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Ii no longer walk my dogs as I have my backyard fenced for them but when IO take thenm out for a stroll and they decide to pee, I try to have it be on pavement.  I do not fuss with the dogs if they are walking on the lawn edge as the pavement may be too hot for their paws.  I do not mind people walking on my lawn though I was taken aback when a parent with an ATV drove up to my door with his kids in a trailer in their Halloween custumes.  I live on a corner and with no sidewalks so sometimes walking on the lawn edge is necessary to avoid car traffic.  I would rather the footprints on the lawn rather than a blood trail. 

Lie, kind of.  Say, something to the effect that I was really looking forward to meeting you but something urgent came up and I really needed to take care of it.  Is it alright to contact when I have a bit more time.  Thanks for answering so quickly.  

Ii no longer walk my dogs as I have my backyard fenced for them but when IO take thenm out for a stroll and they decide to pee, I try to have it be on pavement.  I do not fuss with the dogs if they are walking on the lawn edge as the pavement may be too hot for their paws.  I do not mind people walking on my lawn though I was taken aback when a parent with an ATV drove up to my door with his kids in a trailer in their Halloween custumes.  I live on a corner and with no sidewalks so sometimes walking on the lawn edge is necessary to avoid car traffic.  I would rather the footprints on the lawn rather than a blood trail. 

This is generally an affluent group so it is not a surprise to have many people with no debt.  I am also an Amex user with monthly full balance payments taken automatically.  I use Amex to pay all my purchases and bills.  I see no reason for automatic payments of utilities and the like when I can have them paid automatically through Amex  and get the points.  When I redid my kitchen, I got all of my appliance with points and racked up a bunch of new points with the purchase.  

So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  

So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  

So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  

So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  

Watched some of the Harry Potter movies on tv and then went to bed.  I took the dogs in and closed the door so that they would not go barking into the backyard through the doggie door which is what would have happened due to the fireworks.  Keep a radio on to drown out the fireworks and feel asleep.  AT 2AM, I woke up and said happy new year to my prostate as I tried to coax a reasonable flow.  It seemed to work.  

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Many people who have cosmetic surgery see the "imperfections" that others don't see even if they are pointed out.  They start with small procedures and the small change eliminates one imperfection but highlights another and then so it goes.  Smaller procedures become larger and more surgery ensues.  
There is a place for plastic surgery certainly.  Defects are corrected, lives can be changed, function can be restored but cosmetic surgery to me is a hope for something beyond the physical.  It is an attempt to turn back the clock which is an illusion even when cosmetically successful.  

I do not have a brothers or twin fantasy.  I probably would not be enticed by the thought of joining them and my guess is the number of men who believe as I do probably outnumber the number of men who would find it tittilating. Therefore it would make business sense to play down that aspect.  On the other hand, if as new post pubescent boys you see nothing wrong with having sexual adventures with your life a brother best friend, why frown upon your is a brother best friend?  It is not as though either of you is getting pregnant.  Once you were out to each other, which may delay the interaction, it seems like, hey let's see what it feels like to do each other is a logical next step.  
In the story of the Time Traveler's wife, teenage time ,traveler is at home when one of his time traveling persons, also teen aged, shows up and they are caught by their father doing 69.   How may of us would not do ourselves if a corporeal version of ourselves existed?  Well with identical twins, you just about have that.  
At 15, I would have fucked and sucked  myself, even if I was not my type. I know, because I tried.  

Will she be thought of as ground breaking because by that time she will have had so much surgery she will look as though she rose up from a grave?

Will she be thought of as ground breaking because by that time she will have had so much surgery she will look as though she rose up from a grave?

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Will she be thought of as ground breaking because by that time she will have had so much surgery she will look as though she rose up from a grave?

Many people who have cosmetic surgery see the "imperfections" that others don't see even if they are pointed out.  They start with small procedures and the small change eliminates one imperfection but highlights another and then so it goes.  Smaller procedures become larger and more surgery ensues.  
There is a place for plastic surgery certainly.  Defects are corrected, lives can be changed, function can be restored but cosmetic surgery to me is a hope for something beyond the physical.  It is an attempt to turn back the clock which is an illusion even when cosmetically successful.  

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Relax.  It's all about perspective.  Just a few days ago you posted that you had a RM conversation with a provider, and it was YOU who were "afraid to commit".
Remember that you have successfully met with providers in the past, and follow the formula of what works.  Brief conversations.  Keep discussions to date, location, and price.  Don't pay in advance.
If you're having conversations with providers via RM and are "afraid to commit", they may be blocking you.  Not because of your age or weight, but because they don't want to waste their time on conversations for which they aren't being paid.
 

He sounds like a nice guy and treats you like a valued client. I am a business professional and as I get to know my clients better, we often exchange details at a personal level. But I never confuse our friendly interaction as “friendship” - we are friendly, but it is a professional relationship where they pay me for my services.  I would recommend that you be super sure that it is friendship and not just a friendly situation.  Dont get carried away and emotionally involved - it is easy to make the wrong determination and that can end up being hurtful to both of you.  Good luck!

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Tristan is unusual as far as his rates go.  I give him money and then he gives me back money, then I say it is not enough and try to give him more money and he refuses.  It adds about 15 minutes to every visit.  It is all good natured and no matter what he is charging, he is worth it.