Be careful of what you tell other members

[JerseyBabyDaddy]

If it was an escort that had set high expectations during our initial conservation, and then ended up being disinterested and not into it, then I wouldn't care if they got mad at me for giving them a bad review. But if it was an escort that was nice and gracious, then yeah I'd feel bad.

[+ 7829V]

Also... how do they link your login / screen name with who you are? Is not like they’ve only seen one customer.

[+ Funguy]

It could be worse, I've had escorts who didn't like private responses I made to them, retaliate by posting disparaging comments on their blogs and hateful images on their Twitter account. My advice? Don't put escorts on pedestals. Learn to protect your privacy, and learn to call them out when they cross the line.

 

And better yet, don't open your mouth unless you have something good to say or you know EXACTLY to whom you are speaking!

[caliguy]

And better yet, don't open your mouth unless you have something good to say

[MartyB]

I'm a relative newcomer to this forum. A little over a year I think. In that time of had forum members PM me about escorts I've been with and I've left positive feedback. I have no problem with that. If I've seen a post on an escort that I did not have a good experience with I will post publicly but not in great detail. As others have stated one man's experience is not another's. I've blasted a few escorts on escort/masseur sites publicly. When that's happened the escort/masseur never uttered a response on the site or to me personally. Most of the time the members I've had private conversations with have been about specific sexual activity I've had with the escort. They have jumped to their own conclusions.

[former lurker]

If I have something positive to say, I have no problem responding politely to a PM.

 

However, as a rule, I don't include ANY real incriminating details.

 

If I have negative things to say, I don't respond unless I know the poster well.

Even then I tend to just say "It didn't go well for me. Your mileage may vary."

Real scams - I have no problem calling them out in the forums so PMs are pointless.

 

Also, I don't respond at all to strangers who PM me trying to get the name

of an escort/masseur I mention in a post. If I didn't mention their name it in my post.....

why would I PM it to a stranger?....I don't see any difference in the two encounters.

 

Man. Re read your posts. You're persistently negative. Why? Do you make poor choices constantly? Do you have unreasonable standards? Do you think you should be adorded, and yet you're not? I mean, what is your deal, because it's clear in your posts.

[+ VictorPowers]

It sounds like a trap. Don't do it!

[JerseyBabyDaddy]

 

Honey, even if it was a trap, if they ask me for a meeting, I'd err on the side of saying yes. I don't get asked a lot. Yup, I'm that self-pitying annoying person in the group.

 

I can protect myself from undercover Sith agents.

[+ nycman]

Man. Re read your posts. You're persistently negative. Why? Do you make poor choices constantly? Do you have unreasonable standards? Do you think you should be adorded, and yet you're not? I mean, what is your deal, because it's clear in your posts.

 

Hmmmmm...let’s re-read some of your 25 posts since you joined this month....

I've read your posts here. You seem high maintenance. Maybe it's you, and not them.

 

Geez! What a spectacular way to expose yourself as a supreme asshole.

 

Couldn't disagree more. The "pendulum", if there is one, on this site is all the way on the client side.

 

What I take from this post of yours.....you're not a good person to work for.

 

Grow up.......The strident nature of your comment suggests a severe lack of empathy, a sense of entitlement when "hiring", and a sense that because you're hiring, the escort is contracted to do your bidding regardless of his health or his concerns. Fairly ugly I'd say.

 

I've thought about this for a long time, and refrained until now commenting. You are annoying.

 

You seem quite the gem....and all this in under one month on here?

 

Pot...kettle...black....or should I say Mocha?

[Strafe13]

Hmmmmm...let’s re-read some of your 25 posts since you joined this month....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You seem quite the gem....and all this in under one month on here?

 

Pot...kettle...black....or should I say Mocha?

 

Dang, @nycman, you brought out the receipts for this one! :-D

[BabyBoomer]

Hmmmmm...let’s re-read some of your 25 posts since you joined this month....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You seem quite the gem....and all this in under one month on here?

 

Pot...kettle...black....or should I say Mocha?

 

Just FYI: @former lurker joined almost 8 years ago. Btw, that's not Mocha's writing style which is quite unique.

