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Porn star Patrick Dunne has some feastable nips. Mmmmm

Well, while y'all don't know me that well, I hope I can put any hesitations to rest. I "hung out" with Kerry this evening and honestly... I'm not one to rave about anyone but.. good god above. What a great guy in every way. Better looking than his pics, if that's possible, gentle, kind, intelligent, charming, incredibly giving and assuring and strong and hot and tasty and handsome. Most of all, Kerry is incredibly likeable. I was afraid I would miss out on... because I just loved talking to him.
 
God, that body and that face. Ah man... if you have a chance to hang out with the guy. Do it. Better yet, don't so I can keep him to myself.

Well, while y'all don't know me that well, I hope I can put any hesitations to rest. I "hung out" with Kerry this evening and honestly... I'm not one to rave about anyone but.. good god above. What a great guy in every way. Better looking than his pics, if that's possible, gentle, kind, intelligent, charming, incredibly giving and assuring and strong and hot and tasty and handsome. Most of all, Kerry is incredibly likeable. I was afraid I would miss out on... because I just loved talking to him.
 
God, that body and that face. Ah man... if you have a chance to hang out with the guy. Do it. Better yet, don't so I can keep him to myself.

Well, while y'all don't know me that well, I hope I can put any hesitations to rest. I "hung out" with Kerry this evening and honestly... I'm not one to rave about anyone but.. good god above. What a great guy in every way. Better looking than his pics, if that's possible, gentle, kind, intelligent, charming, incredibly giving and assuring and strong and hot and tasty and handsome. Most of all, Kerry is incredibly likeable. I was afraid I would miss out on... because I just loved talking to him.
 
God, that body and that face. Ah man... if you have a chance to hang out with the guy. Do it. Better yet, don't so I can keep him to myself.

Only if the Beatle ate lots of citrus first

I love a good and unhesitant kisser. I am super affection-driven and someone who starts slowly kissing, works their way and is generous with their tongue and spit will really get my hard. I can go from small, teasing pecks to "jam that fucking tongue down my throat" pretty effectively

I love a good and unhesitant kisser. I am super affection-driven and someone who starts slowly kissing, works their way and is generous with their tongue and spit will really get my hard. I can go from small, teasing pecks to "jam that fucking tongue down my throat" pretty effectively

Wow, I hope you hired him! That fish looks like he could suck some...

Wow, I hope you hired him! That fish looks like he could suck some...

Well, while y'all don't know me that well, I hope I can put any hesitations to rest. I "hung out" with Kerry this evening and honestly... I'm not one to rave about anyone but.. good god above. What a great guy in every way. Better looking than his pics, if that's possible, gentle, kind, intelligent, charming, incredibly giving and assuring and strong and hot and tasty and handsome. Most of all, Kerry is incredibly likeable. I was afraid I would miss out on... because I just loved talking to him.
 
God, that body and that face. Ah man... if you have a chance to hang out with the guy. Do it. Better yet, don't so I can keep him to myself.

I love a good and unhesitant kisser. I am super affection-driven and someone who starts slowly kissing, works their way and is generous with their tongue and spit will really get my hard. I can go from small, teasing pecks to "jam that fucking tongue down my throat" pretty effectively

Perhaps at one of the gatherings of this tribe there could be workshops. Get the leading escort in each particular field: (kissing, rubbing, sucking, massaging...whatever) and have him teach us the basics. I would love to improve on my techniques.

I imagine so. And he has been the center of many of my fantasies over the years

I love a good and unhesitant kisser. I am super affection-driven and someone who starts slowly kissing, works their way and is generous with their tongue and spit will really get my hard. I can go from small, teasing pecks to "jam that fucking tongue down my throat" pretty effectively

I love a good and unhesitant kisser. I am super affection-driven and someone who starts slowly kissing, works their way and is generous with their tongue and spit will really get my hard. I can go from small, teasing pecks to "jam that fucking tongue down my throat" pretty effectively

I kinda like those videos, myself!! Then again, I am a little biased towards Mr. Saint....lol.
(Ace)

I think there is a balance: clients need to remember that escorts are human beings with feelings - not commodities. At the same time, and especially on a forum like this, preferences are going to be discussed. There's a big difference between a statement like "I've never been into hairy bodies" and "(Name) looks like he's been ridden hard and put up wet". Just don't make it personal.
 
