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At some point, you have to stop giving two fucks about what other people think.
While I'm not a person who wants to pull focus, I've shared many levels of PDA with clients.  If it feels natural and he's comfortable with it, I'm all good.
I have the self confidence and well-earned maturity to not care about what people around me 'must be thinking.' 
Without any snark or sarcasm in saying this, I truly hope you can get to that point someday.

I think there might be two different King Midas’s. I’ve hired the one from Rent Men and those pictures are different than the massage guy linked above. 

For me, it’s gotta be Mega.
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Hopefully people are just very busy. But I wonder if the nastiness that is often part of some posts might be a reason to no longer engage - life can be negative enough as it is. 
I really find absences disappointing because many of the enlightened posts came from providers, and reading dialogue between providers gave an insight into their experiences and dynamics.  Much more than ad copy or photos can offer.  I'm glad to see some still post regulary and I enjoy what they write even if I don't always agree with what is written. I respect them. 
I only hope others like AnthonyPhilly and the masseur Kenzo, might return to post again.  Each seemed to have a level of kindness that came through their posts. 
I also wish BigDale the client would return one day because I found him to be no-nonsense and hilarious in many of his online interactions. 
I haven't been on the forum long enough to be harkening back to the 'glory days'...lol

Just reading your post gave me heart palpitations - my Saturday night consisted of sitting in front of the TV with a pot of macaroni and cheese.  The disaster for me was not soaking the pot in the sink and now having to scrub really heard this morning,

To me, the best kissers start off with the soft kisses. Then ease into the tongue action. Slow and shallow at first and as things heat up, then it gets deeper and faster. Grabbing the back of his head and holding him there while you kiss is equally hot. Then slow it back down to where your lips are so close, but not touching, and you can feel and hear each other’s panting. All the while, your bodies have been mashed together and writhing against each other. Then after a few seconds you repeat, maybe with a dick inside one of you. If he’s doing it right, you don’t even think about. You don’t even wonder what to do next. It all just happens blissfully. 

To me, the deep kisses and probing tongues is the hottest part. That’s when you feel most connected.  Followed very closely by the soft kisses afterwards with your mouths close but not always touching  
And I agree, mister_mister could totally do what I describe above! 

To me, the best kissers start off with the soft kisses. Then ease into the tongue action. Slow and shallow at first and as things heat up, then it gets deeper and faster. Grabbing the back of his head and holding him there while you kiss is equally hot. Then slow it back down to where your lips are so close, but not touching, and you can feel and hear each other’s panting. All the while, your bodies have been mashed together and writhing against each other. Then after a few seconds you repeat, maybe with a dick inside one of you. If he’s doing it right, you don’t even think about. You don’t even wonder what to do next. It all just happens blissfully. 

To me, the deep kisses and probing tongues is the hottest part. That’s when you feel most connected.  Followed very closely by the soft kisses afterwards with your mouths close but not always touching  
And I agree, mister_mister could totally do what I describe above! 

I met with Toniazzo recently. He’s quite handsome, a very nice guy, and I really enjoyed my time with him. Very passionate kisser and was vers with me. Definitely would repeat!! 

Transgender rights are similar to gay rights in that the essence of the idea is to overcome “denial of the authentic self” 
Straight people don’t need to understand being gay to accept gay people as equal in all things.  Similarly, straight people or gay people, don’t need to understand what’s it’s like to be transgender to accept transgender people as equal with attendant legal rights.
Many gay men have forgotten that being gay was classified as a mental illness until 1973.  Public opinion has evolved significantly re: gay rights in the last 50 years.  Transgender rights will the same as public opinion and legal rights evolve too.
This is a simple idea - you don’t need to understand someone else’s struggle or validate their identity for them to have the same rights as you do.  
All the confusion about this is usually related to one’s own confusion/vulnerability about identities, labels and the fear of uncertainty or the unknown.  It’s not an issue for those who are truly comfortable in their own skin because there is absolutely nothing to fear.
FYI - this has become a political issue in the US now because Americans are so easily manipulated.  Interesting to note that many indigenous groups & cultures have long had third-gendered (two-spirit) people and it’s accepted/celebrated with no big deal.  

You certainly have a way with a word. 

You certainly have a way with a word. 

You certainly have a way with a word. 

You certainly have a way with a word. 

You certainly have a way with a word. 

Fellow hobbyists, I cannot recommend this provider. I will avoid in the future, he was not engaged, sat back and expected to be serviced only. I provided a clear list of asks/into and provider confirmed it would be a good fit. Did not deliver at all.  
 
The good: pictures are accurate, quick response (a rarity with Miami providers I found), tall and got hard easily.
 
The cons: disengaged,  does not deliver on asks, despite discussing ahead of time and the cost (the most I have ever paid… never again. I was thinking with the wrong head). 
 
Enjoy the pictures and keep him a fantasy, save yourself from disappointment and keep some cash in your wallet.  I took one from the team and hope no one else has to go through the trouble. 

Not to sidetrack your inquiry but every time someone asks about Victor Rios. I get excited. Then I realize it's not the porn actor Victor Rios, That guy I would hire in a heartbeat. The guy you're inquiring about is sadly not the Victor I'd want.  😛

@Pensant  I would struggle to live without Coca-Cola! Coke Zero, that is.

I wish Jeffrey Lloyd would come to the US

"six or more lifetime oral-sex partners"
That's just a weekend... 😏

Hey all! Here’s a thought: Why don’t we stop bickering and lecturing and reset this thread to be: Welcome to the Forum, Habibihunk! We’re glad you’re here. Thanks. 

How do you plan to prevent people from entering the same item multiple times? Currently it is possible (and probable!) that we have 2+ threads going on the same provider when folks don’t look up the provider first. 

My initial plan is to require all new items to require approval.  
This would allow review editors to add/cleanup photos if necessary, check for duplicates, etc.  

Did you charge by the word? 

Last time in a polo shirt, but only because I'd knocked at the wrong apartment.  

Perhaps it’s a bit foolhardy, but to my knowledge, treated STDs (not just HIV) are quite manageable and no longer a death sentence. Given the cost of hiring, it’s probably safe to assume that guys who are engaging escorts can afford treatment for an STD if they should contract one. Add to that that many providers are also on PreP and take other precautions for other STDs, it’s hardly a life risk to go bareback. It’s some risk. Of course. So is walking across the street downtown, but people do it. Or taking your mask off in public now with COVID still among us. It’s a (consciously) calculated risk, but not one that carries with it the danger it once did.