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RugbyBen

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    RugbyBen reacted to Gr8Guy in London Male Massage Therapists that allow you to be naked?   
    That’s great, booked 90 mins with him @ 3pm today  
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    RugbyBen reacted to + KensingtonHomo in *Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?   
    This is such a weird flex. Are you trying to impress us by inferring you're well off, you can throw an extra $150 at a provider who lets you pound him? Or that you're so magnanimous that you're willing to pay people who actually want to fuck you? Do you have a tiered system, like $50 head, $100 for anal? I'm so curious 
    I don't know why this needs to keep being repeated, but some of us hire almost exclusively for convenience. So if some guy I'm already paying to arouse me or get me off wants to fuck me, why am I paying extra? I didn't even request it. 
    You seem convinced every client on here is a troll that lives under a bridge, except you. Girl, that's not the case. Some of us are very sexy. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in London Male Massage Therapists that allow you to be naked?   
    Is this specifically Ayurvedic masseurs you're talking about?
    In my experience the vast majority of male masseurs in London are happy for you to go naked and undraped. I've never been offered disposable underwear. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Otterist in Aidan Ward in London   
    Yes he really enjoyed it. I would say he seemed a particular fan of his anyway but even so it more than met his expectations. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Joey442 in Masseurs in London   
    Yeah that guysway disclaimer means nothing. I don't think I've ever had a massage on there which doesn't result in at least a happy ending. 
    It wasn't that long ago GuysWay looked to be dying off with the same handful of profiles but lately there has been a rush of new guys joining. Lots of guys who aren't on rentmasseur as well. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from JayeMichigan in "Walk-ins"   
    I nearly always book massages at least a week in advance with the occasional next day appointment. 
    I have a regular masseur who maybe on 50% of visits mentions someone has contacted him during my massage looking for an appointment later that day. It is clearly a pain for him because he has his day planned out but often he still does it because of finances. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Leandronyc in Massage on table, bed or floor?   
    Always on a table. 
    I've only done a massage on a bed once and although yes it allowed the extras to flow better it wasn't comfortable and the massage itself wasn't as good as when he'd previously done it on a table. 
    I usually book qualified masseurs who are open to more but even when I book those on the more sensual/erotic side I'm looking for a decent massage plus it's a lot easier to have an exciting erotic experience on a table than a good comfortable massage on a bed. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + Just Sayin in "Walk-ins"   
    I nearly always book massages at least a week in advance with the occasional next day appointment. 
    I have a regular masseur who maybe on 50% of visits mentions someone has contacted him during my massage looking for an appointment later that day. It is clearly a pain for him because he has his day planned out but often he still does it because of finances. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from simongayx in Massage on table, bed or floor?   
    I've only done a futon on the floor once and it was for a sensual massage training course rather than a massage though I think the guy teaching the course did usually massage like that. 
    It was supposed to be learning sensual masage without crossing a line into any sexual activity. I only met the other guy on the course when I arrived for the session but being on the floor did make it more intimate and we came very close to doing more. We were both hard and so was the trainer for a lot of it. It seemed to work better than a bed. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Jon_hx in Aidan Ward in London   
    Yes he really enjoyed it. I would say he seemed a particular fan of his anyway but even so it more than met his expectations. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from simongayx in Massage on table, bed or floor?   
    Always on a table. 
    I've only done a massage on a bed once and although yes it allowed the extras to flow better it wasn't comfortable and the massage itself wasn't as good as when he'd previously done it on a table. 
    I usually book qualified masseurs who are open to more but even when I book those on the more sensual/erotic side I'm looking for a decent massage plus it's a lot easier to have an exciting erotic experience on a table than a good comfortable massage on a bed. 
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    RugbyBen reacted to Gr8Guy in Masseurs in London   
    I’m a bit weary, as I saw his first AD where he was called Pedro, which it also said on WhatsApp and then a few days later it was Carlos. The location also changed while still being in the same area, but just made me a bit uneasy. Appreciate most guys are probably using a cover name.
