Dave

I've turned into THAT GUY. I always strive to have a "clean as a whistle" ass, after taking a crap. Just in case anyone's gonna whistle into it (or make out with it, or whatever those people do, who - what do they call it? "rum" or "Ram" or "rim"...?) anyways, y'all get the point: I never know when that moment's gonna be, and I've just found it easier to make sure it's always really good down there.
 
so... especially, living here in bali... we have butt sprayers next to toilets, and I've realized: they're a heck of a lot more efficient than paper. plus, as seen in that spanish-lang video earlier, less trees get damaged!
 
a while ago I heard about a way to keep clean - "the escort's way". naturally, I was interested to learn what that was, when I heard the term. basically: first a good spray of water. then: a soapy finger from my left hand, inserted, cleaning around the insides - but just around 2 inches is enough depth. then: washing of said finger, and then: repeat the fingering-yourself/washing-your-finger routine. the whole thing usually takes three times, for me - sometimes four. all in the amount of time it takes to read this info about toilet paper out loud:


"Toilet paper wipes out 27,000 trees a day. Worldwide, the equivalent of almost 270,000 trees is either flushed or dumped in landfills every day and roughly 10 percent of that total is attributable to toilet paper, according to the latest issue of World Watch magazine. Hardwood trees like gum, maple and oak have shorter fibers that make a softer paper. Toilet paper is generally a combination of approximately 70% hardwood and 30% softwood. Other materials used in manufacture include water, chemicals for breaking down the trees into usable fiber, and bleaches. Toilet paper started being produced in a white color because homeowners could then color coordinate their toilet paper with their bathrooms. It turns out the dye in colored toilet paper had several negative consequences for both the users and producers. It made colored toilet paper too expensive to produce than its white counterpart."
 
full disclosure: there is an additional bit of time I spend washing that finger afterwards. hmmm, maybe that should be a question here: how much time do y'all spend washing your hands after shitting?
 
by the way, here in bali we have toilet paper that's sold without the cardboard roll inside. it still has that round space, but somehow they start it rolling on something else (maybe metal?) thereby eliminating the need for that thing.
 
so to answer your question more directly: I don't wipe, I go in.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

Adventurous Old Guy, I'm really glad you can recognize this. so much of our work has roots of dealing with people who are not, essentially, trustworthy.
 
I'm not saying all clients are not trustworthy... I'm saying the industry of escorting probably has a much higher percentage of people who frequently lie, than other industries. to hear that you realize how important trust-building is for working guys, shows how you respect us.
 
the flip side, in case I'm not being clear, are clients who objectify us... and if they change their mind and cancel an appointment, they think "it's not a big deal" to the escort, "he can just get another client that night." it's rare when clients realize that we escorts are usually excited about the upcoming appointment, too.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

Thank you @Dave for sharing.

I think one of my clients has a kid.
 
Shit, I even have a kid! Two, actually.
 
Maybe that's why I know what Topinla means when he writes "I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind." It was for me, too.
 
Topinla, many of us are concerned with overpopulation on the planet. I can assure you - you're not alone. If you want to speak with someone about it and don't want to do so while topping him, know that you can always contact me. We can discuss birth control, depletion of precious resources, the reduced mortality rate, vasectomies, or whatever else you want to talk about.
 
And by the way... there's a good chance he's taking birth control with you, so don't worry about becoming a father while you fuck the hell out of that breeder.

Geez... all my responses are taken.
 
I hate when that happens.

So my biggest regret in this space is a date I had in DC with Alec Andrews when we overlapped there. We'd had a really fun flirty planning call and I was so jacked to top his beautiful bum. For those of you who know DC, he was staying at the JWMarriott. I was literally 1 block away at the Occidental Grille with a client -- my biggest client -- who just learned that he had won a HUGE contract because of help I gave him. He insisted on celebrating, and it was hard to say no. Couple texts to Alec asking if we could push back, he was great. Then, having reached a certain blood alcohol level the client dove off the ledge with personal problems -- he was drunk and pouring out his soul as the waiter continued to pour wine. Then Bourb0n. Dinner past, we moved to the bar. More pouring there, couple more texts to Alec. Progressing, the bar was closing but the bartender kept pouring. He was in an empathetic mood and drinking with us-- his Audi had been stolen from outside the restaurant, he'd called the police and they'd told him it was most likely in pieces by now. I'm not making this up. Final text --or was it email -- around 11 PM to Alec, apologized and paid in full via PayPal. Got a very nice thank you for being a stand up guy.
 
And then...Alec retired. insert existential sigh here.
 
Bottom line, very memorable night. The bartender and I still talk about it. But I never got to meet -- or plow -- Alec. So Alec, if you're still on this forum and ever come out of retirement, I hope I have some kind of karmic credit in the bank. :rolleyes:
 
Memories...misty water-colored memories...of the way we weren't.

I had the reverse problem. Set up an in-call to an escort's hotel. Texted/called him a couple of times from the hotel lobby. Left after about 25-30 minutes, but got stressed out thinking he might be unconscious in a ditch somewhere. Couple of hours later, his "Available Now" light was on. Then I thought he might look good in that ditch.

I will say this if a client Does a no show and doesn't text or call I put him in my phone as a no show, and probably will never take another text or call from them ever again. it's just my way. Because I do set my sessions up by appointment and if someone doesn't have the common courtesy to call or text then they just messed up for life with me. I don't have time to play other people's games. Now if there is a call or text saying they will be late or have to reschedule that's ok. Clients dont want there time waisted and neither do I. I'm a very easy going guy but I dont like no shows, my phone is full of blocked clients.
And dont forget that alot of clients like to price shop and may set up with you but get 20 off by another provider and guess what they forgot all about you and not call or text to cancel. It's the nature of the game.
But here recently I've had a lot of no shows. And because of the new websites that are coming out since the shutdown of back page you come across so many people that don't know what they're doing and don't know etiquette. I ran across people that like to get very very very explicit, Which to me I don't like. I have 2 friends that just got locked up By a cop that posed as a client, So getting explicit with a provider is not something you should do, Maybe you should just read the profile and gather from it what you want.
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Don't think so -- main goal was to make the fairness point -- but if that's how it strikes you I guess everyone's free to draw their own conclusions.

My business has, arguably, a similar/parallel circumstance which is dependent upon people honoring their commitments, and when they don’t, blame can be found on both sides of the equation. For the most part, business proceeds smoothly. When it doesn’t (over the years) I’ve adopted the following point of view a) not to colorize the whole business based on the actions of a few b) accept the loss as part of doing business and c) forgive and move on. In general, the success of the business is my overall reward.

I've turned into THAT GUY. I always strive to have a "clean as a whistle" ass, after taking a crap. Just in case anyone's gonna whistle into it (or make out with it, or whatever those people do, who - what do they call it? "rum" or "Ram" or "rim"...?) anyways, y'all get the point: I never know when that moment's gonna be, and I've just found it easier to make sure it's always really good down there.
 
so... especially, living here in bali... we have butt sprayers next to toilets, and I've realized: they're a heck of a lot more efficient than paper. plus, as seen in that spanish-lang video earlier, less trees get damaged!
 
a while ago I heard about a way to keep clean - "the escort's way". naturally, I was interested to learn what that was, when I heard the term. basically: first a good spray of water. then: a soapy finger from my left hand, inserted, cleaning around the insides - but just around 2 inches is enough depth. then: washing of said finger, and then: repeat the fingering-yourself/washing-your-finger routine. the whole thing usually takes three times, for me - sometimes four. all in the amount of time it takes to read this info about toilet paper out loud:


