glennnnn

My fav escort is definitely an extrovert and a philosopher and I equally treasure our sexual and intellectual sharing. I cum away with a drained body but a full brain. He's my open window on the 21st century in general and current m/m culture in particular, a big brother I call often for advice. My life is richer because of Nate.  RENTMEN/LONGBEACH/YOURHUNK
 
PLEASE NOTE THIS HAPPINESS HAS SLOWLY DEVELOPED OVER ABOUT 6 ASSIGNATIONS  WITH HIM INCLUDING A  WEEKEND DATE.

https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SQcTsRRCVtg/Xc25hB8YCTI/AAAAAAAAESM/4CtF4q1hLmc83jBYDjzaDBL8nR9TmNtSACLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/nov14a-special%2Bfave%2B%284%29.gif

Since I have taken over running the site nearly two years ago, the Political Issues forum has represented literally 90% of all of the issues that the moderators have had to deal with.  We have attempted to keep the forum civil and a place where people can have mature discussions about those topics.  This includes implementing tools to remind people about our rules, giving reminders and warnings, etc.  I did this because I felt having an area that people could have an open dialog might provide a venue where people could exchange ideas and learn from each other.  
This has not happened over the last two years.  Instead it has simply become a cesspool of topics that simply attacked other members and baited the other side.  The moderators have literally have had to spend HOURS each week dealing with the output and there is nothing else I can think of that will make people use the forum as it was intended.  As a result, the Political Issues discussion forum is now retired and has been hidden on this site.  
Our community guidelines will be updated to reflect that political discussion is no longer permitted on the site. 

Words are just soooo 20th Century
If an idea cannot be communicated in a TikTok, it is not worth sharing. 🙄🤣

Then there's those who just mix the words up as when I was once told to take a short walk on a long pier.
 
 

Many different types out there.  Oxballs makes several types that squeeze the sack and push your balls down.  There are metal rings in different sizes that do it.  Some use weights to pull down their balls.  I've tried the metal rings and threw them away after pinching my sack a couple times.  Have an Oxball stretcher that I love.

As a novice in  erotic massage protocols, I don't have an answer yet, but hope to find out. I do appreciate the the OP for posing the question and the various responders for sharing their thoughts and experience. I have an appointment for a 90 min. Erotic massage this week.
My #1 besides the massage is his cock in my mouth, but I'll enjoy whatever. Wish me luck.

That's what I'm talking about!!! His cum- my mouth.

That's what I'm talking about!!! His cum- my mouth.

Hmm, not quite. Prostitute is an outdated word to be honest. Nobody says or calls themselves that much anymore. Prostitute has been stereotyped and stigmatized to death by Hollywood and the news media to imply a drug addicted, abuse fleeing, street soliciting person who needs “help”. 
 
Never claim that escorts are prostitutes. Words to describe people change and become defunct over time. It’s 2023. Not 1993. Similar to words like “Negro” to reference blacks which has been outdated (even though we still haven’t gotten to fix calling presidents, quarterbacks and TV stars who have 1 Black parent and 1 White parent: “Black”, but that’s another topic for another thread) 
Also nobody well intentioned beyond gays themselves in a catty, joking manner would call gays “homos” or “homosexuals” regardless of what the fuck the dictionary actually says it is. 
 
Trust me: it’s very Black and White. And victims of trafficking are not escorts or sex workers. So for lobbyists to throw the book and the baby out with the bath water, is partly why society in this country can’t get it right. Because people want to perpetuate some definition created by people from 100 years ago, versus asking people individually what they consider themselves.

That's what I'm talking about!!! His cum- my mouth.

As a novice in  erotic massage protocols, I don't have an answer yet, but hope to find out. I do appreciate the the OP for posing the question and the various responders for sharing their thoughts and experience. I have an appointment for a 90 min. Erotic massage this week.
My #1 besides the massage is his cock in my mouth, but I'll enjoy whatever. Wish me luck.

As a novice in  erotic massage protocols, I don't have an answer yet, but hope to find out. I do appreciate the the OP for posing the question and the various responders for sharing their thoughts and experience. I have an appointment for a 90 min. Erotic massage this week.
My #1 besides the massage is his cock in my mouth, but I'll enjoy whatever. Wish me luck.

