Simon Suraci

Danny is one of those rare special providers in the world. Not only is he a beautiful bodybuilder, he’s a good person. He is always kind, honest, straightforward, and respectful. Funny, smart, tactful, generous, emotionally intelligent, and patient too. He demonstrates that he really cares about people, not just those hiring him. I consider Danny a personal friend. Whether he is straight or anything else is irrelevant. His personal life, thoughts, and attractions are his. Not yours to know or pry or speculate about. All that should matter to a client is that he does his job well. Based on all the things clients have to say, he is doing his job very well, and has been for many years. Danny doesn’t care about the gossip or drama here. He doesn’t care about reviews or building a reputation here either. He has already cultivated a loyal client base over many years and their word of mouth is solid gold. He’s one of the good ones, among the best. So to hear some suggestion that he is using a chat bot here makes me question the person writing it, not Danny. He, like many of us, are juggling constant communications every day. We have a plethora of discussions here about all the nonsense messages from unserious clients, and also all the normal message volume from good clients. Danny checks in and makes an effort to connect with people on a personal level, remembering their birthdays or sending messages specific to each client when something reminds him of them. It puts me to shame and I thought I was doing pretty ok. But not compared to the standard he sets. When he doesn’t get back to you in a short window of time or give exactly the answer you want, cut him some slack. At least he is getting back to you. He’s a dedicated professional. A lot of the guys you message won’t get back to you at all! Adjust your expectations and be honored that he is making time in his life for you. You need him and people like him more than they need you. They don’t have to respond. They don’t have to take every client because they earned credibility doing good work for many over a long time. Part of that credibility comes from the thankless work of handling his communications professionally and making sure to get back to everyone, even when it’s a pain or he isn’t thrilled about it, but he does the work anyway. You would be LUCKY to spend a few hours with Danny with his busy schedule and limited availability in the cities to which he travels. Relax and take a breath. Lighten up. Have patience. If you are so fortunate to meet with him, you will thank yourself for maintaining some modicum of perseverance to go through the booking process. It may take a few messages. No, he won’t necessarily be available exactly when you want him to be. That’s life. There is a lot to say about a lot of providers here, and some of it might be well deserved criticism, but Danny does not deserve flippant comments like these. If you’re trying to damage him in any way, good luck. There are too many people here who have seen him way too many times with way too much satisfaction for the comments here to carry any weight. And yes, by the way, he is strictly a top. No serious client or decent human being cares what his sexuality label is, or what he does with his own free time. Enjoy him for the experience he delivers to you on your time. That’s what actually matters.

Woof. My client is interested, and now I am! Anyone hire him for an hour or more? As tempting as the “quickies” may be.

Welcome @Ryan Gressel!

💯 same here

I’m an animal in bed!

I’m working 😝 Sorry I will miss you guys tonight.

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My boots are on the ground here at InnDulge. I’m checked in for the week. Now for a cocktail and a dip in the hot tub. Had a nice chat over dinner with other guests. What a nice crowd. Room 23

This is abnormal. What you’re asking for is pretty standard fare. I would expect most men you contact to do what you’re requesting for their standard rate. $300 is pretty common in most areas of the US right now, excluding certain high cost metros. There is no standard, however, and I agree with Benjamin that offerings and prices vary widely from escort to escort, so it’s important to communicate your needs and expectations. Also read the ad carefully. Sometimes Top means exactly that. No bottoming for any price. When kissing is not listed, ask.

Correct. @Alabastrine Try Package Dallas (formerly Tapelenders) on Cedar Springs a few doors down from Hunky’s. Or Skivvies, on Throckmorton across from Sue Ellen’s and JR’s. Other sex shops in Oak Lawn will have it too. Plus the mainstream sex shops in broader Dallas.

@Alabastrine I highly recommend Dann. Solid all around. Massage skills: check. Sex appeal: check. Charm: double check. Generous with his body: check. Nice space: check. He creates content. Twitter: @Reecescottx. For @BigNoiseDallas this aspect was a turn-off, but maybe for others a turn-on, or a non issue. I have not tried his esthetician services but his massage is great. Well worth it. I agree 5’-9” is a good estimated height. Not extremely tall or short. I’m 5’-11” and I remember when meeting him he is shorter than me, definitely not any taller. You may want to specify if you want draping or not since for men the default for many of us masseurs is mutual nude. For women we tend to be more conservative, not knowing if she would appreciate nudity on either side of the equation. Speaking for myself here, I always drape women and stay clothed unless they specifically indicate otherwise. I do this because most of the women I have seen feel most comfortable being draped.