    I did chat with him, and the rates for naturist sensual massage is £150/1hr and £200/90min, which does include mutual touch.
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from MikeW in Your go to source to find massuers   
    I use rentmasseur.com sometimes but rarely masseurfinder as that doesn't seem to have many London options. 
    There are others I'll check like
    https://gaywellness.com/
    but also in the UK there are some extra options like
    https://www.guysway.co.uk/
    https://www.ilovemassageuk.com/
    https://www.massagesme.uk/
    Also just googling gay massage and a local area can be helpful. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Dallas Jayson in Your go to source to find massuers   
    If you are looking for anything in particular from a masseur or want feedback about anyone you like the look of drop me a line and I might be able to help. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Dallas Jayson in Your go to source to find massuers   
    I use rentmasseur.com sometimes but rarely masseurfinder as that doesn't seem to have many London options. 
    There are others I'll check like
    https://gaywellness.com/
    but also in the UK there are some extra options like
    https://www.guysway.co.uk/
    https://www.ilovemassageuk.com/
    https://www.massagesme.uk/
    Also just googling gay massage and a local area can be helpful. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Redwine56 in Does anyone know you're doing this?   
    My three closest gay friends all know i hire masseurs though only one of them has really asked me in detail what happens.
    When he was last over in a London he was keen for me to recommend a masseur and we compared experiences afterwards. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from TxDaddyBear in What special touches do you like from your providers?   
    That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 
    Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from TxDaddyBear in What special touches do you like from your providers?   
    I saw a new masseur earlier this year. 
    Lovely set up with a specially built studio in his loft area. As well as the table there are two comfy chairs so we could sit as he asked me questions about my health and any areas I wanted him to focus on. 
    A bathroom where you can undress and shower right next door then go back into the room to lie on the table. 
    Just made the whole thing more relaxed and put me in the right mood. 
    I just booked another appointment and he ended our whatsapp chat with, looking forward to catching up, which had an extra friendly vibe. 
    Obviously difficult for many providers too have that much space but the whole experience really elevated the massage which was also excellent. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from BeHappy in What special touches do you like from your providers?   
    That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 
    Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from BJohnson in When do you get aroused during a massage?   
    Oh definitely! Particularly when unexpected. I went to see a new masseur at his home last year and he mentioned his husband was working from home so I had written off any chance of anything more. But then he stood there watching me get undressed and suddenly I was getting hard!
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Boaxxx in Has anyone hired a provider that you had know previously?   
    A while back I saw that the ex of a friend of mine was now doing massage professionally. 
    I contacted him and let him know who I was and he was cool with me hiring him. 
    He was mainly just doing therapeutic at the time but there was always a bit of attraction between us so inevitably things happened. I saw him on and off for a few years. He started to offer more sensual and erotic stuff in general. 
    I never told my mate though. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from big-n-tall in Has anyone hired a provider that you had know previously?   
    A while back I saw that the ex of a friend of mine was now doing massage professionally. 
    I contacted him and let him know who I was and he was cool with me hiring him. 
    He was mainly just doing therapeutic at the time but there was always a bit of attraction between us so inevitably things happened. I saw him on and off for a few years. He started to offer more sensual and erotic stuff in general. 
    I never told my mate though. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from GymGuy in Masseur who offers professional and erotic massages   
    So if you've booked through his erotic massage site have you seen him for that booking? Surely that's all you should have to do really. 
     
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + Just Sayin in How long have you been doing this?   
    I hired masseurs in my 20s because I found massage highly erotic as well as just making my body feel better. Had plenty of sexual outlets but just enjoyed it and my reasons haven't changed. 
    Plus something to be said for an easy drama free moment with someone who knows that they're doing. 
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    RugbyBen reacted to + Jamie21 in What’s mutual touch to you?   
    Too much hassle to prep every time! I don’t bother doing it with regular clients who I know are bottom. Plus the majority of my clients are bottom because I’m hung and that attracts the bottoms😂. So I basically assume they’re not interested in my hole unless they say or imply otherwise when booking. 
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