Be careful of what you tell other members

[TruHart1]

I have only had positive experiences with forum members in PMs here except in one instance when I chose to remain faithful to one of my favorite guys (I still hire him!) when he was ganged up on in the forum and I defended him publicly. After that happened, I did receive some pretty derogatory and hateful PMs for a while, which I decided were pointless to acknowledge, so I ignored them completely.

 

I have met two very special men through PMs, though. One who shares my taste in both men and opera, and one who contacted me last year asking about one of my favorite escorts and, in fact, hired him on my recommendation. This member has turned out to be a lasting friend and a real CUTIE! In addition, there are a number of guys (and gals) here who enjoy discussing favorite actors and/or escorts among other topics privately. Almost all of my experiences in forum PMs are very positive and mutually informative.

 

TruHart1

[TruHart1]

Just to add... the day I signed onto the forum for the very first time, I got a wonderful PM from @tyro warmly welcoming me here! Later, upon actually meeting that beautiful, classy lady while I was visiting Chicago to see the fantastic RGM, we became friends forever!!!

 

TruHart1

[Bertster]

 

In addition, there are a number of guys (and gals) here who enjoy discussing favorite actors and/or escorts

 

TruHart1

 

There are gals on here???

[big-n-tall]

There are gals on here???

 

Yes, 3-4 post rather frequently. There are a good number who signed up to the forums but don't participate at all or as much.

Edited December 30, 2017 by big-n-tall

[Guest davebk]

I've sent a few PM requests for more info and responded to more than a few. Always with an idea that we help each other out and that it stays between us. C'mon guys, keep the code and help each other out!

[+ freecahill1965]

I've sent a few PM requests for more info and responded to more than a few. Always with an idea that we help each other out and that it stays between us. C'mon guys, keep the code and help each other out!

I agree. I have pmed a few as well. I have had lunch with a few of them. I consider them friends. I would hope that we ALL do not get judged by the actions of few. There are always a few who spoil it. For those I have developed an on going friendship, I share any specifics that is ask of me. I have no problem trusting them or their integrity. I have to be honest. I always thought there was a honor code. I have shared very specfic details on encounters upon request both good and bad. I have never felt my trust in any pm violated.

[+ DrownedBoy]

I have a strict policy, which I've used on every other online forum I post on, not just here.

 

If someone PMs me, I tell them to post it where everyone can see if they want an answer.

 

If they can't do that, they're not worth the time.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I agree. I have pmed a few as well. I have had lunch with a few of them. I consider them friends. I would hope that we ALL do not get judged by the actions of few. There are always a few who spoil it. For those I have developed an on going friendship, I share any specifics that is ask of me. I have no problem trusting them or their integrity. I have to be honest. I always thought there was a honor code. I have shared very specfic details on encounters upon request both good and bad. I have never felt my trust in any pm violated.

 

If anyone judges and labels the many by the behavior of the few, it does not say anything about them but speaks loudly about him. I would care very little for the opinions of someone in that train of thoughts.

[nynakedtop]

i am always happy to respond to PMs, even though sometimes i am unforgivably tardy in doing so...

 

recently after i posted a word about a less than wonderful situation with a provider, i received many requests for information which i responded to appropriately.

 

one person, however, gave me pause as he repeatedly asked for an extremely detailed recounting of just what went on between the escort and me.... so detailed that it truly made me suspect that someone had an .... shall we say ... agenda, and that i was being used to further it.

 

going forward i will be more circumspect as to what i will say, and to who.... (this has no impact, of course, on the many good people here i regularly engage in chats with!)

[MikeyGMin]

one person, however, gave me pause as he repeatedly asked for an extremely detailed recounting of just what went on between the escort and me.... so detailed that it truly made me suspect that someone had an .... shall we say ... agenda, and that i was being used to further it.

I've gotten a couple of those over the last few months that made me extremely uncomfortable. I'm happy to vouch for authenticity and the characteristics of a particular provider, but I'm not going to go into graphic detail about our session.

 

I would provide more detail to several of the guys that I have "known" for a long time and communicated with previously, but they all tend to be guys who are more interested in the overall experience and don't need graphic detail about who did what to whom.

[RyanDean]

I'm happy to vouch for authenticity and the characteristics of a particular provider, but I'm not going to go into graphic detail about our session.

 

xxxactly.

I value the PM feature, and have had mostly (only?) good experiences with it. But discretion is key, both on- and off-list.

