"Little things" (said or done by an escort) that turned you OFF/ON. Inspired by LivingnLA

[Jim Corrigan]

Walking thru some wooded areas with my favorite escort and we walked thru some steep areas.He grabbed me by the hand to make sure I didn't fall.I told him I was fine.He said"actually I just like holding your hand" and did just that for the rest of the walk.Huge turn on.

[+ azdr0710]

despite it not really being his thing, a much well-regarded escort will go on somewhat-rough hikes with me....I request he not wear a shirt.....game of him...

[rvwnsd]

One of the things I find a turn-off is an escort bad-mouthing a fellow escort in a public forum.

[+ dutchmuch]

Turn-off:

 

Being called 'Hun', or 'Honey', verbally or text.

[jjkrkwood]

Turn-off:

 

Being called 'Hun', or 'Honey', verbally or text.

 

OK boo, I would never refer to you in that way. It's so "Real Housewives of NJ"

[marylander1940]

OK boo, I would never refer to you in that way. It's so "Real Housewives of NJ"

 

I think that's more of a southern thing, just like calling someone:

 

 

This is more "Real housewives of New Jersey"

 

[WolfRamNHard]

Turn-ons - good eye contact; playing with my hair; holding my head or cradling the back of my neck while kissing; kissing like he really enjoys it; flip-flops

 

Turn-offs - only incidents that come to mind right now are (1) inattentive/distracted escort (maybe he was high or something, I don't know); (2) making racist comments assuming that I'd be ok with it since I don't belong to that particular group (don't assume I'd be ok with that!)

[rocky]

I've never been irritated by an escort except the ones who didn't show up or didn't look like their pictures...

 

I hope this thread won't get any of yinz depressed, but let's talk about those little things said by escorts that cheered you up and in other cases turned/pissed you off.

 

Little things that made a big deal making you feel great or not.

Well I've had some experiences lately that really have pissed me off. we're together and he's playing Pokemon and I finally say, either it's Pokemon or me. And someone I've seen for awhile. Wasn't happy, if you can't pay attention to the guy paying your time, then just leave.

[klifhangar]

Turn on: being complimented, details or comments made from a previous time spent together remembered, eye contact and verbal connection.

 

Turn off - smell of smoke, narcissism, bad hygiene, at any level of any body part, flakiness

[klifhangar]

I had a dude say "I remember last time, you said "xxxx" - it was so adorable". Having a specific comment remembered was sweet and won him points. Also, physical response - hardness, groaning, being verbally appreciative. Mmmm hmmmm.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Believe or not this has happened to me, and of course these are turn offs: a visible hemorrhoid when I'm going to eat his ass, visible papilloma in the same situation.

[wisconsinguy]

Turn on: being greeted with a smile, tight hug, eye contact, and a nice, SLOW, deep kiss.

 

Turn off: as I'm leaving, being asked to supply drugs for our next meeting!

I can so relate to the smile, tight hug, eye contact, and a nice SLOW, deep kiss. Reminds me of someone!

[TruHart1]

I can so relate to the smile, tight hug, eye contact, and a nice SLOW, deep kiss. Reminds me of someone!

...and such a wonderful someone he is, WG2!!! :)

 

TruHart1

[+ Keith30309]

Believe or not this has happened to me, and of course these are turn offs: a visible hemorrhoid when I'm going to eat his ass, visible papilloma in the same situation.

 

Oh wow - this happened to me too. You could practically hear the tires squeeling as I did a U-turn and headed for greener pastures. Sweet guy and I felt kinda badly for him.

[sincitymix]

hmmm... not sure if i view its as an insult or a compliment.. im leaning toward compliment. " I cant cum while fucking you, your ass is to tight"

[+ José Soplanucas]

Oh wow - this happened to me too. You could practically hear the tires squeeling as I did a U-turn and headed for greener pastures. Sweet guy and I felt kinda badly for him.

Yep, it actually happened to me more than twice. I never dared to submit a review, the guys were sweet and doing well until the shocking finding.

[+ Keith30309]

... on the other hand, I'm no specimen of physical perfection and I really appreciate all the things that guys have said and done that make me feel great about myself.

[WolfRamNHard]

Believe or not this has happened to me, and of course these are turn offs: a visible hemorrhoid when I'm going to eat his ass, visible papilloma in the same situation.

 

Visible papilloma - don't touch it because it could be contagious.

 

Visible hemorrhoid - not pretty, but you don't have to worry about catching anything from it

[WolfRamNHard]

I can so relate to the smile, tight hug, eye contact, and a nice SLOW, deep kiss. Reminds me of someone!

 

...and such a wonderful someone he is, WG2!!! :)

 

TruHart1

 

Now I'm dying to know who this person is! Please feel free to share, by PM if you prefer.

[TruHart1]

Now I'm dying to know who this person is! Please feel free to share, by PM if you prefer.

@WolfRamNHard, it is one of the best, if not the best, Chicago has to offer...Raul G. Manzo. He's a true Renaissance man in the best sense and one of the greatest BFE's I've ever been lucky enough to experience, not to mention an expert in more adventurous role-play if that's what you might want, right @whipped guy?

 

TruHart1

[whipped guy]

WolfRamNHard, it is one of the best, if not the best, Chicago has to offer...Raul G. Manzo. He's a true Renaissance man in the best sense and one of the greatest BFE's I've ever been lucky enough to experience, not to mention an expert in more adventurous role-play if that's whatm

you might want, right @whipped guy?

 

TruHart1

Yes @TruHart1 , Raul G. Manzo can do it all!!! And yes! Even MY type of a BFE!!! LOL!

[+ sniper]

Oh wow - this happened to me too. You could practically hear the tires squeeling as I did a U-turn and headed for greener pastures. Sweet guy and I felt kinda badly for him.

 

Yep, it actually happened to me more than twice. I never dared to submit a review, the guys were sweet and doing well until the shocking finding.

 

Did you tell the guys about what you saw? I'd think they'd appreciate it. And some people are genuinely clueless about that stuff.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Did you tell the guys about what you saw? I'd think they'd appreciate it. And some people are genuinely clueless about that stuff.

 

Hell yes. Keith breaks metaphor is pretty accurate. I didnt want to be rude, or to show openly my rejection because I did not want to hurt the guys self esteem. I would leave the "compromised area", and quickly but not suddenly cool down. In all cases I apologized because the chemistry was not working, and moved to friendly chatting. During the conversation I asked if they knew about the issue. In the case of the guy with the hemorrhoid, which happened to me only once, I actually thought it was a papilloma. When I shared my concern, he told me otherwise. This was the one case that bothered me, because he knew about the issue and he didn't warn me during our pre hiring negotiation when I told him I was into eating ass. The other guys did not know, and did not know about HPV, so I had to educate them. They were very appreciative.