Brian works out of OKC and visits DTX often. He has been active on these forums in the past but guess he lost interest. He used it more or less like a billboard, literally posting his ad embedded with images on all his posts. I heard good things so I tried reaching out for an appointment on my last visit in OKC. He was friendly and responsive, but he was hosting family and couldn’t meet then. Not sure about his massage, hope to meet him someday. Langston I’ve worked with before many times for 4-hand massages and…mostly other activities. I still do when I have such requests during my Dallas visits the next of which will be around July and October of 2025. I highly recommend Langston for the *ahem* other activities, but not so much for massage. He does a nice, relaxing sensual massage routine. Sexy guy and a sexy massage but don’t expect a high skill therapeutic experience. Great for what it is. He works with his husband Deon for 4-hand massage and…other activities as well. Langston is an architect like me and massages part time nights and weekends. Deon does drag. I can’t speak to Deon’s RentMasseur work, but one escort client I referred to him told me he was quite happy with Deon. DTDallas I met in person when I lived in downtown Dallas. I have not hired him, can’t speak to his work.

I asked last year. INNdulge is fine with guests coming over, and they do not charge for guests to enjoy the pool as long as they come at a paying guest’s invitation. They do not welcome large gatherings.

A bar outing on Friday night sounds fun. All depends on client appointments though. If I am less busy, count me in.

Because: clients (and working boys) value privacy. getting a bunch of gay men to commit to anything (much less as far in advance as would be necessary) is a total non-starter. ditto the above point, inserting “with significant financial stakes” and its a double non-starter. traditions run deep. Men attending like doing what’s familiar, convenient, easy, and comfortable. clients have varying tastes, priorities, preferences, and budgets. hard to beat the atmosphere at InnDulge and other nearby hotels. how many people can possibly fit in one large AirBnB? A dozen? Way more attend Among so many other reasons I won’t bother to jot down. The above are more than enough With that said, I’m open to going in on an AirBnB in the future. The organizers manage to pull off communal meals in an orderly manner. I see no reason we couldn’t do the same for a big place. That place would have to be selected by one volunteer party, not a large ‘committee’ of everyone having an opinion or complaint about which one and where and how much $ and so on.

Like store brands, or not. It’s all a matter of perspective:

Welcome @tantric leopard!

Energy is not the new erotic. Energy can incorporate erotic work but is not necessarily erotic by nature. Some masseurs stress energy exchange, healing energy, and so on, which often, but does not always involve direct contact, such as a reiki approach. Some masseurs do Taoist and tantric inspired bodywork, which for some helps them identify and release emotional blockages or open up their mind, body, and spirit through a physical-spiritual connection. And yes, sometimes that means massaging your taint and prostate and belly and pelvis in ways adjacent to and overlapping with traditional ideas about sexuality, sexual feelings, and sexual pleasure. The point is it’s not only about the latter. It’s focused on the spiritual aspects and how physical manifestations and manipulations can help you access the spiritual parts of yourself in a more profound way. Many of you will say it’s all bs and not care, which is fine. It’s not for you then. The right clients for those masseurs find them. They aren’t the right masseurs for every client, nor is every client a good fit for some of the more woo-woo oriented masseurs. Personally, I enjoy the energy exchange approach, and take this step a lunge more forward with some of my clients who are ready and willing to go there with me. Most absolutely are not. Still, there is an undeniable energy exchange at some level in all of my sessions. Enjoy the woo if you will, and if you won’t, whine to whoever else will wisten.

Masseurs have the option to pick from a canned dropdown list. “Massage Bliss”, by Simon or whatever bullshit titles. We don’t type them in, nor are they arbitrarily assigned. We have to pick one of the options they present to us. I’m over MF. As soon as Gay Wellness picks up enough steam, which could be quite a long while, I am dumping MF for good.

I have to agree with @KeepItReal the risk for HIV from oral may be low, but it is non-zero. My doctor tells me DoxyPEP can lower the risk of gonorrhea infection, but many people still do get gonorrhea while using DoxyPEP as prescribed. All treatable of course, and yes we should be getting tested regularly. I do so monthly. Clients usually aren’t testing that frequently. Best case is every three months for those superstar gays on prep and testing according to their doctor’s requirements. Many clients do not test at all for various reasons; healthcare privacy, access, shame, lack of frequent exposure, fear of judgment, among other reasons. Unfortunately, many clients are not getting vaccinated for all you mentioned. I do, as I should considering our work, but only a fraction of MSM are on top of these things. Some fear judgement, shame, or lack access. Telling your doctor you need a monkeypox vaccine is tantamount to putting a pink triangle on your sleeve. It may be no big deal for me, but a married bi-curious client seeking a first experience is probably not going to be so bold, or proactive, or knowledgeable. I think the concern here is some clients either do not know about, do not have, or refuse (for whatever valid or not-so-valid reasons) to access appropriate healthcare. Maybe for fear of a spouse finding out, or general stigma. Who knows. For those clients refusing to access appropriate preventive and maintenance healthcare, the best way to stay healthy is to abstain from sexual activity.

