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No. I am not.
I simply coax them into wearing a jockstrap,  I make them think I have an underwear fetish, not a revulsion to uncut dick.

We all have an origin story.
Which is why it's ridiculous to attempt to apply YOUR standards of what's "normal" sexually to another person with a different origin story. Sexuality is a private matter with lots of subconscious drivers. 
For whatever reasons I generally favor men with dark hair and brown eyes. So Latino men often catch my attention...but I usually pass knowing what I'm going to have to deal with down under. (Unless they're SO sub that i wont be expected to reciprocate). So I sympathize with the OP who started this thread.  There are some places in Latin America where hospitals will recommend circumcision for baby boys. So it's not an impossible find.
In a pinch, I  just ask an uncut bottom to wear a jockstrap so I don't have to look at it. 🙈

Well….. sharing that you grew  up in an all white American small city, and your mind saying “yuck”, to things that weren’t the “standard”, based on your environment, this speaks volumes to your pathology, how you think, and the comments you make in these forums. 
 

I’m skeptical on the explanation often given “I rarely check RM messages” - why wouldn’t you check the source of the enquiry in the first place - how many other sources of business does the average provider have?

thanks for the info!!

How is that "mean" ?🤔

he sent me a face pics by message.  feel free to show your face here to if you like? 
 
Why be so mean?

This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community.   This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there.  Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.  

Yes, is a blue city in a purple state.
This issue occasionally comes up. Last time it was about guys hiring young women at a highway motel through a shady website. What can possibly go wrong? 
I know of at least 3 escorts who got arrested in Las Vegas for prostitution. I don't know of any other place where someone was arrested.
@José Soplanucas (under his old name) tried to warn us about Honolulu but I can't find the thread. Unfortunately, he didn't provide any kind of details. 
hookups (free sex)  involve no legal problems but when dealing with strangers we always take risks. 
 

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RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Since I'm always asking for folks to share experiences, I thought I should share one of my own.   Today I had a session with RedCMT while he was visiting my city.   I texted him mid-morning and asked if he had any open appointments.  He replied back quickly that he could do a lunchtime session if I was able to make that work.   We agreed on a time and a rate ($200) and I met him at his hotel at the appointed time.   He was very pleasant, talkative in the right way and welcoming.   He had his table with him and he proceeded to give me a fantastic massage.  Soon I was relaxed and the tension from my body was gone and I was in his capable hands.   

Thank you for bringing up Dean Hammer.  My ex-partner was part of his original study back in the early 90's because he had a gay brother.  I was asked to be part of the study because I too have an older gay brother but they had enough participants by the time I tried to sign up.  We are both middle children. In the case of my ex, he was the youngest of four brothers and his gay brother was the eldest so they were the opposite.  In regards to the potential maternal connection, my mom had three gay brothers so who knows, maybe there is something to that.   At this point, nobody knows the reason but the topic comes up on this forum every few months with the usual characters insisting they "chose" their sexual orientation vs. "choosing" their actions/reaction to it.  
Can someone also explain the so-called "gay lifestyle" to me?  I'm gay, my brother is gay..we both came out when we were in diapers.  Never had any issues with sexual orientation or identity.  Many or most of my friends and plenty of my family are gay.   None of us (as far as we know) live a "gay lifestyle" and not really sure what that means.  Does that mean we are in a gay relationship?  If yes, then I guess we all live a gay lifestyle.  Does that mean we use the word queer, watch Bravo, are only interested in going to the gym, walk around with our shirts off 90% of the time and call each other "Bitch"?  I've known thousands of gay men during my life but I've never met anyone into that stuff.   Every time I hear that term "gay lifestyle" I cringe-always wondering exactly what is meant by that.  

Rarely do I tip unless the service is above and beyond. If they charge $200 and expect to receive $250 ($200 + $50 tip) then they should just charge $250. They control their own prices. 

I'm about 35lbs overweight.  I was so nervous when I made my first hire because he was hot as can be, then you have me.  It was never an issue with him and he always provides a fantastic time to this day.
I now have 3 regulars and dabble on occasion and have always been shown a good time.
Show up clean, be nice and treat your provider with respect.  I live by these rules and I don't even feel uncomfortable any more undressing in the light! 😀
I NEVER have a less than great time!
 

Where have you been all my life?!!

Thank you very much, I hadn't read about this study/finding.  Very interesting to me, and it was great that they quoted Dean Hammer at the end.  I loved his study, and I NEVER understood why gays were so opposed to him and his finding/hypothesis.  I have a hard time reconciling Bogaert's Y Chromosome finding/hypothesis, which makes sense, with  Dean Hammer's XQ28 ( I used to have that T-shirt!).  And so I asked Perplexity, which told me this (but I still don't see the connection):
In summary, Bogaert's and Hamer's studies complement each other by providing a more comprehensive understanding of the biological underpinnings of male homosexuality, involving both genetic and maternal immune factors. Their combined research supports the view that sexual orientation has a biological basis, rather than being solely a matter of choice or social/environmental influences. 
 

Well…no.
You are queer. You are living a queer life.
And, you just confirmed it. A style can be changed. Your bisexuality can’t.
(queer = lgbtqia+)

But being in a profound relationship with a same-sex partner is a gay life, not “a gay lifestyle.” Being vegan or a hiker or sober - or celibate - is a lifestyle. Being gay is who you are, not what you do.

I don’t like the whole idea that there are reasons people are gay or become gay. It goes against the born this way philosophy in my opinion. If people think there are reasons for being or becoming gay, people might think there are ways to not become gay or ways to become straight. Which makes it seem like being gay is a lifestyle choice, which we all know it isn’t.

It’s 2024, and still the ludicrous fiction of a “gay lifestyle” is being used! 

I'd love to meet your brother! 
I would take this study with a grain of salt! Everything depends on the individual, family, circumstances, genetics, etc.
I didn't call him a jerk but "having children all around the world" doesn't strike me as family values, personal responsibility, etc. Obviously life happens... in the inner city (before gentrification) having kids from different families was a common problem.

He sounds like a jerk.

Most guys in the military put on weight right after leaving service. Children all over the world.... lack of family values isn't sexy to me...
Back to subject.
2 sisters, 1 younger brother. I was the 2nd born to my parents and the only gay.

"Guts" is just another way to say intuition ,street smarts, and unconscious desire. Always go with your gut.
 

Caution here too!
This forum is becoming influential, which is great news, but the downside is that it's attracting scammers and "influencers." Always consider the source and his reputation. If you see a new profile praising a masseur or an older profile habitually praising masseurs that get negative reviews from others, that is actually a bad sign.
I recently blocked a recent profile that recommended a scammer that I regretted hiring. I should have checked his activity and reputation, things are pretty obvious in retrospect.
 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.”