"Little things" (said or done by an escort) that turned you OFF/ON. Inspired by LivingnLA

[+ WmClarke]

On thr flip side, being told to blow an escort while he's on his laptop. (We'd both been checking our respective devices for email and such.) I was kinda hoping he was responding to something on the forum as I bkew him, but he was probably checking his email. But the idea that I was busy serving him while he was nonchalantly (or maybe not so nonchalantly) doing something else was a big turn-on.

That would be hot. My situation was not.

[+ glennnn]

A judicious application of teeth might have been appropriate at that moment.

[+ Funguy]

Turn on: being greeted with a smile, tight hug, eye contact, and a nice, SLOW, deep kiss.

 

Turn off: as I'm leaving, being asked to supply drugs for our next meeting!

[jjkrkwood]

Glenn has been always nice to everybody, please save your sarcasm for others who deserve it and plenty...

 

 

glennn obviously saw the humor in my post by his cute reply, so I am not sure why it offended you Mary? As for my sarcasm, I am an equal opportunity offender... Noone is spared... As they say "if the sarcasm fits...."

[+ quoththeraven]

That would be hot. My situation was not.

 

But notice how one little change in the fact pattern makes all the difference!

[LivingnLA]

But notice how one little change in the fact pattern makes all the difference!

 

Precisely! It's the "little things."

[bobchitown]

I was surfing cam4 the other day, I know... And saw a feed where a dude was getting sucked off by a guy was was on his back in a sling. He was texting and looking totally bored. He was also limp, so likely WAS bored.

[romanz]

Big turn-ons: 1. My favorite escort planned an outing without my knowledge and asked me to drive to the unknown said destination. When we arrived, he surprised me with a Mission Escape adventure. We both had a fantastic time. 2. This same awesome escort tried to get the bakery in my little home town to deliver some cherry/pineapple/walnut danishes to me a few days after we had spent several days together. He was unsuccessful because the bakery had no website and no danishes. But, just the very fact that he tried, really touched my heart.

[jjkrkwood]

I was surfing cam4 the other day, I know... And saw a feed where a dude was getting sucked off by a guy was was on his back in a sling. He was texting and looking totally bored. He was also limp, so likely WAS bored.

 

There are very FEW CAM guys that ever give you a good show. They usually sit there for hours doing boring shit or nothing at all, and ask for tips... For What ? to watch you sitting there with your soft dick....

 

And rarely are the couples CAMS exciting. the bottom is usually soft, and the top is drilling, but watching his laptop and the spectator comments.

[marylander1940]

glennn obviously saw the humor in my post by his cute reply, so I am not sure why it offended you Mary? As for my sarcasm, I am an equal opportunity offender... Noone is spared... As they say "if the sarcasm fits...."

 

JJ Kardashian:

 

We all know you mess with everybody, but Glenn's sweet and honest comment was coming out of his heart, and it was something we can all rely to... I had to say something.

 

I'm sure he did... eventually, your sarcasm/cynicism sometimes is hard to swallow...

 

I can't wait to see your reply... should I be scared?

 

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[jjkrkwood]

JJ Kardashian:

 

We all know you mess with everybody, but Glenn's sweet and honest comment was coming out of his heart, and it was something we can all rely to... I had to say something.

 

I'm sure he did... eventually, your sarcasm/cynicism sometimes is hard to swallow...

 

I can't wait to see your reply... should I be scared?

 

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[Beancounter]

Biggest turn off for me....having the escort stop everything in the middle of sex and go open a package from Amazon. Package contained a bag of dog food. Let me know immediately where I stood on his totem pole. Hard to get my head around the fact I'm less important than a bag of dog food.

 

Biggest turn on for me....having an escort tell me he wished all his clients were as nice as I was. I don't know if he meant it or not but it sure made me feel good.

[marylander1940]

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I'm disappointed...

[Reluctant Daddy]

I recently had a really hot escort tell me I was hot several times through our session. That, and the fact that I think his guide dog liked me was kind of nice.

[+ José Soplanucas]

In the strip club:

1. Very hot, young looking guy, jumps on me to give me a lap dance. I tell him, boy you are hot, but you look like one of my students and I do not feel comfortable. He responds, ssshhhh professor, I really need that A.
   
2. One of the dancers I hooked up with several times. Early in the night comes to me, French kisses me, grabs my packet, and says, I want to suck your dick now, take me to your place.
   

[+ WmClarke]

In the strip club:

1. Very hot, young looking guy, jumps on me to give me a lap dance. I tell him, boy you are hot, but you look like one of my students and I do not feel comfortable. He responds, ssshhhh professor, I really need that A
   

That's hot!!

 

In the strip club:

1. 
    
   
2. One of the dancers I hooked up with several times. Early in the night comes to me, French kisses me, grabs my packet, and says, I want to suck your dick now, take me to your place.
   

That's pretty hot, too. But not quite as hot as #1

[LivingnLA]

In the strip club:

1. Very hot, young looking guy, jumps on me to give me a lap dance. I tell him, boy you are hot, but you look like one of my students and I do not feel comfortable. He responds, ssshhhh professor, I really need that A.
   
2. One of the dancers I hooked up with several times. Early in the night comes to me, French kisses me, grabs my packet, and says, I want to suck your dick now, take me to your place.
   

 

I'm guessing both of those were good "little things."

[+ Keith30309]

Turn off: Getting up and going to clean up after he's finished leaving me solo and frustrated.

