A gift FROM the escort?

[12is12]

Hi Guys,

 

There's another thread on gifting escorts.

Since the rational is "token of appreciation", has anyone heard or experienced a regular client being appreciated by the escort?

[Becket]

I've suggested that escorts give out those punch cards like donut shops. Each time you buy a dozen the card is punched. After so many punches you get a free dozen. So after six appointments the seventh could be complimentary? Always sounded good to me. Sadly, as yet I haven't found a fellow interested in participating in a 'frequent renter" program. Can't think why?

[nsguy45]

Hi Guys,

 

There's another thread on gifting escorts.

Since the rational is "token of appreciation", has anyone heard or experienced a regular client being appreciated by the escort?

Are you serious? There are good and bad escorts out there and I've experienced both. But, let us clients not forget that for the escort, even if he's a regular you've seen numerous times and feel close to, it's still a business transaction and his bottom line is what's most important to him, not you.

[big-n-tall]

Is it possible that an escort gifts a client with something? Yes, of course.

 

I personally have been told by some escorts and personally experienced being given a gift from an escort. I don't know how common it is. The escorts who have given things (i.e. books etc), we are extremely close. I have also given them things for Christmas and Birthdays.

[12is12]

N45, I don't understand your reaction.

 

Of course it's a business transaction for him, but so it is for the client. Why then is it so natural to discuss appreciation by the client but not by the escort?

Over the years on these forums many discussed the need to behave respectfully toward escorts. I totally agree. But then - as in other spheres of life - PC kicked in, and now many clients are bending backwards. The zeitgeist now is that we expect of them less than we expect of ourselves (e.g. paying in full for non-performance).

 

To clarify:

I don't expect tokens of appreciation from any escort, including my regulars or those toward whom I've been extra nice.

I'm just wondering aloud why recurring discussions about these tokens are so one-sided.....

[HotWhiteThirties]

I would say yes I have and yes they do. Anytime a provider gives you more of their time than agreed (their most valuable asset) with no additional expectation, then they have provided a gift or token of genuine appreciation . This has happened without my requesting or expecting it.

 

I also see 12is12’s point that it has seemed that there is a sense that we should expect more of ourselves as clients than of providers (not saying this is universally true, but there is definitely an undertone of that which I’ve picked up on as well). Part of that is healthy - to always seek to do right regardless of what the other party does, but it shouldn’t mean you become someone’s doormat (not saying that’s a largely held belief that clients should be abused, just speaking to 12is12’s observation).

 

The idea that this is only a bottom line business to the provider/escort may be true for some (and if you’re in business, the bottom line is what you live and die on), but if you believe that is the ONLY thing that matters to the provider, then I think you really do place the provider in a different category than providers from other service-related businesses. Perhaps that’s true. I just don’t think it is. I know many service-based businesses where the providers remember their clients in special and thoughtful ways which cost the provider to extend courtesies or gifts with the aim of solidifying the relationship, creating loyalty, or just because their is a genuine connection. I own a service based business and we do special gifts, events, and outings for our best clients - individually and collectively because they’ve treated us so well and we want to show appreciation.

 

I personally have received some very nice gestures from providers in the form of time, but also other things in our meetings (and after) where the provider wanted to make me feel good and appreciated. It was very nice and I sincerely appreciated those gestures. I have also reciprocated in some instances if it was natural to do so.

Edited March 23, 2018 by HotWhiteThirties

[LaffingBear]

Ive had a regular pick up the check at mealtime.... but no other gifts.

[+ Pensant]

I’ve received bottles of wine from several. Used jockstraps as well.

[+ nycman]

Not so much as a piece of gum....cheap fuckers!

 

Then again, that probibly says more about me

than it does about the providers I hire.....lol.

[+ bigjoey]

I have had the good luck to meet some amazing men who escorted. Because I tend to rehire and get to know these men well, I have gotten many gifts ranging from wine, scented candles, picking up dinner, clothing, cookies and candy, flowers, etc. Some of these men have retired and we now visit just like two old friends.

[Sixty]

I've received some wonderful gifts from a young man that I've seen over the years. Lately we've seen less of each other mostly due to my not connecting.

He visits my city quite often but I just haven't connected.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I have been gifted with generous extra time after paying only for one hour, sometimes even overnights. I do not know whether that counts, but I do prefer it rather than wine and dinners and diamonds and pearls.

Edited March 23, 2018 by latbear4blk

[+ glutes]

The only gift I ever got from a escort was a trip to the City Clinic.

[+ VictorPowers]

I actively have searched for a client's class ring online. He replaced his with a different year, but I thought it'd be so special to find the right year. Expensive? Yes. Worth it? Every penny.

[+ Charlie]

One time I hired an escort for a second time, and told him that I was doing it to celebrate my birthday. At the end of the appointment, he handed me a bottle of wine with a bow around the neck, which he had bought for me as a birthday gift.

[+ bashful]

Anytime a provider gives you more of their time than agreed (their most valuable asset) with no additional expectation, then they have provided a gift or token of genuine appreciation .

 

I have been gifted with generous extra time after paying only for one hour

 

I too have been fortunate to receive the gift of extra time. Makes me feel great.

[+ newatthis]

One time I hired an escort for a second time, and told him that I was doing it to celebrate my birthday. At the end of the appointment, he handed me a bottle of wine with a bow around the neck, which he had bought for me as a birthday gift.

Reminds me of a time I hired someone (also the 2nd time, I think) and mentioned in passing that it would be my birthday. When I arrived, his hotel room was illuminated only by a score of strategically placed candles -- created a magical effect. There might have been some small gift involved as well, IIRC.

 

It's not a coincidence that Charlie and I are thinking about birthdays this week .

[rvwnsd]

I've received flowers a couple of times, a gift card, an offer to pick up groceries and a prescription when I was sick (from a guy who did not have a car - and he refused to let me pay him for the stuff he bought), wine, and two free hours at my birthday.

 

Pays to be nice to your escorts. (PS: I rarely tip)

[+ PapaTony]

 

It's not a coincidence that Charlie and I are thinking about birthdays this week .

awwwwww, me too.

Happy birthday to you and @Charlie