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My assumption is that it's not based on how old a message is. Perhaps it only holds a certain number of messages, and once that number is hit, it starts to delete the oldest messages first. I say this because I have reached out to providers more than 6 months ago and still have those messages for my next trip to that area. I will also say that, I have deleted many messages from the interim that I no longer need.

Isn't that false advertising?? Why should I have to wait until my 6th or 7th time visiting to discover his place isn't impeccably clean, and he's a bit of a slob? I'd rather see the horrors up front to know if it's beyond what I can deal with, and then I cut and run early on in the relationship.

🤷🏻 C and E Catholic or sheigetz, as long as the ham doesn't come from a can, and the gefilte fish doesn't come from a jar, I can't imagine really caring.

Based on the penalties I know of for purposefully spreading HIV, I was surprised by the teaser and the article. And that is not a judgement by any means. I dug more. Spreading of the HIV fluid is only punishable by a 15 year max in Idaho. ID Stats 39-601 and 39-608 outline this. The individual was also found guilty of 2 additional felonies: sexual battery of a minor, and enticing a child through the internet. In ID, sexual battery of a minor is a 15 year max, and child enticement via the internet is a 15 year max. Most articles I read indicated that the convicted individual admitted to having sex with 30 to 50 different men and teenage boys. The prosecutor called his behavior “egregious.” I think some might find the judge's sentence “egregious” for someone who engaged in said behavior 30-50 times.

I hope the counterpoint affects you more than the original post. And don't get me wrong, I am not saying that you should go forward giving away money willy nilly. I can say though, that the money, influence, and time I've given/lent to those I cared about in my life has rewarded me. The times I have been burned on the deal aren't significant enough to overshadow the times it worked out well.

Spontaneous excited utterances are accurate indicators of character. So much so in fact, it's the very reason they are exceptions to the hearsay rule in court. I wouldn't believe an apology.

I went back and forth on some of your definitions of a "regular," but I certainly appreciate and agree with the one I quoted directly above.

My biggest concern at this point is for the speed at which the DoxyPREP regimen may accelerate the resistance of chlamydia and syphilis. Obviously, it is a bit of a summary article and not a not a journal article on the research data, but I am gathering that while chlamydia remained relatively constant, starting at 88% with the initial DoxyPREP trial and 89% a year in, syphilis was initially 87% and fell to 79% a year in. If the big picture observations are that: - DoxyPREP only reduces gonorrhea infection rate by 33%; -studies show evidence that vaccination with meningococcal B by itself reduce gonorrhea by 30 - 50%; -current scientific theory tells us that short bursts of antibiotics contribute resistance; -antibiotics take a toll on body systems; and -we already know that Benzathine Penicillin G is already a better treatment for syphilis than doxycycline I would place my faith in vaccination for gonorrhea, treat syphilis with the superior antibiotic, and treat both gonorrhea and chlamydia with a FULL course of Doxycycline as needed. And of course, pray to the pharmaceutical and profit gods for vaccines specific for all three!

None. I was simply defining the term abandon as it was used here.

@steve thank you. I should have posted this right after I read the above, but I guess, better late than never. The above statement gave me an additional perspective on tolerance and empathy, both as it relates to this forum, and life in general. I can't remember the last time I said to myself "I'm bored," or "I wish I had someone to talk to." Sometimes I am greatful for that, and sometimes I wish my life had a slower pace. So now, in addition to differences in age, experiences, and income, I add "social activity" to the list of things I try to remind myself of when I make statements, or take issue with others statements and other's responses to my statements.

You have a mouth, 2 hands, and 2 feet. If something isn't working, or is working too well, REARRANGE! Any GOOD activity partner will read the cues and rearrange with you.

I dont think we can. People are certainly going to have individualized objections to any number of words. However, restricting the cultural voice of others here is unnecessary. When your sexuality is the stand out factor that makes you divergent from the norm, it becomes an important part of your culture. It's a culture steeped in a rich tradition of freedom and expression regarding sex. That culture, and the freedoms that come with it, were fiercely fought for by many. It typically allows us to freely have discussions about sex, and use any number of sexual terms, without shame or embarrassment. And while still in some ways, we may not be able to have those discussions, and use those terms, in "polite" society at large, there is absolutely no reason we shouldn't embrace and celebrate the tolerance to have those discussions, and use those terms, within our own community.

