RugbyBen

That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 
Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear. 

I saw a new masseur earlier this year. 
Lovely set up with a specially built studio in his loft area. As well as the table there are two comfy chairs so we could sit as he asked me questions about my health and any areas I wanted him to focus on. 
A bathroom where you can undress and shower right next door then go back into the room to lie on the table. 
Just made the whole thing more relaxed and put me in the right mood. 
I just booked another appointment and he ended our whatsapp chat with, looking forward to catching up, which had an extra friendly vibe. 
Obviously difficult for many providers too have that much space but the whole experience really elevated the massage which was also excellent. 

That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 
Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear. 

Oh definitely! Particularly when unexpected. I went to see a new masseur at his home last year and he mentioned his husband was working from home so I had written off any chance of anything more. But then he stood there watching me get undressed and suddenly I was getting hard!

A while back I saw that the ex of a friend of mine was now doing massage professionally. 
I contacted him and let him know who I was and he was cool with me hiring him. 
He was mainly just doing therapeutic at the time but there was always a bit of attraction between us so inevitably things happened. I saw him on and off for a few years. He started to offer more sensual and erotic stuff in general. 
I never told my mate though. 

A while back I saw that the ex of a friend of mine was now doing massage professionally. 
I contacted him and let him know who I was and he was cool with me hiring him. 
He was mainly just doing therapeutic at the time but there was always a bit of attraction between us so inevitably things happened. I saw him on and off for a few years. He started to offer more sensual and erotic stuff in general. 
I never told my mate though. 

So if you've booked through his erotic massage site have you seen him for that booking? Surely that's all you should have to do really. 
 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

Too much hassle to prep every time! I don’t bother doing it with regular clients who I know are bottom. Plus the majority of my clients are bottom because I’m hung and that attracts the bottoms😂. So I basically assume they’re not interested in my hole unless they say or imply otherwise when booking. 

As others have said, I would generally let the masseur set the pace. 
If they place their bulge in my hand then it's an obvious green light to touch them but I try not to get in the way of the massage. I don't touch them when it's likely to interrupt their flow. Sometimes I move my hand towards a intimate part of their body but hold off from being pushy about it  and see if they want to move away before exploring further. 
It's like when the massage gets more sexual, I wouldn't try and suck or finger a masseur, for example, unless they make it very obvious they're open to that. 
I had a masseur recently who got really into the sexual part and ended up riding me, but he made all the running, I'm not going any further unless explicitly invited to. 

Yes I have seen him and he’s great. A genuinely nice guy, great massage and extremely well equipped and he seemed to enjoy our massage too 😉 MT and HE.

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

Had my first massage in my early 20s. A mate bought me gift vouchers to a salon for my birthday so I decided to try it. 
All above board but really enjoyed it both from a massage perspective and how horny it made me so looked for someone else where there was a possibility of more. 
Ended up seeing a guy at his flat, attractive Spanish guy in his mid 30s. Good massage and we both ended up naked, his cock in my mouth and he brought me off with his hand while the other was working my prostate. 
That got me hooked and I've been getting massages on and off ever since. Though have been more into recently and generally hire once a month. 

As others have said, I would generally let the masseur set the pace. 
If they place their bulge in my hand then it's an obvious green light to touch them but I try not to get in the way of the massage. I don't touch them when it's likely to interrupt their flow. Sometimes I move my hand towards a intimate part of their body but hold off from being pushy about it  and see if they want to move away before exploring further. 
It's like when the massage gets more sexual, I wouldn't try and suck or finger a masseur, for example, unless they make it very obvious they're open to that. 
I had a masseur recently who got really into the sexual part and ended up riding me, but he made all the running, I'm not going any further unless explicitly invited to. 

As others have said, I would generally let the masseur set the pace. 
If they place their bulge in my hand then it's an obvious green light to touch them but I try not to get in the way of the massage. I don't touch them when it's likely to interrupt their flow. Sometimes I move my hand towards a intimate part of their body but hold off from being pushy about it  and see if they want to move away before exploring further. 
It's like when the massage gets more sexual, I wouldn't try and suck or finger a masseur, for example, unless they make it very obvious they're open to that. 
I had a masseur recently who got really into the sexual part and ended up riding me, but he made all the running, I'm not going any further unless explicitly invited to. 

Had my first massage in my early 20s. A mate bought me gift vouchers to a salon for my birthday so I decided to try it. 
All above board but really enjoyed it both from a massage perspective and how horny it made me so looked for someone else where there was a possibility of more. 
Ended up seeing a guy at his flat, attractive Spanish guy in his mid 30s. Good massage and we both ended up naked, his cock in my mouth and he brought me off with his hand while the other was working my prostate. 
That got me hooked and I've been getting massages on and off ever since. Though have been more into recently and generally hire once a month. 

Had my first massage in my early 20s. A mate bought me gift vouchers to a salon for my birthday so I decided to try it. 
All above board but really enjoyed it both from a massage perspective and how horny it made me so looked for someone else where there was a possibility of more. 
Ended up seeing a guy at his flat, attractive Spanish guy in his mid 30s. Good massage and we both ended up naked, his cock in my mouth and he brought me off with his hand while the other was working my prostate. 
That got me hooked and I've been getting massages on and off ever since. Though have been more into recently and generally hire once a month. 

Had my first massage in my early 20s. A mate bought me gift vouchers to a salon for my birthday so I decided to try it. 
All above board but really enjoyed it both from a massage perspective and how horny it made me so looked for someone else where there was a possibility of more. 
Ended up seeing a guy at his flat, attractive Spanish guy in his mid 30s. Good massage and we both ended up naked, his cock in my mouth and he brought me off with his hand while the other was working my prostate. 
That got me hooked and I've been getting massages on and off ever since. Though have been more into recently and generally hire once a month. 

Had my first massage in my early 20s. A mate bought me gift vouchers to a salon for my birthday so I decided to try it. 
All above board but really enjoyed it both from a massage perspective and how horny it made me so looked for someone else where there was a possibility of more. 
Ended up seeing a guy at his flat, attractive Spanish guy in his mid 30s. Good massage and we both ended up naked, his cock in my mouth and he brought me off with his hand while the other was working my prostate. 
That got me hooked and I've been getting massages on and off ever since. Though have been more into recently and generally hire once a month. 

Had my first massage in my early 20s. A mate bought me gift vouchers to a salon for my birthday so I decided to try it. 
All above board but really enjoyed it both from a massage perspective and how horny it made me so looked for someone else where there was a possibility of more. 
Ended up seeing a guy at his flat, attractive Spanish guy in his mid 30s. Good massage and we both ended up naked, his cock in my mouth and he brought me off with his hand while the other was working my prostate. 
That got me hooked and I've been getting massages on and off ever since. Though have been more into recently and generally hire once a month.