RugbyBen

I nearly always book massages at least a week in advance with the occasional next day appointment. 
I have a regular masseur who maybe on 50% of visits mentions someone has contacted him during my massage looking for an appointment later that day. It is clearly a pain for him because he has his day planned out but often he still does it because of finances. 

Always on a table. 
I've only done a massage on a bed once and although yes it allowed the extras to flow better it wasn't comfortable and the massage itself wasn't as good as when he'd previously done it on a table. 
I usually book qualified masseurs who are open to more but even when I book those on the more sensual/erotic side I'm looking for a decent massage plus it's a lot easier to have an exciting erotic experience on a table than a good comfortable massage on a bed. 

I nearly always book massages at least a week in advance with the occasional next day appointment. 
I have a regular masseur who maybe on 50% of visits mentions someone has contacted him during my massage looking for an appointment later that day. It is clearly a pain for him because he has his day planned out but often he still does it because of finances. 

I've only done a futon on the floor once and it was for a sensual massage training course rather than a massage though I think the guy teaching the course did usually massage like that. 
It was supposed to be learning sensual masage without crossing a line into any sexual activity. I only met the other guy on the course when I arrived for the session but being on the floor did make it more intimate and we came very close to doing more. We were both hard and so was the trainer for a lot of it. It seemed to work better than a bed. 

Yes he really enjoyed it. I would say he seemed a particular fan of his anyway but even so it more than met his expectations. 

Always on a table. 
I've only done a massage on a bed once and although yes it allowed the extras to flow better it wasn't comfortable and the massage itself wasn't as good as when he'd previously done it on a table. 
I usually book qualified masseurs who are open to more but even when I book those on the more sensual/erotic side I'm looking for a decent massage plus it's a lot easier to have an exciting erotic experience on a table than a good comfortable massage on a bed. 

I’m a bit weary, as I saw his first AD where he was called Pedro, which it also said on WhatsApp and then a few days later it was Carlos. The location also changed while still being in the same area, but just made me a bit uneasy. Appreciate most guys are probably using a cover name.
I did chat with him, and the rates for naturist sensual massage is £150/1hr and £200/90min, which does include mutual touch.

A new guy in London I'm very keen to try next time I have the chance
https://www.guysway.co.uk/u/masseur-Carlos2MagicHands

I use rentmasseur.com sometimes but rarely masseurfinder as that doesn't seem to have many London options. 
There are others I'll check like
https://gaywellness.com/
but also in the UK there are some extra options like
https://www.guysway.co.uk/
https://www.ilovemassageuk.com/
https://www.massagesme.uk/
Also just googling gay massage and a local area can be helpful. 

If you are looking for anything in particular from a masseur or want feedback about anyone you like the look of drop me a line and I might be able to help. 

I use rentmasseur.com sometimes but rarely masseurfinder as that doesn't seem to have many London options. 
There are others I'll check like
https://gaywellness.com/
but also in the UK there are some extra options like
https://www.guysway.co.uk/
https://www.ilovemassageuk.com/
https://www.massagesme.uk/
Also just googling gay massage and a local area can be helpful. 

My three closest gay friends all know i hire masseurs though only one of them has really asked me in detail what happens.
When he was last over in a London he was keen for me to recommend a masseur and we compared experiences afterwards. 

That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 
Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear. 

I saw a new masseur earlier this year. 
Lovely set up with a specially built studio in his loft area. As well as the table there are two comfy chairs so we could sit as he asked me questions about my health and any areas I wanted him to focus on. 
A bathroom where you can undress and shower right next door then go back into the room to lie on the table. 
Just made the whole thing more relaxed and put me in the right mood. 
I just booked another appointment and he ended our whatsapp chat with, looking forward to catching up, which had an extra friendly vibe. 
Obviously difficult for many providers too have that much space but the whole experience really elevated the massage which was also excellent. 

That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 
Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear. 

Oh definitely! Particularly when unexpected. I went to see a new masseur at his home last year and he mentioned his husband was working from home so I had written off any chance of anything more. But then he stood there watching me get undressed and suddenly I was getting hard!

A while back I saw that the ex of a friend of mine was now doing massage professionally. 
I contacted him and let him know who I was and he was cool with me hiring him. 
He was mainly just doing therapeutic at the time but there was always a bit of attraction between us so inevitably things happened. I saw him on and off for a few years. He started to offer more sensual and erotic stuff in general. 
I never told my mate though. 

A while back I saw that the ex of a friend of mine was now doing massage professionally. 
I contacted him and let him know who I was and he was cool with me hiring him. 
He was mainly just doing therapeutic at the time but there was always a bit of attraction between us so inevitably things happened. I saw him on and off for a few years. He started to offer more sensual and erotic stuff in general. 
I never told my mate though. 

So if you've booked through his erotic massage site have you seen him for that booking? Surely that's all you should have to do really. 
 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

Too much hassle to prep every time! I don’t bother doing it with regular clients who I know are bottom. Plus the majority of my clients are bottom because I’m hung and that attracts the bottoms😂. So I basically assume they’re not interested in my hole unless they say or imply otherwise when booking. 

As others have said, I would generally let the masseur set the pace. 
If they place their bulge in my hand then it's an obvious green light to touch them but I try not to get in the way of the massage. I don't touch them when it's likely to interrupt their flow. Sometimes I move my hand towards a intimate part of their body but hold off from being pushy about it  and see if they want to move away before exploring further. 
It's like when the massage gets more sexual, I wouldn't try and suck or finger a masseur, for example, unless they make it very obvious they're open to that. 
I had a masseur recently who got really into the sexual part and ended up riding me, but he made all the running, I'm not going any further unless explicitly invited to. 

Yes I have seen him and he’s great. A genuinely nice guy, great massage and extremely well equipped and he seemed to enjoy our massage too 😉 MT and HE.

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 

I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing.