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Beancounter and WmClarke - when I wrote what I did above, I really didn't doubt what either of you had earlier said. I was hoping to convey my sense of incredulity at the chutzpah of some "service providers."

 

Sometimes I find it hard to keep up with the crazy behavior of others.

 

 

Hi Phil! Many times it's difficult for humor in the written form to translate easily via a text message. I wouldn't have believed it either except that I was there and was utterly dumbfounded. Guy was high on crystal meth.

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Do you stick with a regular who makes you feel good, or do venture into the abyss hoping that the confidence you've built sticks?

 

Ah! That is the question. ( cue Hamlet's soliloquy) Our need to spread seed keeps telling us to prowl searching for new partners, but the search can be dangerous and emotionally painful. I have had three very fine, totally satisfactory escorts that I could happily see on a daily rotational basis forever. BUT.... I'm seeing a new guy in two weeks. Why? Because my balls told me to. I just want him!!

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Beancounter and WmClarke - when I wrote what I did above, I really didn't doubt what either of you had earlier said. I was hoping to convey my sense of incredulity at the chutzpah of some "service providers."

 

Sometimes I find it hard to keep up with the crazy behavior of others.

It is crazy, isn't it! :)

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Another little thing I forgot. The first guy I hired was great, but while he came to town regularly, it was never at a time I could make work. After a long time, more than five years, I saw that he was coming and that I'd be free so I sent him an email. I said there was no way he'd remember me but that we'd met x number of years ago. He wrote back to say he did remember me, remembered that I had 3 boys two of whom were twins, remembered what I did for a living, and remembered part of our conversation that I'd forgotten all about. Now, maybe he keeps a log of client facts so he'll keep track of them, but this was a long time with no contact and it was very cool to me.

 

He's coming back to town in a couple of weeks. Hmm, better check my schedule...�

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Thanks guys, and sorry for being such a schmuck with all of this. This isn't exactly a subject and dilemma I can process with friends or family. I'm way behind the learning curve with this.

 

Absolutely do NOT apologize. I LOVE this thread. It helps me to remember all this is more about relationship than buying and selling a service or product. Even if it's just for an hour and you may never see the person again, it is.....for that short time....a relationship. This fact requires that both parties give and take, consider the needs of the other, and try not to be a schmuck. I find it so dam exciting. Here is a gorgeous guy that I get to talk with, cuddle with, have SEX with. Sex, with a beautiful younger man. We get so picky, critical, as if we're at the market selecting the ripest fruit. Keep your eye on the big picture. A beautiful man is gonna pound your brains out if you want. Or you might get to do same to him.

 

What a great time for a gay man to be alive!!!!

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@Becket

 

I love your attitude. I'd love to see more of you on the forum....... I mean more of your thoughts, of course.!

Or.......more of whatever.......!??! Your avatar is very attractive........!!!!

 

(Sorry. That's my balls talking again. "Spread the seed, spread the seed!")

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I am being more careful to ask permission before I do some sexual things, no matter how innocent they seem to me.

 

Yay! Congratulations! That is what makes intimacy consensual. So often we have the feeling that we are entitled to our lover's bodies, I can imagine how this might be even a greater problem when you are paying for their time. Truth is it is a big honour to be invited into our partner's intimate circle and we should always treat it with loving care and consideration.

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Thanks guys, and sorry for being such a schmuck with all of this. This isn't exactly a subject and dilemma I can process with friends or family. I'm way behind the learning curve with this.

 

Clocker, self acceptance and self love are incredibly difficult and once achieved can be lost. They're like any ability or skill that needs to be nurtured.

 

You seem like a very thoughtful man. I have no idea about your history or journey. All I can say, what I see in the forum is a smart, sensitive, and caring man. That right there is worthy of love and acceptance. I hope you know that at least in LA, you have one person who loves and accepts you for you.

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Nice compliment at the time... but now with all of us out the closet my straight cousins can't get time enough to handle all the demand they're getting from lonely women.

 

I'm sure it could be a good time for gigolos, even women would pay for sex.

 

If that was the case, we would see a lot of young men opting out of the (legal) labor market. There's no evidence that that's happening.

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If that was the case, we would see a lot of young men opting out of the (legal) labor market. There's no evidence that that's happening.

 

How many escort can our society afford to have at a time?

 

I'm kinda certain the ones that realize "they got the goods" are !...... o_O

 

the looks and the stomach to do it (Viagra is implied).

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How many escort can our society afford to have at a time?

 

If, as Maryland claims, there's suddenly a large female market for paid sex, then we should be seeing many more MtF-only escorts. We would also see a drop in the number of gay-for-pay escorts. Most noticeable for clients here would be a relative increase in the rates of "straight" escorts compared to those of gay escorts.

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If, as Maryland claims, there's suddenly a large female market for paid sex, then we should be seeing many more MtF-only escorts. We would also see a drop in the number of gay-for-pay escorts. Most noticeable for clients here would be a relative increase in the rates of "straight" escorts compared to those of gay escorts.

Point well taken.

 

Personally, I've never met a woman who thinks where her dick.

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If, as Maryland claims, there's suddenly a large female market for paid sex, then we should be seeing many more MtF-only escorts. We would also see a drop in the number of gay-for-pay escorts. Most noticeable for clients here would be a relative increase in the rates of "straight" escorts compared to those of gay escorts.

 

Tell your straight (male) friends to join come to any large city and join tinder and see how much they get hit.

 

www.cowboys4angels.com

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Off topic but Mario is hot - I'd pay $350 to lure him to the dark side.

Wow... some of those cowboys are hot but they seem to start at $350 and go from there... Please don't let any of the escorts on here see this or it might given them ideas.. :eek:

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Wow... some of those cowboys are hot but they seem to start at $350 and go from there... Please don't let any of the escorts on here see this or it might given them ideas.. :eek:

 

@mattr, Those "cowboys" are very high-end, probably mostly for 1%er wives who want a distraction. I'm sure there are very discreet very high-end escorts for gay 1%ers like Thiel or Cook. Lol!

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Nick is more my speed though I could do without the nipple piercing and 25k/week is a bit much. Lol!

 

https://cowboys4angels.com/cowboy/nick-hawk/

 

"Nick is part of the modern male movement coaching men how to develop their confidence, approach and treat women."

 

You can bet he uses his status as a supposed $25K a week escort to sell his PUA seminars. He's got 'em coming and going!

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"Nick is part of the modern male movement coaching men how to develop their confidence, approach and treat women."

 

You can bet he uses his status as a supposed $25K a week escort to sell his PUA seminars. He's got 'em coming and going!

 

Exactly! I thought that was hilarious.

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