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I've been having some interesting conversation with friends recently about escorts, which led to a question a couple of weeks ago about escorts that had a spiritual side.

 

In a follow-up conversation with my friends, I realized that I never asked another question that we had been discussing.

 

The point of our conversation was about the many possible reasons that people hire escorts. There are, of course, those who hire primarily for the sex or to fulfill their sexual fantasies. However, there are others who hire for a variety of other reasons ... companionship, self-esteem issues, etc.

 

We all know there are some great escorts out there, many of whom are quite talented sexually. But there are also those who seem to excel at not just fulfilling sexual needs, but also touching on the personal issues that draw guys to hire.

 

Part of our observation is that many of these escorts may tend to be of humble nature (and perhaps that's an incorrect assumption), and that their profiles may not reflect this talent/ability/whatever you want to call it.

 

From my own personal experience, I think these escorts go "the extra mile" and should be commended for their service. Several of the guys that I had this experience with are no longer in the business ... such as Talvin DeMachio, Matt York, Dane Scott and a truly special young guy from Premier in Philly named Billy.

 

What guys currently in the biz do you think are gifted at going the extra mile?

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Shiloh Apprentice

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Granted my escort experience is quite limited, as I've only ever hired Derek Atlas. But I would definitely say he "goes the extra mile" for his clients. Obviously I've had sex before, to be quite frank, just fucking. I never realized it until I hired Derek, but unfortunately I've always had very selfish lovers. And as they say, if you've never had it you don't know what you're missing. I never knew sex could be so beautiful. I've never had anyone be more concerned about my pleasure than their own, until Derek.

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Mick, now retired, in NYC absolutely afforded me a happiness in my retirement that I would never have had without meeting him. Issues that I'd kept hidden for 60 years

came pouring out because of his kindness and gentleness of spirit. Spent way more time with me than he was ever paid for and I'm forever in his debt.

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Ok, so I have two different definitions of going the extra mile. ;)

 

First, there are those willing to visit me at a no man's land (or so it seems, don't mean to offend) in MD halfway between DC and Baltimore. Its a nice hotel close to my client but traffic can be a bear. Derrick from DC drives this literal extra mile graciously.

 

Second, for me its all about sexual chemistry and connectivity. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or loneliness remedy, rather just a great human to human experience where there is some kind of emotional connection in addition to the visual and physical. I think the special sauce is someone who enjoys this work at some level other than just making money and a kind of emotional intelligence that makes him a good reader of people who then is motivated to respond. When I think back, top of list for me would be Arek from NYC. Sheer sexual intensity while we were playing, really felt that he was focused on enjoying me and I of course on him. He doesn't advertise anymore, wonder if he's still around? A recent runner up was Daniel from FTL, which surprised me because he's early 20s and I associate what I look for with being older and more experienced in life. Daniel excelled at eye contact and reading body language.

 

Or who knows, maybe the guys I click with just have the same astrological sign or Myers Briggs profile I do so its easier to connect! :D

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Funguy Grand Master

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All of my FAVORITE gentlemen are on this post at least once and ALL consistently provide the ultimate experience.

Of note, a new face has emerged from the crowd - Brad from New York! A most down to earth, giving, warm (hot) guy you can get lost in! Truly!

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Moondance Grand Master

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... I'm not looking for a boyfriend or loneliness remedy, rather just a great human to human experience where there is some kind of emotional connection in addition to the visual and physical. I think the special sauce is someone who enjoys this work at some level other than just making money and a kind of emotional intelligence that makes him a good reader of people who then is motivated to respond ....

Nicely said. I completely agree. And for me, the best experience of such a guy was Nate Bruno.

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starman05 Experienced

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I've told this story before, but it bears (bares?) repeating.

 

I was with a guy who rocked my world - I'm super safe; he's huge and I didn't think I could take him.

 

In the heat of passion, I said ok, I'm ready. Do it. Let's do it. (I couldn't believe I was saying it out loud.)

 

He kind of chuckled, kissed me on the forehead and said oh, baby, you're not ready. I'm not going to fuck you.

 

He was right. I really wasn't ready and I'm forever grateful he knew me better than I knew myself.

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When I think back, top of list for me would be Arek from NYC. Sheer sexual intensity while we were playing, really felt that he was focused on enjoying me and I of course on him. He doesn't advertise anymore, wonder if he's still around?

 

Arek is in a relationship. In addition, his "day job" has taken off and he is very successful in that capacity. Yes, he was one of the best. Handsome with great sexual skills and a caring person.

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Arek is in a relationship. In addition, his "day job" has taken off and he is very successful in that capacity. Yes, he was one of the best. Handsome with great sexual skills and a caring person.

Thanks bigjoey. Happy to hear this. He was stressed about the day job when I last met him and very committed to it. Glad for him that his efforts have taken off.

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Epigonos Grand Master

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You know guys we are all adults here and we all make choices. It is a certainly that we will not ALL agree with each other’s choices. Please keep in mind that there is a huge number of people outside this site who would likely consider all of us who participate here disgusting, sicko perverts. So let’s cut each other some slack. Maybe we don’t believe in bareback sex. Maybe we believe in wearing a condom during oral sex. Those are choices we each make and let’s not condemn or make snide remarks about those with whom we disagree. If we can’t be tolerant with each other here how can we expect other from the outside to be tolerant with us.

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