"Toilet paper wipes out 27,000 trees a day. Worldwide, the equivalent of almost 270,000 trees is either flushed or dumped in landfills every day and roughly 10 percent of that total is attributable to toilet paper, according to the latest issue of World Watch magazine. Hardwood trees like gum, maple and oak have shorter fibers that make a softer paper. Toilet paper is generally a combination of approximately 70% hardwood and 30% softwood. Other materials used in manufacture include water, chemicals for breaking down the trees into usable fiber, and bleaches. Toilet paper started being produced in a white color because homeowners could then color coordinate their toilet paper with their bathrooms. It turns out the dye in colored toilet paper had several negative consequences for both the users and producers. It made colored toilet paper too expensive to produce than its white counterpart."
 
full disclosure: there is an additional bit of time I spend washing that finger afterwards. hmmm, maybe that should be a question here: how much time do y'all spend washing your hands after shitting?
 
by the way, here in bali we have toilet paper that's sold without the cardboard roll inside. it still has that round space, but somehow they start it rolling on something else (maybe metal?) thereby eliminating the need for that thing.
 
so to answer your question more directly: I don't wipe, I go in.

I'd clarify just a few things beforehand:
 
- does he need some time to himself during the 24 hours? if so, how much...
- if he gets phone calls, does he prefer to take them? does he always hold off from them? same clarification with texts, emails. for you, just knowing what his perspective is on this, would be helpful so expectations are in order.
- food, gosh, yeah, I love what the earlier poster said in this thread... 3 meals a day. nothing drives me crazier (well there are some things, grin...) than when a client wants to forgo a meal. I put out a lot of physical energy, and I, for one, need fuel. it's fine if a client doesnt want to eat, but I do. my point here is just talk with him first to clarify his fuel needs, heh heh. and you might as well ask then if he has any dietary needs, too.
 
remember to just enjoy the fact that you'll have extended time with that guy. seriously, I've been with a number of clients who seem to bring their bucket list along, and that takes the spontaneity out of the experience.

I'd clarify just a few things beforehand:
 
- does he need some time to himself during the 24 hours? if so, how much...
- if he gets phone calls, does he prefer to take them? does he always hold off from them? same clarification with texts, emails. for you, just knowing what his perspective is on this, would be helpful so expectations are in order.
- food, gosh, yeah, I love what the earlier poster said in this thread... 3 meals a day. nothing drives me crazier (well there are some things, grin...) than when a client wants to forgo a meal. I put out a lot of physical energy, and I, for one, need fuel. it's fine if a client doesnt want to eat, but I do. my point here is just talk with him first to clarify his fuel needs, heh heh. and you might as well ask then if he has any dietary needs, too.
 
remember to just enjoy the fact that you'll have extended time with that guy. seriously, I've been with a number of clients who seem to bring their bucket list along, and that takes the spontaneity out of the experience.

I'd clarify just a few things beforehand:
 
- does he need some time to himself during the 24 hours? if so, how much...
- if he gets phone calls, does he prefer to take them? does he always hold off from them? same clarification with texts, emails. for you, just knowing what his perspective is on this, would be helpful so expectations are in order.
- food, gosh, yeah, I love what the earlier poster said in this thread... 3 meals a day. nothing drives me crazier (well there are some things, grin...) than when a client wants to forgo a meal. I put out a lot of physical energy, and I, for one, need fuel. it's fine if a client doesnt want to eat, but I do. my point here is just talk with him first to clarify his fuel needs, heh heh. and you might as well ask then if he has any dietary needs, too.
 
remember to just enjoy the fact that you'll have extended time with that guy. seriously, I've been with a number of clients who seem to bring their bucket list along, and that takes the spontaneity out of the experience.

recently, someone wrote on the message forum the following about me:
 
“...at what age or after which experience or after what achievement did this guy regard himself as "Legendary" ??....Did he declare that himself or did a client first refer to him as such......I know nothing about the guy.....just curious.”
 
since he seems so curious, I’ll explain how the Legendary moniker came to be. I've been asked this by clients sometimes too, so I bet there are others out there who are wondering this as well.


(put your head in my lap, son... this will take a few minutes, and we both should be, um, comfortable... heh heh).
 
I was once told by a client after a particular experience that I was “amazing." I laughed and said thanks. he said something like, "no really, you are phenomenal. I'd heard about you before, but didn't think it'd be like this. you are really amazing - actually, you're legendary.”
 