I will say that I have been surprised by how much escorts seem to care about others' opinions, comments etc.

I think there is a balance: clients need to remember that escorts are human beings with feelings - not commodities. At the same time, and especially on a forum like this, preferences are going to be discussed. There's a big difference between a statement like "I've never been into hairy bodies" and "(Name) looks like he's been ridden hard and put up wet". Just don't make it personal.
 
I will say that I have been surprised by how much escorts seem to care about others' opinions, comments etc.

Negative comments about our looks?
 
Really?
 
I am by no means the most beautiful man in the world, I am in the high thirties, have tons of flaws and if that were not enough, I am not white. To this day, I can't remember a single client making a negative comment about me to my face.
 
People treat you the way you treat them. Give them kindness, warmth and respect and that is what you will receive from them... also, as a few disgruntled forum members can attest to, I don't meet assholes.
 
"What do you mean you won't see me? Shut up and put me on your schedule, you'll get your money!" (Nope).
 
On the other hand, I am incredibly aware of the fact that I am not (and don't want to be) everyone's cup of tea. I am a cup of tea, I am not the ocean. I am a single cup of tea and can only be drank by one (or seven) people at a time. I don't need to appeal to everyone, I only need to appeal to those few who will drink me today.
 
Escorting should never be a source of pleasure, companionship and reassurance for escorts. This is our job, we are not here for the perks, we are here to do our job well, and at most, get professional satisfaction. The minute an escort tackles the profession looking for compliments he is fucked. He will constantly be wanting for something from his clients and will put himself in very uncomfortable situations that will never give him his desired ego boost.
 

 
I think you are making a very common mistake that has most of us in pickle. You are conflating self esteem and self esteem issues with the amount of attention and reassurance we get from others. Those are two entirely different and grossly unrelated things that go in opposite directions.
 
Self esteem and self esteem issues are about how I think about myself. Me. About myself. The way others perceive you have absolutely no effect on your self esteem. If other people's judgments happen to match your self assessment, then they will appear to be related, but there is no causation in this correlation.
 
Reassurance, attention, desire, criticism are all going from the outside to the inside. Often when people's self esteems are not entirely healthy, this external input might have the ability to damage it over time, however, when self esteem is being cultivated and is healthy, no amount of praise or criticism will change the way you think about yourself.
 
If an man starts escorting because external reassurance is important for him, he is in for a harsh awakening. This happens often and tends to be really damaging because they soon enough discover that not everyone wants them and they are not the universal appeal jewel they wished they were.
 
If a man starts escorting with a healthy self esteem and not really interested in receiving reassurance, he will discover this is a fulfilling and fun profession when he can help others cultivate that sense of confidence he himself enjoys. While he will not appeal to everyone, he will be happy knowing that he will appeal to enough people to keep him busy.
 
Also, if someone is that much of an asshole that he thinks he is entitled to be a dick, that immediately robs his opinion of every bit of validity.
 
Life is too damned short.

Only if the Beatle ate lots of citrus first

Only if the Beatle ate lots of citrus first

Only if the Beatle ate lots of citrus first

Only if the Beatle ate lots of citrus first

Only if the Beatle ate lots of citrus first

min·i·mize
ˈminəˌmīz/
verb
gerund or present participle: minimizing

reduce (something, especially something unwanted or unpleasant) to the smallest possible amount or degree.
"the aim is to minimize costs"
synonyms: keep down, keep at/to a minimum, reduce, decrease, cut down, lessen, curtail, diminish, prune;
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"the aim is to minimize costs"
represent or estimate at less than the true value or importance.
"they may minimize, or even overlook, the importance of such beliefs"
synonyms: belittle, make light of, play down, underestimate, underrate, downplay, undervalue, underappreciate, understate; More



No, It doesn't sound like you are minimizing it. You ARE. You are literally saying that it is not as bad as she thinks it is.
 

 
Yep.
 

 
Yes, and until we stop trying to tell the victims how to feel and tell them they didn't get it as bad as they think they did, rape will have the masses moral support.
 
By telling a victim he/she should buck up and tone it down, what we are doing is (consciously or subconsciously) supporting the perpetrator.