Midtownguy99

I concur that Leo is a fantastic kisser. When I inquired about Leo's connection with Gabriel, he mentioned they occasionally travel for work, yet he also travels with other friends on different occasions. Regarding their relationship, the fact is they're simply friends, which explains why they don't collaborate professionally. It would be a steamy interaction if they ever crossed that friendship boundary…

Did this ever get up and running?

Bringing this back in honor of Pride this weekend.

44 reviews on his RM profile and we still can’t figure it out if this lad is the real deal?

Gabriel is the crème de la crème of this industry. He is unmatched. There have only been a small handful of guys in this category and he’s one of them.

I’ve never met him but had a terrible impression via text. We never even got to the point of setting up an appointment. Not a match for me.

PM me. Sorry you had a bizarre experience with him

The providers I’m referring to are the ones who travel and have airfare and lodging overhead to account for. If one client that agrees to meet them, doesn’t show up, that will make a significant difference on the bottom line of their trip. Unfortunately this happens more often than it should and it’s difficult for the provider to brush it off or make up for it in the little time they’re in the city. Since you’re in your hometown, you pay your rent regardless so there’s not much of a need for a deposit.

I think the reviews help more today. For instance, if that same experience happened today, you can leave an accurate review accounting your experience. And since escorts don’t want their reputation tarnished, they won’t pull something like what you experienced because that review will reflect on their profile. Of course this doesn’t go for all of them, but I think it helps.

I only do #3 if a provider is traveling to my city and they have a limited schedule and I’ve checked their profile out, looked at reviews, chatted with other clients who have left them reviews etc. But you as a provider, discourage deposits?

Did they have only positive reviews? Did you chat with other clients who vouched for them etc?

That sounds like a very typical date for me. Was I the client? 😂

Guilty as charged. But there’s more to both masseurs than just looks.

What’s your take on #3?

Those are not good providers IMO.

If the provider is specifically flying in to meet that client, then yes the provider needs to pay for all expenses. I personally cover all travel expenses and gifts. But I was referring to if a provider already has a city on their travel schedule, for example NYC January 4-8 and I want to make an appointment with them when they are visiting, then I will pay a deposit to secure my time with them.

It seems as though it’s getting worse, from what my regular providers have mentioned to me.

What do you suggest as a safety net to traveling providers who have several clients who cancel last minute?

Do you hire providers who travel or who are based in your home city? Have you ever cancelled an appointment with short notice on a traveling provider?

My top two picks of 2022 https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan

This is your assumption and this is not accurate. I travel a lot and see a lot of providers who travel and when we arrange an appointment it’s usually done before the day of. If we both have a limited schedule and want to secure time together, I will agree to paying a deposit. Think about it like this: if a provider is coming to your city and paying expenses upfront such as airfare and accommodations and I book a four hour appointment with said provider, that’s requesting they block off a chunk of his schedule and no other clients can book during that time. For both of us to feel secure, I will offer to pay that deposit. Of course, this is after I’ve done my research and have assurance the provider won’t run off with my money. If you are skeptical on paying a deposit, then that provider is not one you want to see. I’ve had several of my providers mention time wasters and other clients who book appointments and cancel without notice and then the provider can’t fill that gap in his schedule. If they only have a few days in that city, one appointment can make a significant difference.

I do agree if you do send the money it will most likely be a recurring experience. If you’re in the financial state to wanting to spoil or help a hot young guy out then do it. If you aren’t the don’t do it. There are providers that I will spoil and send money to for a variety of reasons.

This is only for providers who travel to my city. If they text me and say they are planning a visit and only have a few days here, I absolutely will pay a deposit to secure my time with them. It’s not always 100%, but the point is deposits need to be paid especially with several clients cancelling without notice when the providers are paying so much in travel costs and depending on making the money from appointments that we book. I always put myself in their shoes and have the most respect for what these guys do.

My rule of thumb. If there is a quality provider I know I want to meet I will contact him for an appointment and pay a 50% deposit of the appointment time. No questions asked. This puts us both at ease. He knows he will be taken care of with me paying him, and I know I will get the confirmed time that works best for me. Once I’ve met the provider, I will pay 100% of their fee when booking the next appointment. This works best for me and any provider I’ve hired. It seems like a win win for both parties, I’m not sure why all clients don’t follow suit.

Are these fees you all are quoting current (2022)? Not from 2019 or several years ago. Covid changed a lot of things. Several smoldering hot guys that I never thought would be for rent began escorting during the pandemic. The price for everything went up, as did several of the provider’s fees. From what I’ve seen $400 per hour is the norm currently. My game has changed since the pandemic and I don’t hire several different providers so often like I used to. I’m more selective and have my set guys that I will happily spoil instead of spreading myself so thin on hourly appointments with anyone that checks a box or two. I’ve seen several clients on the forums really complaining about the discrepancy between $300 and $400. Is it that serious to throw a fit or will that make not wanting to hire a provider because you solely base your experience on what you used to pay 3 or more years ago?