[liubit]

Over the years, I have received quite a number of private requests for info, especially on Prague escorts. I always try to respond as accurately and objectively as I can, intending to be helpful, and I have always had very positive experiences with forum members. Some of those PMs have even developed into long and very enjoyable chats, where a lot of info is exchanged. The only thing that drives me nuts is when there is no feedback about the actual encounter —or lack thereof— with the boy I have provided info on, even when I request it. I don’t ask for a detailed blow-by-blow account, a general overview and an opinion will suffice: I find that total silence is kind of rude.

Edited December 31, 2017 by liubit

[Marcus G vulcan]

You seriously wrote a review on someone over a "meet-n-greet"? Who would publish such a thing?

 

Yeah I did.

 

A client.. be it friend or fellow escort.. also has a first impression of the other person's mannerisms. If this person is going to be late for a "meet n greet" or distracted what else are they late or distrated for? What else are they "tuned out" on when with a client?

As I said this escort was notified we chatted it over about the report. There was no slandering of their character or malace. Just a review of the experience. To this day we still laugh over our first meeting with each other. Plus do double dates at times.

[bigvalboy]

Yeah I did.

 

A client.. be it friend or fellow escort.. also has a first impression of the other person's mannerisms. If this person is going to be late for a "meet n greet" or distracted what else are they late or distrated for? What else are they "tuned out" on when with a client?

As I said this escort was notified we chatted it over about the report. There was no slandering of their character or malace. Just a review of the experience. To this day we still laugh over our first meeting with each other. Plus do double dates at times.

 

And who published a "meet-n-greet" review ?

[+ José Soplanucas]

What was this thread about?

http://68.media.tumblr.com/aae56102ec288303e81821b265605216/tumblr_o96xn02v2C1v42gmno1_400.gif

[nynakedtop]

What was this thread about?

http://68.media.tumblr.com/aae56102ec288303e81821b265605216/tumblr_o96xn02v2C1v42gmno1_400.gif

 

beats me... but i do have a recollection of it once being interesting and valuable!

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I have a strict policy, which I've used on every other online forum I post on, not just here.

 

If someone PMs me, I tell them to post it where everyone can see if they want an answer.

 

If they can't do that, they're not worth the time.

That doesn’t work, sometimes they want information that you are not allowed to post publicly.

[+ José Soplanucas]

C'mon guys. PMs are great. Whether or not they are private, they anyways provide a way to have a conversation amongst trusted members out of the general view. If you choose to be indiscreet with someone you do not know very well, it is your own poor judgement.

[LaffingBear]

I posted a favorable comment about a recent hire. Shortly thereafter, I received PM requests for details.

 

My reply:

His stats in his rentmen ad are accurate.

 

What he does, services.... thats something to address with him.

[+ lookingforfunny]

This is great advice. Another topic should be "be careful what you share with escorts." I have an escort friend I shared with recently. I informed him of a referral I gave and he confirmed that the person on the forum contacted him but they were angling for a discount, etc. So, I left it alone. Then I guess he continued to contact them and it became awkward for me. In the future, I will not recommend him. I am unaware of his business practices.

[+ José Soplanucas]

This is great advice. Another topic should be "be careful what you share with escorts." I have an escort friend I shared with recently. I informed him of a referral I gave and he confirmed that the person on the forum contacted him but they were angling for a discount, etc. So, I left it alone. Then I guess he continued to contact them and it became awkward for me. In the future, I will not recommend him. I am unaware of his business practices.

 

Why do you keep labeling?????

Be careful aways and everywhere with what you share with anyone.

[+ lookingforfunny]

Why do you keep labeling?????

Be careful aways and everywhere with what you share with anyone.

 

What do you mean by labeling?

[+ José Soplanucas]

What do you mean by labeling?

 

Be careful what you share with a client. Be careful hat you share with an escort.

[+ lookingforfunny]

Be careful what you share with a client. Be careful hat you share with an escort.

 

I guess I am confused by that statement, since what I shared was positive. I was making a positive recommendation, with no details. I was commenting on how odd it was for something positive to go south. So odd. I try to share positives as much as possible.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I guess I am confused by that statement, since what I shared was positive. I was making a positive recommendation, with no details. I was commenting on how odd it was for something positive to go south. So odd. I try to share positives as much as possible.

 

Let's switch the "why do you keep labeling" to "why do we".

I just do not see the point of targeting a whole class of people, implying there is something in their nature that should make us be cautious. My point is that it is irrelevant what your role is, we should always we cautious everywhere with everyone. And we should be able to find many people to trust also, everywhere, whoever they are.

I apologize if you felt I was addressing this against you.