I had one a few years back, both were very hot and in a relationship. I kind of felt like I was going through a car wash with both of them working on me at the same time. There was no sense of intimacy, maybe because they were more into each other than me. Probably won’t try it again.

You should start a scrapbook of your clippings🤓

As a novice in  erotic massage protocols, I don't have an answer yet, but hope to find out. I do appreciate the the OP for posing the question and the various responders for sharing their thoughts and experience. I have an appointment for a 90 min. Erotic massage this week.
My #1 besides the massage is his cock in my mouth, but I'll enjoy whatever. Wish me luck.

As a novice in  erotic massage protocols, I don't have an answer yet, but hope to find out. I do appreciate the the OP for posing the question and the various responders for sharing their thoughts and experience. I have an appointment for a 90 min. Erotic massage this week.
My #1 besides the massage is his cock in my mouth, but I'll enjoy whatever. Wish me luck.

That's what I'm talking about!!! His cum- my mouth.

Watching someone else come is extremely hot

God dam I need a cigarette after reading that.
And I don't even smoke. Well done. 🤤

My orgasm is not necessarily the highlight of every encounter, but it ranks right up there.  Almost equally important to me is my partner's orgasm.  Not only for the pleasure it gives to him, but also for the pleasure I derive from it.  My partners orgasm is a delight for all the senses and appeals deeply for my desires to have a great sexual experience.  I enjoy giving pleasure and to a certain extent, controlling my partners pleasure.  Edging in particular appeals to this aspect of my sexual experience.  Bringing my partner right to the edge and then denying him the ultimate release, knowing that when I do allow it, he will be enjoying it even more than he can imagine.  
But my partner's orgasm itself pleases me greatly.  Watching his muscles tighten, especially with the younger muscular men I see most of the time, watching his biceps, pecs and especially thick quadriceps clenching tightly and making his hips thrust and breathing grow shallow. Watching as his calves contract and his feet move rhythmically and uncontrollably.  It is a vision for the eyes to behold.  Then hearing his breathing get more shallow and more rapid, gutteral grunts rising up from the tightened abdominal muscles and getting louder and louder as he gets closer and closer.  The smell of testosterone and sexual congress filling the air and the taste of the sweat as he thrashes, the redness of his body and facial features and the dramatic contortions  of the face, half agony and then all ecstasy and ultimately the sweet nectar of release spewing forth into the air like a molten lava from a human volcano accompanied, if one has the right partner, by a loud roar of masculine completion.  His hot thick moistness landing on his abdomen and perhaps in my mouth or on my hands.  
Now with my deep appreciation of the result of my sexual ministrations, it is no wonder, that I would want to have my partner and I  to experience it a second time.  And while I usually allow enough time for a second round, most of my partners, even the younger ones, are not very Christ like and  are hesitant to allow a second coming. HE will get hard.  He will attempt to get me off a second time, sometimes, even at my advanced age, with tremendous success.  But he is not likely to come a second time. 
I understand that the cum shot is the escorts trump card often want it saved for future use.  But I am wondering, who else yearns for the second coming?  Do any of you have success in getting this second feature or is the second episode snap, crackle but no pop?  I also realize that not every encounter ends with a partner's orgasm. When this happens with me, no matter how great my own release, I do feel that the session was incomplete.   I used to say we are all responsible for our own orgasm, and while that it is still true, I like being responsible for my parter's orgasm as well.  
 

For me, it depends on the provider and the situation. It can be really hot, or it can be awkward. 

If kissing is important to you, be sure to ask your provider if kissing is ok, ideally beforehand or otherwise in the session. When the answer is no, please respect that and try not take it personally. It’s always a bit awkward to the provider for a client to initiate a kiss on the table and not have consented to it. Some providers kiss, some do not. Some providers do for a higher fee, perhaps with other offerings. The last time you want to discuss fees is in the middle of the session when you’re trying to relax and enjoy your time.

To me, a massage with lots of body on body contact, with kissing, would be an ideal experience. Am not usually interested in any kind of penetration, but kissing and body contact, plus the massage elements, pushes me over the edge....