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    + APPLE1 reacted to Rod Hagen in Cheapest countries to hire?   
    I'm gonna call bullshit on this one.  I know it's popular in the other Forum for frequent flyer SexTourists to pile shame/shit on Americans "overly" generous in the Brazilian saunas. 
    Thought experiment time!   Let's say a Sauna worker, Bruno, sees a mix of 10 total local and foreign clients in a week.
    As a quick, helpful, aside, I worked as a well-reviewed escort, granted it was in the states, for decades and would have remaining digits counting the number of men who overpaid. Most men, most people, don't overpay for goods or services.   But, just for funsies, let's pretend 1 of 10 per week "overpay" Bruno because from the Uber Black between GIG and the Hotel Fasano the Client/Tourist noticed a favela and felt sad.
    Even a simpleton would not, could not, hold out in his transactions for something near the amount that the generous ONE paid.  If he tried, he wouldn't last long. He can try, he will see an American and ask for more, and maybe refuse you if you won't give it.  But he won't, he can't, be doing that for long, because the reality nobody can deny is that most men, most escort-clients, and certainly most sex tourists, are not "overly" generous.  After all, that's why they are in Brazil, cheap rates for hot guys.  And the locals simply won't pay that high amount, so the delusional worker can ask for whatever he likes, he won't get it from them either.
    And when you push back like this, the cheapies on the MER, or whatever that forum is called these days clutch their pearls and say, "you don't know.  you don't go to Brazil/Thailand (whichever low-earning country they frequent) as often as I do, I know these boys..." blah blah.  I don't need to.   The advantage of models and simulations is that you don't have to get your hands dirty.  So, yep, bullshit.   
    Good on you ThroatCummer!  You are one in a million.  Or, one in 10, hypothetically :-)
  2. Haha
    + APPLE1 got a reaction from Dallas Jayson in ScottTyson   
    None. I was simply defining the term abandon as it was used here.
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from Rod Hagen in How long do you wait for a provider to respond?   
    Yes, and I appreciate the explanation and thought process.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to samhexum in Grocery Surprises, What's Got Your Goat With High Price?   
    My favorite store (for several reasons, including that it's usually the cheapest) is next to the medical complex where all my doctors are so doctor appt days are usually shopping days but it's 25 minutes from me so I only go there on non-appointment days if the circular is particularly fruitful.  Otherwise I have a three-store grouping ten minutes from me that I monitor the circulars of for quick trips for sale items.
    Other than soda I have been able to keep prices fairly steady because I shop often enough to almost never have to buy anything not on sale.



