I think there is a balance: clients need to remember that escorts are human beings with feelings - not commodities. At the same time, and especially on a forum like this, preferences are going to be discussed. There's a big difference between a statement like "I've never been into hairy bodies" and "(Name) looks like he's been ridden hard and put up wet". Just don't make it personal.
I will say that I have been surprised by how much escorts seem to care about others' opinions, comments etc.