During our time having an extended texting session then phone call with his roommate.

Not responding to a post-session "thank you" text I send (I'm surprised how often this happens) and in one case not acknowledging a gift I'd picked out for him.

These are examples of not being "present" and focused on the client.

 

 

Turn on: Getting hugely turned on by whatever I'm doing or being a good enough actor to convince me.

Surprises that show that he's thought about our meeting in advance.

Letting me know that he's enjoyed my company.

[BaronArtz]

Seeing another client leave the apartment, as I am ready to get in myself is something I hate. I absolutely detest it. And it happened more than once, with different escorts.

 

What turns me off even more is when they discuss other clients. One escort mentioned a specific client by name - he was a well known hair colorist with a salon on Madison Ave. Come on.

 

An even BIGGER turnoff is when they discuss raunchy activities with other clients. Sorry, I really don't want to hear your stories about fisting, being hired to poop on the floor, licking somebody's dirty toilet seat or being fucked by a pre-op trans hooker. Call me a prude, if you will, but I have my limits.

[+ Funguy]

Turn on: Getting hugely turned on by whatever I'm doing or being a good enough actor to convince me.

Surprises that show that he's thought about our meeting in advance.

Letting me know that he's enjoyed my company.

[TruHart1]

I have to go back to my first ever hire 5 years ago, Ares Apollo in NYC and one major thing he did that helped me in all my future appointments:

 

Through our entire appointment, I kept apologizing for my lack of oral skills and my lack of confidence in bed, saying I was sorry about this or that again and again. After our session was finished, before we got cleaned up and dressed, he patted the bed for me to sit beside him and, like a stern but loving father, (he's at least 30 years my junior!) told me NEVER to apologize to any future escort for any self-perceived lack of sexual skills. He also told me that I should never apologize for any physical shortcomings I felt I have (overweight, older, etc.) and went on to point out various aspects about me physically he found to be quite a turn-on for him and which he assured me future escorts would also find attractive!

 

I credit him and his loving lecture for starting a new chapter in my life with beginning to positively build my self-confidence which is so much stronger now than it was in my younger years when I always felt like the unattractive wallflower in most gay social situations. Also, thanks to him, I found this hobby that keeps me happy, adventurous and feeling younger and more energetic than most of my same-age friends! Finally, the "little thing" wasn't said to me but right after our play was concluded, I was sweating profusely and he lay next to me, literally blowing air gently at my face to help my sweat dry. This act seemed so much more intimate to me than even the genital contact we'd just had. That small gesture from him hooked me for life and showed me how wonderful a true BFE can be!

 

I have had so many kind and exciting "little things" freely given to me over my years of hiring from many, many excellent guys but I always think back to that very first experience and know if my first had not been Ares, my perception of this hobby might have been so very different.

 

TruHart1

[+ Keith30309]

Seeing another client leave the apartment, as I am ready to get in myself is something I hate. I absolutely detest it. And it happened more than once, with different escorts.

 

What turns me off even more is when they discuss other clients. One escort mentioned a specific client by name - he was a well known hair colorist with a salon on Madison Ave. Come on.

 

An even BIGGER turnoff is when they discuss raunchy activities with other clients. Sorry, I really don't want to hear your stories about fisting, being hired to poop on the floor, licking somebody's dirty toilet seat or being fucked by a pre-op trans hooker. Call me a prude, if you will, but I have my limits.

 

+1

 

A twist on the activity discussion: The other day I was regaled by a new hire with stories of wild, drug-fueled, all-night orgies filled with all sorts of mind-blowing kink. And he was unable to get an erection for our modest, vanilla session. Humorous and ironic but a little frustrating.

[Reluctant Daddy]

Through our entire appointment, I kept apologizing for my lack of oral skills and my lack of confidence in bed, saying I was sorry about this or that again and again.

 

I credit him and his loving lecture for starting a new chapter in my life with beginning to positively build my self-confidence which is so much stronger now than it was in my younger years when I always felt like the unattractive wallflower in most gay social situations.

 

How difficult was it to build your confidence? I recently found myself apologizing throughout a session and was so unsure of myself, both physically and performance-wise, that I was literally afraid to do anything.

[TruHart1]

How difficult was it to build your confidence? I recently found myself apologizing throughout a session and was so unsure of myself, both physically and performance-wise, that I was literally afraid to do anything.

I have never apologized to an escort since that first experience with Ares. If an escort criticizes me for something while we're in bed, which has happened very rarely, I'll adjust to try to correct my interaction with him and remember his criticism (if I feel it's legitimate) for future meetings. I can think of only one instance where the escort devastatingly ravaged my self-esteem and, although I felt like the lowest of the low and very hurt, after much thought I realized that I had innocently happened to accidentally set him off by touching on something during our play with which he had deep-seated, emotional issues from past emotional scars or whatever. My self-esteem continues to grow stronger but I am being more careful to ask permission before I do some sexual things, no matter how innocent they seem to me.

 

Clocker, I'd advise you to avoid hiring that particular escort ever again and any other escort who might be negative enough to make you feel apologetic or hurt your self-confidence. Try to learn a lesson from this experience. Great escorts make the time with their client about building up the client and making him happy and completely satisfied, not just sexually but socially too. We can all run across an escort who has personal emotional or mental problems. We always need to check them out well enough (reviews have always helped me) to avoid the damaged guys.

 

TruHart1

[+ glennnn]

His grunting, moaning and twitching muscles as he came in my mouth.