I didn't assume the moniker until about a year later. I was re-doing my website and was changing the URL, too. figuring branding might be good, I recalled that guy saying that, and so amongst other ideas, came up with "The Legendary Dave". I thought about what other people had said about me, and weighed what felt seemed right. "Amazing Dave" seemed ridiculous, and a little magician-like. other terms seemed over the top, but "Legendary" sounded good to me. looking it up to see if I was interpreting it in the correct way, I found this:
 


(click here for) The Oxford Dictionary Definition of Legendary
I liked the 2nd definition there: "Remarkable enough to be famous; very well known."
especially the usage example, ‘her wisdom in matters of childbirth was legendary’
 
now, I don't do much with women and childbirth as an escort, but I have taught about sex in various countries all over the world (subjects are at that link) - and I suppose I'm sought after because I have the knowledge and am willing to share it. I have taught at sex centers and sex conferences, in universities, for private groups, and even for individuals. one of my most well-known classes was HOW TO WH0RE... which I no longer keep on the page, due to the turning tide of the internet after the rentboy bust three years ago, and continuing to this day with fosta-sesta. meanwhile, I have more reviews than any male escort I know - and no, I don't pay for them. also, I'm known for my work as an activist within the sex worker movement. I've received accolades from Daddy himself (DaddysReviews dot com) as well as the owner of Rentmen dot com. and I'm lucky to have many friends who are well known in the sex industry, from male and female porn stars to some of the most sought-after escorts in the world. what I've accomplished and contributed to the escort industry/adult industry has made me Legendary. somehow, I became "famous" and "very well known".
 
after launching the website and using the moniker The Legendary Dave for a year or so, I got a lot of positive feedback, so I kept it. sure, once in a while there’s still someone who'll jump on the (admittedly) rather ballsy name. at this point though, I think it's a hell of a lot better than calling myself names like these:


TheBestInTown, SexyBabe, HotGuy, BestInTheBiz, TheStud, AlexUrFantasy, KingSmigitto, DreamBoyy, Cool Guy.
those are all actual working names that I've just pulled off an escort site - and although I'm sure some of these guys are amazing, none of those names would be names I'd personally be comfortable with.
 
I sincerely hope that explains my own rationale behind the moniker.
 
in the end, names of most escorts are made up. Rod Target is not likely to be Rod Target... his real name may be Marvin Norkowski. but he knows that won’t attract as much attention as the working name he’s taken. give him space, and let him give you (his) Rod. and just like shopping for other things, if you don't fancy his name, move on. you get that choice.
 
as for not knowing anything about me...
“I know nothing about the guy.....just curious.”
 
what about going to DaddysReviews to see what’s there?
 
also, I’d encourage you to visit my website. don’t worry, it’s not all one-sided. In addition to an in-depth description of myself, rates, and photos, there’s a good deal of info on sex in general, tips for contacting me, and a link to hiring and being with escorts, created by someone else. but since you weren’t asking me directly about me, perhaps the thing you might find most helpful are the reviews by others (there’s about 250 posted there, all under the “Why” tab).
 
xxx,
Dave

Anne Frank, a nun, and a hooker are up in an attic...
 
sorry. tasteless.
but since I did play Otto Frank in The Diary of Anne Frank a few years ago, and had audiences streaming tears at the end of the play... perhaps inserting a little humor here is ok? I mean, I just learned my daughter's been writing smut. I could use a little comic relief...
 
sorry. tasteless, again.

recently, someone wrote on the message forum the following about me:
 
“...at what age or after which experience or after what achievement did this guy regard himself as "Legendary" ??....Did he declare that himself or did a client first refer to him as such......I know nothing about the guy.....just curious.”
 
since he seems so curious, I’ll explain how the Legendary moniker came to be. I've been asked this by clients sometimes too, so I bet there are others out there who are wondering this as well.


(put your head in my lap, son... this will take a few minutes, and we both should be, um, comfortable... heh heh).
 