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    + APPLE1 reacted to + sync in Remembrance Day - Veterans Day - Armistice Day   
    Hope you're right.  Keep those rose-colored glasses handy.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to + Drew Collins in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?   
    For my own personal growth, learning/understanding/internalizing that....."No."....is a complete sentence.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to + purplekow in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?   
    No one prepared me for how difficult it is to direct a urinary stream as you get older. In the house I just sold, I had a urinal and that made for an easy and clean urination.  I miss that urinal about as much as I miss the bowl these days.  
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    + APPLE1 reacted to + Charlie in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?   
    Having to decide whether to buy a gas engine or an electric engine car.
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from Jack Vernon in any 411 on Remaking in Minneapolis?   
    I had cordial chat experience with him once we were able to connect. We couldn't connect via chat while I was actually in town.
    Based on my experience, and his advice, I would advise contacting him in advance of trying to book. He is not a "right now" provider, or even one to check his messages everyday.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to Wings246 in % of clients who are straight   
    Have you had self-proclaimed lesbian clients who become straight after spending time with you?  If so, it is doubly fabulous indeed!  😜
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    + APPLE1 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Tipping Providers   
    I've said it before and I'll say it again:
    Set your rates high enough that tips aren't a thing.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to harlow in Tipping Providers   
    I’m tired of tipping all together for everything. Just tell me how much and let me decide if I want to pay 
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    + APPLE1 reacted to BuffaloKyle in Advertisers getting testy with lurkers.   
    You need to adjust your settings so they don't get an alert you are visiting their profile. Go to my settings, then under account settings, click privacy. Then make sure the "Do not track me" option is enabled.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to Gilfson in % of clients who are straight   
    I’m not struggling to understand anything. I understand people can claim to be whatever they want. But if you’re having sex with men regularly you aren’t straight. You can say you are all you want. But I’m not gonna get back into this thread. I’ve said what I’ve said everyone can feel free to agree or disagree 👍🏻 
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from + Charlie in NYC Cruising warning   
    God I LOVE that story! It illustrates a simple easy blueprint:
    I've gone this far, I may as well just go all in. It is JUST SEX, after all. 
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    + APPLE1 reacted to + Charlie in NYC Cruising warning   
    It is true that in a place like NYC there are lots of other options for cruising nowadays, like gay bars, but some of us grew up when the social options were very different, so we still remember when public toilets were the only place where we could handle our cocks in public, much less make sexual overtures to another male. Old habits die hard. Then there are also the closeted gays who don't want to be seen in openly gay surroundings, and want to be able to plausibly claim, "I just came here because I needed to use the bathroom."
    I went to college in a small city in farm country. One evening in the college library, I went to use the men's room, and when I sat down in a stall, the foot in the next stall started a tapping routine that I immediately recognized from my experience in Manhattan public men's rooms. When I returned the message, we both left and met outside in the hall. The guy turned out to be a former student who now lived in town, and I went home with him. After we had concluded our business at his place, I asked him why he was cruising in the college library. He said that all the actively gay men in the town knew that the library men's room was the standard place in town to pick up tricks, and if the guy in the adjoining stall didn't respond to the tapping foot, he probably didn't know what it meant and wasn't available. It was easy enough to just leave and start looking for something on the library book shelves, as if that were the only reason he was there.
    Unfortunately, one evening the tapping foot turned out to belong to one of my professors. When he emerged from the stall and I saw who it was, I was dumbfounded, because he was the last person I would have wanted to have sex with, but I couldn't very well refuse after having signaled with my foot that I was available. Luckily, the semester was almost over, and I took no more courses with him.
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in NYC Cruising warning   
    If you're so damn fragile that you need tranquility to take a shit, get yourself a cheap hotel room nearby, or schedule a visit with a gastroentrologist.
    If 600,000 people go through Penn Station each day, I can't imagine the public bathroom at Penn Station is a tranquil, relaxing, spa like experience. When a commuter needs to use a public bathroom, he is likely headed to a dirty, crowded space, with lots of people coming and going. A commuter should be entitled to decide who he exposes his naughty bits to inside a stall and not be exposed to federal authorities sneaking a peak through cracks and crevices. 
    Let's hope these arrests result in voyeurism lawsuits and the government pays out and gets the message.
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    + APPLE1 reacted to Thelatin in % of clients who are straight   
    I’m only gay when I’m horney.
  19. Agree
    + APPLE1 reacted to Whippoorwill in Running into your masseur   
    Yeah, don't make it weird, it doesn't need to be. San Francisco, my hometown, is a small place, and over the years my regular masseurs and I inevitably bump into each other. Give a nod of recognition, or say hi and move on, as you would with any other acquaintance. Neither you nor he have exclusive rights to the gym. You don't embarrass him, he doesn't embarrass you. Easy. Don't overthink it. 
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from Peter Eater in NYC Cruising warning   
    EXACTLY!!!  And if you read the whole story linked above it references the 2022 court settlement where the Port Authority "used discriminatory practices with plainclothes officers, falsely arresting and accusing gay, bisexual and gender nonconforming people of public lewdness and exposure in the terminal’s men’s restrooms because of their actual or perceived sexual orientation. The settlement suspended the practice, required LGBTQ+ sensitivity training and found multiple officers and the Port Authority liable for violating the Fourth and 14th Amendments."
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    + APPLE1 reacted to JTtorretto in % of clients who are straight   
    To answer your question:  
     
    “how many clients state that they are straight?”
     
    it varies dramatically depending upon what city, blue/red state, midwest vs coast 
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    + APPLE1 reacted to LookingAround in % of clients who are straight   
    Says the man with bi in his moniker. 
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from Bokomaru in NYC Cruising warning   
    If you're so damn fragile that you need tranquility to take a shit, get yourself a cheap hotel room nearby, or schedule a visit with a gastroentrologist.
    If 600,000 people go through Penn Station each day, I can't imagine the public bathroom at Penn Station is a tranquil, relaxing, spa like experience. When a commuter needs to use a public bathroom, he is likely headed to a dirty, crowded space, with lots of people coming and going. A commuter should be entitled to decide who he exposes his naughty bits to inside a stall and not be exposed to federal authorities sneaking a peak through cracks and crevices. 
    Let's hope these arrests result in voyeurism lawsuits and the government pays out and gets the message.
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in NYC Cruising warning   
    The potty rules seem very difficult to migrate. 
    1) Do I clench my pearls if I think there is sex afoot? 
    2) Do I clench my pearls if I think a FTM is next to me?
    3) Both? 
    4) Am I ever allowed to do my business and just leave, regardless of who is next to me, or what I think is afoot? 
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    + APPLE1 got a reaction from Whippoorwill in NYC Cruising warning   
    EXACTLY!!!  And if you read the whole story linked above it references the 2022 court settlement where the Port Authority "used discriminatory practices with plainclothes officers, falsely arresting and accusing gay, bisexual and gender nonconforming people of public lewdness and exposure in the terminal’s men’s restrooms because of their actual or perceived sexual orientation. The settlement suspended the practice, required LGBTQ+ sensitivity training and found multiple officers and the Port Authority liable for violating the Fourth and 14th Amendments."
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