Midtownguy99

This is your assumption and this is not accurate. I travel a lot and see a lot of providers who travel and when we arrange an appointment it’s usually done before the day of. If we both have a limited schedule and want to secure time together, I will agree to paying a deposit. 
 
Think about it like this: if a provider is coming to your city and paying expenses upfront such as airfare and accommodations and I book a four hour appointment with said provider, that’s requesting they block off a chunk of his schedule and no other clients can book during that time. For both of us to feel secure, I will offer to pay that deposit. 
 
Of course, this is after I’ve done my research and have assurance the provider won’t run off with my money. 
 
If you are skeptical on paying a deposit, then that provider is not one you want to see. I’ve had several of my providers mention time wasters and other clients who book appointments and cancel without notice and then the provider can’t fill that gap in his schedule. If they only have a few days in that city, one appointment can make a significant difference. 

Guilty as charged. But there’s more to both masseurs than just looks. 

My top two picks of 2022
https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC
https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan

Guilty as charged. But there’s more to both masseurs than just looks. 

Sorry! I actually meant to post this in WORST of 2022. Will do that. 

Guilty as charged. But there’s more to both masseurs than just looks. 

Everyone is different. I saw 2 clients recently on same day. First one wanted a more robust experience; firm massage, liked being smacked on his ass, balls slapped, rough throat fuck, virtually my whole fist up his hole, second guy wanted it sensual, soft massage, kissing, cuddling, toe sucking etc. 
The interesting thing was neither of them explicitly asked for this beforehand. After years of doing it you get to work out who likes what, plus you try a few things and see what reaction you get and build from there. BF experience is similar, people are reluctant to explicitly ask for what they want, so you just need a few clues and then the rest you can improvise and work it out. People like an element of surprise….but not too much surprise. 

No. 
But a smart escort still spends money to make money. 
Whether it be dinners, theater tickets, gifts, etc.  Showing someone consideration comes in many forms and in such a personal business, there are times when a simple thanks is not enough. 

Imagine if someone suggested that providers  charge extra for ugly clients.... The whinging would go on for pages and pages.
 

Work is work.
Somedays at work are easy. Somedays at work are hard.
It’s still work. 

No. 

Top Three Forum Topics.....Ever:
1. complaining about provider rates
2. is hiring a "straight" provider ok?
3. paying an upfront deposit or not
 
 

My winner is:
https://rentmasseur.com/EasyTiger

Recently, in Berlin, i met an uber sweet escort who was a graduate student in mathematics. Extremely sexy to hear him talk about stochastic finance over a steak dinner. 

Admittedly, the provider may only be offering that qualification to those clients who much prefer providers who can also chat, hang out, and go have a meal with. 
 
 

His twitter handle @Garicsoldatov

I saw him this week. Whoa the reviews are right.  He’s gorgeous and talented and uses all the right spa oils and warmers for a 💯 + experience.  

This is only for providers who travel to my city. If they text me and say they are planning a visit and only have a few days here, I absolutely will pay a deposit to secure my time with them. It’s not always 100%, but the point is deposits need to be paid especially with several clients cancelling without notice when the providers are paying so much in travel costs and depending on making the money from appointments that we book. I always put myself in their shoes and have the most respect for what these guys do. 

My rule of thumb. If there is a quality provider I know I want to meet I will contact him for an appointment and pay a 50% deposit of the appointment time. No questions asked. This puts us both at ease. He knows he will be taken care of with me paying him, and I know I will get the confirmed time that works best for me. 
Once I’ve met the provider, I will pay 100% of their fee when booking the next appointment. This works best for me and any provider I’ve hired. It seems like a win win for both parties, I’m not sure why all clients don’t follow suit. 

This is only for providers who travel to my city. If they text me and say they are planning a visit and only have a few days here, I absolutely will pay a deposit to secure my time with them. It’s not always 100%, but the point is deposits need to be paid especially with several clients cancelling without notice when the providers are paying so much in travel costs and depending on making the money from appointments that we book. I always put myself in their shoes and have the most respect for what these guys do. 

Yes, ‘free’ sex is available, through hook up apps and at saunas or the like. Guys that think ‘why should I pay when I can get the same free on Grindr’ don’t understand the difference. On Grindr you’ll spend hours trying to line someone up, if they agree to meet you’ll likely find that they aren’t much interested in satisfying your needs (but they want you to satisfy theirs), and they probably aren’t much good at anything. So you saved some money but wasted your time.
If you hire a professional you’ll find they will make themselves available much more readily, they’re focused on your needs, they know what they’re doing and you can just relax and enjoy yourself. 

This is only for providers who travel to my city. If they text me and say they are planning a visit and only have a few days here, I absolutely will pay a deposit to secure my time with them. It’s not always 100%, but the point is deposits need to be paid especially with several clients cancelling without notice when the providers are paying so much in travel costs and depending on making the money from appointments that we book. I always put myself in their shoes and have the most respect for what these guys do. 

My rule of thumb. If there is a quality provider I know I want to meet I will contact him for an appointment and pay a 50% deposit of the appointment time. No questions asked. This puts us both at ease. He knows he will be taken care of with me paying him, and I know I will get the confirmed time that works best for me. 
Once I’ve met the provider, I will pay 100% of their fee when booking the next appointment. This works best for me and any provider I’ve hired. It seems like a win win for both parties, I’m not sure why all clients don’t follow suit. 

but I’m also not an ATM. 
Correct
these types are accustomed to men sending them money
That's why they are called money boys.

I flirted with a guy on Twitter recently who asked through p.m. if I could "spot him $300".
Has an Only Fans...so I am thinking these types are accustomed to men sending them money * just because *.