic.  A swish of mouthwash is just good manners. 

Call me crazy, but I use mouthwash just to freshen my breath after sucking cock or eating ass. I've never mistaken Scope or Listerine as a form of liquid prophylactic.  A swish of mouthwash is just good manners. 

True. And at least in Paris, people walk more on a daily basis. In contrast we  Americans  get huffy if we have to walk more than ten feet from the parking lot to the store entrance and are accustomed to larger portions of food

Shirtless gyms? That is so unsanitary. I do not look forward to laying down for a bench press where some shirtless knucklehead has sweated and left a dose of his dead skin cells and bacteria. No!
As to the original question, I believe attitudes and practices around male nudity are generational. Older men 50+ may be more comfortable with their nudity and sexual agency; they be more accepting of the effects of gravity and the aging process taking its toll on an average body. In contrast, young men are self-conscious of being the firm young flesh on the floor, the presumed objects of all desire, so they are in a panic to remain covered lest some horny old devil perv on them. 
But wearing underwear in the sauna or jacuzzi? How sad.

"... asked if they could shower"?
You're better than me. My home is not an annex of the YMCA. I expect an escort to arrive shaved, bathed, and presentable. And a toothbrush???!
I do not pay hundreds of dollars for a fixer-upper.
Now there was one amateur bodybuilder with a massive chest and bodacious nips who I insisted be a little funky when we get together. I enjoyed smelling like him for a while after a session....

I must agree. Fine set of cakes. And that hole looks nice and broken in. I'll bet it's warm and cozy in there. I see a trip to Ft Lauderdale in my future. Yow!