To act with abandon = wildly, without restraint, carefree

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If all else fails, he should also call the hospital billing directly. Being accepted by a hospital subsidy program, or working out a payment plan with the hospital, is much easier than negotiating with a debt collector or migrating through a civil action in court for unpaid debt.

I would like a little clarity on that please. I am assuming when you talk about opening with "hi" or "hey, " and 99% certain they'll never book, you mean those words alone in a message. As opposed to "hey [or hi], I saw you in RentMasseur (or wherever ) I’d like...." Correct?

👍 Surrounding yourself with those big beefy butch guys who can pick up a whole sandwich will solve many of life's problems! 😂

Adding a non traditional spice to a dish is a cheap and easy way to make it unique and create a niche market. Unique and niche are always easier tools to use when appealing to the masses. Subtle flavor changes often go unnoticed and under appreciated by the masses. Add chili pepper to mac n cheese, and most people will recognize it as bold, spicy, and unique. Make Mac n cheese with butter and cheese from grass fed cattle, and very few people will realize, or appreciate, the subtle flavor difference.

Locally for me, the first vaccination involved jumping through some hoops. For the second dose, it was seamless. An email saying "time to schedule your 2nd dose. Click here for appt times." If my memory is correct, I recall cities or states in the US where, because of the shortage, the controlling health dept opted to ONLY give one dose to most people.

Exactly! If I can text you requesting an appointment for Sat afternoon, and really the only details we need to iron out are the specific time, I consider: 1) you a quality provider that remembers me and my needs; and 2) myself a "regular" who has seen you enough, that you remember me.

Thanks for the recap! I couldn't quite identify why the pic was familiar, but when you described the experience, I immediately recalled that same situation.

I have hired him. Met all the minimum expextations: easy communication, clean, prepared, on time. Okay massage. Good extras. I hired him as 'Redneck.' It seems like he is migrating away from that image, and I would say that's a plus in terms of his personality. Conversation was a bit stiffled at first, BUT, I didn't hire him as a conversation partner. Once things moved onto relaxing on the table as he worked, things went well.

Seems like between yourself, and the response here, you have all the pertinent answers. 1) Knowing the HPV strain you have likely doesn't help with your health or with determining any abstinence period you choose. So why waste the time and money. 2) After you clear HPV, with no vaccination, you're at the same level of health risk for reinfection. 3) Choosing the local clinic that specializes in sexuality transmitted infections is always your best bet for knowledge, off-label treatment, and acceptance of any patient's desire to pursue added care or testing. Even in a in a third party payment system, not every provider is willing to pursue issues like a specialty clinic may. 4) At least find out the fee from your local specialty clinic. If it's unaffordable, I would reach out to THT. They may have a lower cost clinic, a subsidy program, or at the very least, a list of providers who do it off-label. https://www.tht.org.uk/

What the nurse didn't say, is likely more important than what she did say. She DID NOT say "as soon as the wart is gone, you can't spread HPV to others." Like many surface contact viruses, you're contagious until your body is rid of the virus(es) . While it varies greatly by the specific strain(s) of HPV virus(es) you have. The clinic likely didn't test to determine which strain(s) you have. They took, and you should take, some comfort in the fact that the strain(s) produced warts. Most, of the strains that cause warts, don't cause cancers. In general, 2-3 years of abstinence, and most immune systems clear the HPV viruses from the body. At that point, you'd likely have little worry of exposing others to HPV, at least until you come in contact again with someone else who has a virus (notice I DID NOT say, someone else who has warts). If it's possible for you, I will certainly echo what others said: get the vaccination! Besides abstinence, it the best way to protect yourself, and certainly the only way that allows you to go forward with confidence thst your likely aren't spreading HPV to others.

In order to accept the concept of "straight acting" translating into internalized homophobia, I feel like a definition is required for "straight acting." For example, if the term is simply applied to gay men who engage in what society has traditionally regarded as "manly pursuits," and gay man #1 may prefer to watch football and surround himself with other guys who have the same interest, I see no issues. On the other hand, if gay man #2 enjoys the traditional "manly pursuits," AND is vehemently opposed to gay men watching Drag Race, or traditional "feminine pursuits" because it somehow tarnishes the world view of gay men, that's a problem. I can certainly accept the idea the #2 may have internalized homophobia. However, I see no evidence of internalized homophobia with #1. I am not saying anyone here defines "straight acting" based on the above example, but I do think some basic parameters of the phrase's definition are important if "straight acting" is to be linked to "internal homophobia."