I was once told by a client after a particular experience that I was “amazing." I laughed and said thanks. he said something like, "no really, you are phenomenal. I'd heard about you before, but didn't think it'd be like this. you are really amazing - actually, you're legendary.”
 
I didn't assume the moniker until about a year later. I was re-doing my website and was changing the URL, too. figuring branding might be good, I recalled that guy saying that, and so amongst other ideas, came up with "The Legendary Dave". I thought about what other people had said about me, and weighed what felt seemed right. "Amazing Dave" seemed ridiculous, and a little magician-like. other terms seemed over the top, but "Legendary" sounded good to me. looking it up to see if I was interpreting it in the correct way, I found this:
 


(click here for) The Oxford Dictionary Definition of Legendary
I liked the 2nd definition there: "Remarkable enough to be famous; very well known."
especially the usage example, ‘her wisdom in matters of childbirth was legendary’
 
now, I don't do much with women and childbirth as an escort, but I have taught about sex in various countries all over the world (subjects are at that link) - and I suppose I'm sought after because I have the knowledge and am willing to share it. I have taught at sex centers and sex conferences, in universities, for private groups, and even for individuals. one of my most well-known classes was HOW TO WH0RE... which I no longer keep on the page, due to the turning tide of the internet after the rentboy bust three years ago, and continuing to this day with fosta-sesta. meanwhile, I have more reviews than any male escort I know - and no, I don't pay for them. also, I'm known for my work as an activist within the sex worker movement. I've received accolades from Daddy himself (DaddysReviews dot com) as well as the owner of Rentmen dot com. and I'm lucky to have many friends who are well known in the sex industry, from male and female porn stars to some of the most sought-after escorts in the world. what I've accomplished and contributed to the escort industry/adult industry has made me Legendary. somehow, I became "famous" and "very well known".
 
after launching the website and using the moniker The Legendary Dave for a year or so, I got a lot of positive feedback, so I kept it. sure, once in a while there’s still someone who'll jump on the (admittedly) rather ballsy name. at this point though, I think it's a hell of a lot better than calling myself names like these:


TheBestInTown, SexyBabe, HotGuy, BestInTheBiz, TheStud, AlexUrFantasy, KingSmigitto, DreamBoyy, Cool Guy.
those are all actual working names that I've just pulled off an escort site - and although I'm sure some of these guys are amazing, none of those names would be names I'd personally be comfortable with.
 
I sincerely hope that explains my own rationale behind the moniker.
 
in the end, names of most escorts are made up. Rod Target is not likely to be Rod Target... his real name may be Marvin Norkowski. but he knows that won’t attract as much attention as the working name he’s taken. give him space, and let him give you (his) Rod. and just like shopping for other things, if you don't fancy his name, move on. you get that choice.
 
as for not knowing anything about me...
“I know nothing about the guy.....just curious.”
 
what about going to DaddysReviews to see what’s there?
 
also, I’d encourage you to visit my website. don’t worry, it’s not all one-sided. In addition to an in-depth description of myself, rates, and photos, there’s a good deal of info on sex in general, tips for contacting me, and a link to hiring and being with escorts, created by someone else. but since you weren’t asking me directly about me, perhaps the thing you might find most helpful are the reviews by others (there’s about 250 posted there, all under the “Why” tab).
 
xxx,
Dave

recently, someone wrote on the message forum the following about me:
 
“...at what age or after which experience or after what achievement did this guy regard himself as "Legendary" ??....Did he declare that himself or did a client first refer to him as such......I know nothing about the guy.....just curious.”
 
since he seems so curious, I’ll explain how the Legendary moniker came to be. I've been asked this by clients sometimes too, so I bet there are others out there who are wondering this as well.


(put your head in my lap, son... this will take a few minutes, and we both should be, um, comfortable... heh heh).
 
I was once told by a client after a particular experience that I was “amazing." I laughed and said thanks. he said something like, "no really, you are phenomenal. I'd heard about you before, but didn't think it'd be like this. you are really amazing - actually, you're legendary.”
 