 

~Boomer~

[littlenut]

Unfortunately, this is an example that shows me how naive I can be. Would never imagine that people are sharing PM info with the escort, or harassing people via PM. Although it does explain why some of my requests for more detailed info on an escort might go unanswered.

 

But as someone else mentioned upthread, I'm still scratching my head on the "divorce" thread, where the client couldn't figure out why he was dropped after tracking down personal info on an escort and then sharing it with him. Things that seem "common sense" to many of us might not be common sense at all. Thus the "this is not a toy" warnings on plastic bags.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Unfortunately, this is an example that shows me how naive I can be. Would never imagine that people are sharing PM info with the escort, or harassing people via PM.

 

Again, people ARE NOT sharing information with anyone they should not, or harassing other members. A few nuts are.

 

Before trusting any information, check the background of the forum members. I am glad and excited that we have so many newbies actively participating, but trust is something you have to earn not only with your words but with your actions. It takes time to build.

[BaronArtz]

I am trying to understand this. Presumably escorts have many clients that they have good, mediocre and bad experiences with. How can an escort link you, the client, with public or private posts here on the forum - unless you have given the escort your profile name here. Which would not be very smart.

 

I have PM'd numerous people here about what I thought about escorts, the good and the bad. Never has an escort been able to identify me as the poster.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

If I am going to criticise an escort, I am not planning to ever see that escort again.

So why should I care that the escort knows if I didn’t enjoy the encounter?

Share away my PMs, I won’t worry about it.

[+ sniper]

Well because in many cases the escort has your phone number and that's all they really need to find out your identity and make mischief in your life if they should be so inclined.

[LADoug1]

If it was an escort that had set high expectations during our initial conservation, and then ended up being disinterested and not into it, then I wouldn't care if they got mad at me for giving them a bad review. But if it was an escort that was nice and gracious, then yeah I'd feel bad.

I think you would care if the escort in question became enraged and began a nightmarish retribution.

[LADoug1]

Well because in many cases the escort has your phone number and that's all they really need to find out your identity and make mischief in your life if they should be so inclined.

 

+1,000

[LADoug1]

I am trying to understand this. Presumably escorts have many clients that they have good, mediocre and bad experiences with. How can an escort link you, the client, with public or private posts here on the forum - unless you have given the escort your profile name here. Which would not be very smart.

 

I have PM'd numerous people here about what I thought about escorts, the good and the bad. Never has an escort been able to identify me as the poster.

 

In my case the escort was quite intuitive and figured out who I was based on my profile name (perhaps I should change it) and other posts I’ve made.

[Rudynate]

A friend once said to me, "If you don't want something repeated, don't tell anybody!" Upon hearing this, I immediately recognized the wisdom and have lived by it ever since.

[+ freecahill1965]

In my case the escort was quite intuitive and figured out who I was based on my profile name (perhaps I should change it) and other posts I’ve made.

If what you said is the truth, it should not matter. They need to take responsibility for their own actions. One purpose of the forum is to share both positive and negative experiences. It allows us to make informed decisions. If a provider does not want information about a negative experience posted, they need to be on their next game I would suppose. Lord knows we post all the positive experiences as well.

Edited December 25, 2017 by freecahill1965

[+ goosh69]

Be careful that you aren’t sharing negative thoughts about an escort. I did and it turned out that the member was really the escort (using another name) who just wanted to see what I would share with members.

 

His retribution was a nightmare.

 

 

THIS^!!!!!

[+ freecahill1965]

If I am going to criticise an escort, I am not planning to ever see that escort again.

So why should I care that the escort knows if I didn’t enjoy the encounter?

Share away my PMs, I won’t worry about it.

I totally agree. The informed decision is the best one when selecting awesome providers.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Well because in many cases the escort has your phone number and that's all they really need to find out your identity and make mischief in your life if they should be so inclined.

No, they have my google phone number, from which they cannot find anything unless they work for Google and break a whole series of rules.

[SizeQueen16]

I've recommended & warn against certain escorts via private message on here over the past year without any issue like that. The person that did that to you after you gave them good advice was dead wrong imo. Very messy. It can happen to anyone of us giving advice, but thankfully most people on this forum seem to not be that way. I guess you got to trust your instinct on who you choose to share advice with.