Except gonorrhea. It doesn’t protect against that. Or any viral infection including HPV, HIV, hepatitis B or hepatitis C. Useful for chlamydia and syphilis though!

Depends on how good and experienced the top is, which position(s) and if we are switching positions frequently to maintain interest and avoid fatigue on both sides of the equation. Regular reapplication of lube helps, and silicone lasts longer between applications. Some of my longest encounters have been when flip fucking, switching it up every twenty to thirty minutes. Each partner’s hole gets a break for a little while before going again. Also depends on intensity and pace. Sometimes I can be inside a bottom and slowly, intentionally, and sensually linger hard and being fully inside him, barely moving, pulsing to stimulate his prostate and areas around it and past it. He feels every micrometer of movement and fullness and appreciates it. Helps him fully relax and engage the experience and heighten his senses, so that when we do pick back up to medium or faster pace, he feels each thrust even more intensely. Like tasting and chewing thoroughly each bite of a delicious, nicely prepared meal, and pacing one’s self to enjoy the whole dish. Not just gobbling it down mindlessly and feeling “full” but unsatisfied. Changes in pace are good too, if not position. Jack hammering is ok for short times when the bottom is into it, all the way back down to the slow sensual pulsing I mentioned, and most of the time it’s something in the range in between the two extremes. It can be fun putting just the tip in back and forth to stimulate his magic button. Also pulling all the way out and plunging back in at different speeds and angles and positions. My god there are a lot of ways to fuck. Why not enjoy all of them? Sometimes that takes a long while to do them all. Breaks are good too, but I like long sessions with a compatible partner. Even better when my bottom can go more than an hour. Short sessions are fun too, don’t get me wrong, and most of the time a single round of sex lasts under an hour. With enough variety, pacing, positioning, and stamina, though sex can be an amazing adventure lasting well over an hour, and something comfortable and enjoyable for both parties. Fun when it works out. People’s bodies have various limitations like joints getting sore or poor flexibility, or whatever. Then of course holes get sore too. Long fuck sessions aren’t for everyone.

^Ain’t that the truth? Thanks for sharing your interests! When I was advertising on mainstream platforms I saw more women. I don’t think I’ve ever shared this in the forum before, but I consider myself Straight-For-Pay! It’s true. Cis women are a vanishingly small minority of my clients, and of them usually they are part of a M-F couple. However, I service them too, both for therapeutic and erotic services. I just target my advertising toward men because that’s my strength. I know some good bisexual masseurs and sex workers who actually are bi and not just using it as marketing. They are professional and great at what they do for all genders. Take heart, there is something for everyone. You don’t have to sift through the chaff of straight male yahoos offering services to women with no skill or professionalism. Or worse using it as a ploy to take advantage of women. Nobody has time for that. Glad you are leveraging this resource to get straight to the wheat. 1. Great. You will find lots of good recommendations here. The major pitfall on this site is that a large majority of clients here prioritize masseur LOOKS way far and above over actual skill. Sorry guys, it’s the truth. I’ve been here long enough to see this plainly for what it is. Everyone thinks they are the exception, but they aren’t. They hire based on looks too, even unconsciously. Some mediocre masseurs get away with murder because they look so hot. And likewise some average or conventionally less attractive men with excellent skills are regularly passed over, or not even discussed here at all. So many threads start and end with how old a guy is or how recent his photos are, or does he have facial hair, or has he gained 20 lbs…blah blah blah. Looks are fun to discuss, but completely secondary to having a great overall massage experience. Look for the few gold nuggets in the threads (among all the looks-focused drivel) discussing actual technique, skill level, style, and professionalism. How did he make the client feel? Was his space welcoming, secure, clean? Was he on time? Does he use appropriate equipment? Did he address the client’s needs? Etc. 2. Have at it. This site is great for figuring out the “extras” department. Who here doesn’t love reading or sharing about it? You may find that more than one provider will work best for your different needs, but I argue you can get all in one when you carefully select the RIGHT provider for you. Depends on where you live or travel to, and budget, but good research and trying a few men on your shortlist pays off. You might just find him. 3. Male presenting providers advertise as whatever they think brings them more business. Sometimes it’s purely strategic to label oneself as gay/straight/bi. This is really up to you and your preferences, but the label on the box is just a label, not an indication of absolute truth. Plus human sexuality is a spectrum. It’s messier and more nuanced than checking a box. I would personally be more interested in what the provider can do for you, how he makes you feel, and his professionalism - none of which has anything to do with who or what he fantasizes about in his own head or who he sleeps with off the clock in his own bed. What matters is can he perform the services you want in the way you want. His personal life and identity are not that relevant.