I didn't assume the moniker until about a year later. I was re-doing my website and was changing the URL, too. figuring branding might be good, I recalled that guy saying that, and so amongst other ideas, came up with "The Legendary Dave". I thought about what other people had said about me, and weighed what felt seemed right. "Amazing Dave" seemed ridiculous, and a little magician-like. other terms seemed over the top, but "Legendary" sounded good to me. looking it up to see if I was interpreting it in the correct way, I found this:
 


(click here for) The Oxford Dictionary Definition of Legendary
I liked the 2nd definition there: "Remarkable enough to be famous; very well known."
especially the usage example, ‘her wisdom in matters of childbirth was legendary’
 
now, I don't do much with women and childbirth as an escort, but I have taught about sex in various countries all over the world (subjects are at that link) - and I suppose I'm sought after because I have the knowledge and am willing to share it. I have taught at sex centers and sex conferences, in universities, for private groups, and even for individuals. one of my most well-known classes was HOW TO WH0RE... which I no longer keep on the page, due to the turning tide of the internet after the rentboy bust three years ago, and continuing to this day with fosta-sesta. meanwhile, I have more reviews than any male escort I know - and no, I don't pay for them. also, I'm known for my work as an activist within the sex worker movement. I've received accolades from Daddy himself (DaddysReviews dot com) as well as the owner of Rentmen dot com. and I'm lucky to have many friends who are well known in the sex industry, from male and female porn stars to some of the most sought-after escorts in the world. what I've accomplished and contributed to the escort industry/adult industry has made me Legendary. somehow, I became "famous" and "very well known".
 
after launching the website and using the moniker The Legendary Dave for a year or so, I got a lot of positive feedback, so I kept it. sure, once in a while there’s still someone who'll jump on the (admittedly) rather ballsy name. at this point though, I think it's a hell of a lot better than calling myself names like these:


TheBestInTown, SexyBabe, HotGuy, BestInTheBiz, TheStud, AlexUrFantasy, KingSmigitto, DreamBoyy, Cool Guy.
those are all actual working names that I've just pulled off an escort site - and although I'm sure some of these guys are amazing, none of those names would be names I'd personally be comfortable with.
 
I sincerely hope that explains my own rationale behind the moniker.
 
in the end, names of most escorts are made up. Rod Target is not likely to be Rod Target... his real name may be Marvin Norkowski. but he knows that won’t attract as much attention as the working name he’s taken. give him space, and let him give you (his) Rod. and just like shopping for other things, if you don't fancy his name, move on. you get that choice.
 
as for not knowing anything about me...
“I know nothing about the guy.....just curious.”
 
what about going to DaddysReviews to see what’s there?
 
also, I’d encourage you to visit my website. don’t worry, it’s not all one-sided. In addition to an in-depth description of myself, rates, and photos, there’s a good deal of info on sex in general, tips for contacting me, and a link to hiring and being with escorts, created by someone else. but since you weren’t asking me directly about me, perhaps the thing you might find most helpful are the reviews by others (there’s about 250 posted there, all under the “Why” tab).
 
xxx,
Dave

fair enough, latbear4blk. thanks for clarifying. and thanks for this newer fish gif; it's a lot nicer to see a fish being fed, than being pulled out of the water
 
I still think this warrants a conversation. because the fact is escorts, crunched by both laws and social stigma, are unable to advertise their services in the same ways as other professions. our options are pretty limited. we can be on escort websites, or in-print (often in lgbt rags or the backs of porn mags), but those options have been diminishing over the last few years: think of the charges against rentboy in 2015, the demise of backpage and craigslist’s personals over these past 12 months, and the more recent enactment of fosta and sesta in the united states.
 
so, how else can escorts advertise? one way is by hanging out on the street - which has its own set of complications. another is by acting as a hustler in a bar, which can also be quite problematic.
 
