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Is the sibling still working? Are they getting any payments from Soc Sec? The Soc Sec Administration does have a Representative Payee program that I have seen benefit many people who simply can't manage money and live within their means. It's not JUST for people who are poor either. I have known people, with very healthy retirement incomes, who lead a much better life now that a Payee pays their bills. Once the bills are paid, then they got a weekly cash stipend, or prepaid credit cards for their incedentals. Hell, I have one friend with a husband who is so bad with money, the husband gets the GAS only gift cards from the gas station. Social Security Administration - Representative Payee Program WWW.SSA.GOV FAQs for representative payees.

I would be fine not sharing my password, IF I were paying a fee to stream on 1 device at a time. Since I am paying to stream on 2 devices at a time, it shouldn't matter if that 2nd device is in my house or 20 miles down the road.

I've always taken the stellar reviews on rentmen, especially in a huge volume, with a grain of salt. I say that mainly because there are established providers who I continue to see (some in Denver) who have been on the site for 15-20 years and have only 15-20 reviews. At best, that's an avg of 1.3 per year. That provider may have had only 1 review the first year. Solely based upon the numbers, it may be a bad bet. However, when I consider that I had a great session, never left a review there, and other members here have given a great review, it really challenges the amount faith I can put in the just those numbers.

He's not close to me and not my type. However, I am sure it doesn't really require knowing him as a competitor, or potential client, to assign the word rude. It really only requires the ability to read a rude and condescending monologue written by Ryan. Likewise, while I can't testify to his education, reading his writing allows me to assume he wasn't an English or hard science major. His poor grammar, punctuation, and logic skills don't support a degree in those fields from a good university.

@Wanderoz I think you may need to clarify your question. I read it as: Anybody have fun lately with any twink masseurs who also like to top their clients? Seems that @Vegas_Millennial read it as: Anybody have fun lately with any twink masseurs who also like to be topped by clients?

Is that the same guy as Idle_Hands on rentmasseur? Idle_Hands on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

After reading the forum, I was curious about the "why's" of tipping being unappreciated / offensive / rejected in certain places. When I asked my Aunt, her response was that most Chinese people see it as a form of pity or charity. Like they are viewed as someone who can't take care of themselves and their family. And she added that there is a special level of cultural insult to be tipped by a westerner in China. @Italiano I am assuming you are Italian. Can you shed light on why Italian business owners are opposed to being tipped?

God I love that phrasing! It's simple, direct, and appropriate for all types of providers.

I believe he has an ad on friendlyboy too. https://friendboy.pro/boys/AdamXXXHot

The ad does still list sensual and erotic. When I hired him, he was pretty closed lipped in messages about what his massages included, and things that wouldn't be included. He was the same way in person before the session started. I, on the other hand, was not at all tight lipped about what I enjoy when I arrived in person. I assumed I was very much his type. I recieved a long session, a great price, it included everything I enjoyed, and it included things previously listed as "not included. " I definitely have the impression he is a YMMV provider.

I saw him once a few years back. Massage was pretty light touch. He was clothed. No MT. Cursory HE. I didn't go back.

That does not answer my question. I said want to deposit is made a provider always ends up with cash in their hand. You replied with "not always." I'm still waiting for for an explanation about how a provider doesn't end up with cash in their hand once a client makes a deposit.

Yes it does. You may not be able to dispute evidence based on "I don't recall," but the phrase can prevent you from affirming inculpatory evidence.

So, where is the "not always?"

"Had to?" Certainly some may have "chose to" as a quid pro quo with a prosecutor, but even the dimmest of witnesses can generally be trained to repeat 3 simple words: "I don't recall. "

But there is a guarantee for a provider to get cash with a deposit, right? If not, why would you ask for a deposit?

I had made a general statement about people hiring throughout life for a variety of reasons. You were the one who directly brought it back to youthful and in shape, yet again. there are none so blind as those who will not see [his own prejudices]

People hire providers for a variety of reasons at all stages of life. To assume that anyone has to hire a provider simply to have sex is misinformed.

To agree with @Monarchy79 it's important to actually pay attention to what he said, and what he didn't say. He made a distinction between scenarios where men seek dick and ass, and scenarios where men seek pussy. He didn't say only CLIENTS flake. The providers we're discussing here, as a general rule, are still falling into the first scenario. Therefore, it holds true that many of them are just as likely to flake because something better comes along - more money, hotter client, multi-hour appt, etc. And really the heart of the matter is that only a provider is likely garaunteed a bennifit when a deposit is sent. A provider gets at least some money when a client flakes or lies. If a client pays a deposit they aren't guaranteed anything. No garauntee that the provider reserved a slot, the provider was honest with pics and stats, the provider is sober, the provider can/will do the planned activities, etc. I suppose we can say a client is guaranteed a hassle if they use a service that allows them to dispute the charge.

That seems a perfect illustration of the point regarding individualized experiences not transferring to everyone. Based on what you have said it seems that the phrase is likely true of the people you know and hang out with. And that is not a slam against you or them. While I certainly don't doubt those people exist, I can't say I know any, or know any well. Everyone I know, would likely fall into handsome = someone I'd fuck for free. However, fucking a second time for free, let alone date, requires more! Beauty is divisible by MANY things.

I will certainly not challenge people's greed referenced in the first sentence. However, WHEN a lawsuit is filed, can often be part of a larger legal strategy, so it's likely an attorney chose the when. Unfortunately, we will probably never find out if the plaintiff hired an attorney 6 days ago, or 6 months ago.

I've never been to Japan or the Philippines. However, I have a friend who is Indonesian. I was given strict instructions not to tip on my way to her house. After arriving, I assume for negatiations and tipping faux pas, I wasn't allowed to buy things from locals. Both in Java and Borneo, I gave money to her, or her driver, and they gave money to locals. I have an Aunt who is Oriental, and when I was was with her in Hong Kong, and mainland China, she did not allow me to tip for anything either. She "tipped" only twice in Hong Kong, and never on the mainland. Once, so we could sit in AC inside a bus, and to MY rickshaw driver. I assume I likely weigh close to twice that of the average resident there. In very rural areas of both Borneo and China, some people had never seen a Caucasian person. Some people there, especially children, wanted to give me things so they could touch me. I found it weird - I'd obviously never make it as a successful provider!

There's a big difference between "unwilling" and "passive" participant. Unwilling (and unable) is intrugal to the definition of "rape."

Extortion? Preying on fears? Did I miss something? I have re-read and see only depictions of silence and non-responsiveness. The only preying I see is a client paying a fee for an extremely subpar encounter. Anything else would be self imposed paranoia, and there's no need to plant a seed causing that grow in other members.

That has not been my experience. As someone who has hired more professional masseurs than non-professional, I have experienced most of these problems with both. I believe mastering how to deal with people, and provide good service are learned skills. Only the very basics can be taught via formal instruction, and your answer to another post better illuminates the bigger issue. ROD HAGEN: Oddly, often the guys who charge WAY above average aren't digging the job. And many of us who do love the work, charge average or below and always have. - 3/27/24, in forum 'Discount for in shape, good-looking and younger clients?' No matter what job you do, you always perform the work better when you don't hate the work. I just don't envision, that typically, anyone whose sole thought process is waking up and thinking, "fuck! Rent is due. I guess I am going to have to stroke some guy today to pay the bills, " has the motivation to do the job well.