but a forum, where escorts can discuss their services, and people can interact with the escorts? that seems like a great way for working guys to peddle themselves! alas, this message-forum has so much potential, but as we've all seen, forums allow some to spend their time writing negative non-face-to-face comments. like everything else on the internet, it runs the risk of people writing comments they would never actually say to a person’s face. in other words, it’s easy to be rude about a person’s forum post. it strikes me, though, as either being mean, or not doing the harder work to think things through.
 
if you want to ask about my moniker, wklucas, that’s fine (and it’s been written about a few times before). I’ll post an explanation for you in another thread - maybe in the Lounge, I guess. but the other stuff you mention - worrying about the exact location on the forum for my upcoming travel, or saying I’m trolling - well, it makes it seem like you want to derail my post. and yes, I’ll admit it - that post was to sell my services. what is so wrong with an escort selling his services this way??? I’m getting the word out that I can be in those locations. The Lounge is listed as “a place to gather and exchange ideas” - but usually it's not ideas about escorts in particular. The Deli is “an area to discuss escorts” - doesn't seem like a place for an escort to post his travel options. Escort Travels is “an area for escorts to list their travel plans” - which is what I’m doing. emphasis on plans.
 
I'm feeling a little like I'm on a college campus with a hypersensitive millenial up in arms over communication. the irony is, over the years reading this forum, I’ve read so many client posters who lament that escorts don’t chime in here and write. well, I can’t speak for everyone, but - this is one reason why I limit my own input here. I suspect you're a nice guy, wklucas... please, relax and let this be a place for everyone. I’m just trying to sell my time. sure, it’s a little different than the way others do things. I guess I’m not your typical escort - and perhaps that’s not what you’re seeking. no problem... live and let live, eh?
 
peace, readers...
hope I can continue to hear about people who want to set up an appointment in the vegas/phoenix/san diego region of the world.

many people in the world are attractive. and there's a much smaller percentage of ppl who are, what I'll call, "Model Good Looking" - those who turn heads every time they walk into a restaurant, as an example.
in my experience with MGL ppl - from having had one boyfriend that I'll consider "MGL", and one girlfriend too, to being close with several MGL male and female colleagues in the adult industry, to having some male and female MGL clients, to having a few good and long-term MGL friends - I've learned these things:
 
- they're sometimes quite frustrated with how good looking they are, because there's more than a few people who just won't stop commenting on their looks, instead of moving on to some other aspects, like their personality or intelligence.
- almost all of them have more insecurities, or are lacking in some particular departments of confidence, than the average person. I'm not saying that a fair number of average-looking people don't also suffer from insecurities... just that with the MGLs, this is more likely to be the case.
- although they get a lot of attention in one way, they do not get approached by others as a love interest - or at least, that's what they perceive. their explanation (and I've heard this from more than a few)... they think that people assume they're out of the MGL's league... or that the MGL, being so incredibly good looking, must undoubtedly already be in a relationship.
 
in my own experience, the only times it's odd is when we (me and the MGL) are around others, and that other person is going on ad nauseam about the MGL's looks, and the MGL feels awkward. the conversation gets weird because that other person's focus is based on superficialities (looks, I mean). I think I'm just of average attractiveness, but at times I've even felt a bit of the MGL's level of discomfort.
 
over time, as I've learned all this, I've found the MGL's experience to be a really interesting one.
on another note, I feel quite lucky to have these relationships - love or friendship or client - where confidence like that has been shared with me.

many people in the world are attractive. and there's a much smaller percentage of ppl who are, what I'll call, "Model Good Looking" - those who turn heads every time they walk into a restaurant, as an example.
in my experience with MGL ppl - from having had one boyfriend that I'll consider "MGL", and one girlfriend too, to being close with several MGL male and female colleagues in the adult industry, to having some male and female MGL clients, to having a few good and long-term MGL friends - I've learned these things:
 
- they're sometimes quite frustrated with how good looking they are, because there's more than a few people who just won't stop commenting on their looks, instead of moving on to some other aspects, like their personality or intelligence.
- almost all of them have more insecurities, or are lacking in some particular departments of confidence, than the average person. I'm not saying that a fair number of average-looking people don't also suffer from insecurities... just that with the MGLs, this is more likely to be the case.
- although they get a lot of attention in one way, they do not get approached by others as a love interest - or at least, that's what they perceive. their explanation (and I've heard this from more than a few)... they think that people assume they're out of the MGL's league... or that the MGL, being so incredibly good looking, must undoubtedly already be in a relationship.
 
in my own experience, the only times it's odd is when we (me and the MGL) are around others, and that other person is going on ad nauseam about the MGL's looks, and the MGL feels awkward. the conversation gets weird because that other person's focus is based on superficialities (looks, I mean). I think I'm just of average attractiveness, but at times I've even felt a bit of the MGL's level of discomfort.
 
over time, as I've learned all this, I've found the MGL's experience to be a really interesting one.
on another note, I feel quite lucky to have these relationships - love or friendship or client - where confidence like that has been shared with me.

many people in the world are attractive. and there's a much smaller percentage of ppl who are, what I'll call, "Model Good Looking" - those who turn heads every time they walk into a restaurant, as an example.
in my experience with MGL ppl - from having had one boyfriend that I'll consider "MGL", and one girlfriend too, to being close with several MGL male and female colleagues in the adult industry, to having some male and female MGL clients, to having a few good and long-term MGL friends - I've learned these things:
 
- they're sometimes quite frustrated with how good looking they are, because there's more than a few people who just won't stop commenting on their looks, instead of moving on to some other aspects, like their personality or intelligence.
- almost all of them have more insecurities, or are lacking in some particular departments of confidence, than the average person. I'm not saying that a fair number of average-looking people don't also suffer from insecurities... just that with the MGLs, this is more likely to be the case.
- although they get a lot of attention in one way, they do not get approached by others as a love interest - or at least, that's what they perceive. their explanation (and I've heard this from more than a few)... they think that people assume they're out of the MGL's league... or that the MGL, being so incredibly good looking, must undoubtedly already be in a relationship.
 
in my own experience, the only times it's odd is when we (me and the MGL) are around others, and that other person is going on ad nauseam about the MGL's looks, and the MGL feels awkward. the conversation gets weird because that other person's focus is based on superficialities (looks, I mean). I think I'm just of average attractiveness, but at times I've even felt a bit of the MGL's level of discomfort.
 
over time, as I've learned all this, I've found the MGL's experience to be a really interesting one.
on another note, I feel quite lucky to have these relationships - love or friendship or client - where confidence like that has been shared with me.

many people in the world are attractive. and there's a much smaller percentage of ppl who are, what I'll call, "Model Good Looking" - those who turn heads every time they walk into a restaurant, as an example.
in my experience with MGL ppl - from having had one boyfriend that I'll consider "MGL", and one girlfriend too, to being close with several MGL male and female colleagues in the adult industry, to having some male and female MGL clients, to having a few good and long-term MGL friends - I've learned these things:
 
- they're sometimes quite frustrated with how good looking they are, because there's more than a few people who just won't stop commenting on their looks, instead of moving on to some other aspects, like their personality or intelligence.
- almost all of them have more insecurities, or are lacking in some particular departments of confidence, than the average person. I'm not saying that a fair number of average-looking people don't also suffer from insecurities... just that with the MGLs, this is more likely to be the case.
- although they get a lot of attention in one way, they do not get approached by others as a love interest - or at least, that's what they perceive. their explanation (and I've heard this from more than a few)... they think that people assume they're out of the MGL's league... or that the MGL, being so incredibly good looking, must undoubtedly already be in a relationship.
 
in my own experience, the only times it's odd is when we (me and the MGL) are around others, and that other person is going on ad nauseam about the MGL's looks, and the MGL feels awkward. the conversation gets weird because that other person's focus is based on superficialities (looks, I mean). I think I'm just of average attractiveness, but at times I've even felt a bit of the MGL's level of discomfort.
 
over time, as I've learned all this, I've found the MGL's experience to be a really interesting one.
on another note, I feel quite lucky to have these relationships - love or friendship or client - where confidence like that has been shared with me.