Kissing as bonding

[gallahadesquire]

Not just for escorts, but for everybody:

 

After the initial lip lock, and some time together, has anyone else found kissing to be more of a bonding than a sexual gesture? And I do mean, tongue in full gear, no holds bar, not-just-a-peck-on-the-cheek.

 

Raison d'être: A recent experience. And it was fabulous. Kind of like talking, but without the words.

[+ Robster]

For me, it's both. It's always a treat when I find someone who enjoys kissing as much as I do.

 

Rob

[+ WmClarke]

I do.

[+ Keith30309]

Yes, absolutely... There's so many thoughts and feelings that can be expressed thru kissing it IS like a conversation.

[gallahadesquire]

Thank you, Gentlemen, for the reinforcement. I found it a bit odd at first, but after awhile, it seemed as natural as swallowing cum after a blowjob.

[Zapped]

There are guys who will fuck and suck with a hokup, but not kiss, because it's too intimate.

[Kody S]

Totally I agree with Keith30309 Kissing is fantastic and is actually what I enjoy the most because it is about connection and "conversation."

[ChrisWydeman]

Not just for escorts, but for everybody:

 

After the initial lip lock, and some time together, has anyone else found kissing to be more of a bonding than a sexual gesture? And I do mean, tongue in full gear, no holds bar, not-just-a-peck-on-the-cheek.

 

Raison d'être: A recent experience. And it was fabulous. Kind of like talking, but without the words.

I guess the question I have is...are they are good kisser?

[+ glennnn]

I think it is the most intimate thing two men can do, although a hot 69 is also nice. The thing about kissing is the chance to look directly in your partners eyes and really SEE him. Do you find that your kissing moves change from guy to guy, that you match and balance him creating a special and unique moment that is just about the two of you?

[Kody S]

Kissing is extremely creative and like conversation will naturally be different from person to person as they have different needs and chemistry.

[jjkrkwood]

YES, it's a must for me, either before or after I devour their cock !

[liubit]

Kissing is intimate, bonding, sexual, hot, sweet.....and more.

 

Simply indispensable!

[30somethingsexybear]

If you know how to kiss I get instant wood so for me I guess deep slow kissing is sexual while kissing in between conversation (pillow talk) is more bonding. I definitely need kissing to feel like I had a fulfilling sexual experience no matter how piggy the session gets.

[dcguy20]

In my book: no kissing = no f*cking!

[Strafe13]

There are guys who will fuck and suck with a hokup, but not kiss, because it's too intimate.

 

I'm sort of in that camp. Not that I won't kiss a guy I'm just hooking up with, but kissing does feel more intimate to me, despite the fact that, as a bottom, there's a really intimate aspect of the sexual act I'm more inclined to participate in. I can do a hookup with a guy I'm not super into, but it won't involve kissing. But if I'm really into a guy I'm just hooking up with, kissing will take it to the next level. And it's rare that I've had a really enjoyable escort experience that hasn't involved great kissing.

[AdamSmith]

I was with an escort one night and just as it occurred to me that he really knew how to kiss, he said to me, "you're a really great kisser." We had had dinner together before getting down, had gotten a little bit of the sense of each other etc., so we weren't just in the frantic of an hour plug-and-go. I had hired him for the evening. That affirmation from him was really great, the high point of the evening for me even above our mutual orgasms.

[klifhangar]

I love a good and unhesitant kisser. I am super affection-driven and someone who starts slowly kissing, works their way and is generous with their tongue and spit will really get my hard. I can go from small, teasing pecks to "jam that fucking tongue down my throat" pretty effectively

[Becket]

I feel like Sally Fields at the Oscars when I am kissed. "You LIKE ME! You REALLY LIKE ME!!!"

[TruHart1]

I think it is the most intimate thing two men can do, although a hot 69 is also nice. The thing about kissing is the chance to look directly in your partners eyes and really SEE him. Do you find that your kissing moves change from guy to guy, that you match and balance him creating a special and unique moment that is just about the two of you?

Absolutely! I always find myself adjusting to the kissing technique of the man I'm with. I'm certain that's why some kissers really turn me on immediately while others get me warmed up more slowly. I feel like adjusting my technique to theirs ends up making our sensuous connection so much more intimate! I must admit though, when a man walks through my door, grabs me, and just goes to town with fully committed kisses immediately, my dick gets rock hard!!! :)

 

The best escorts (you know who you are! ) always do that!

 

TruHart1

Edited August 3, 2016 by TruHart1

[+ Truereview]

Press your lips to mine

Slowly inch your way inside

I surrender now

[Rudynate]

It's hot not to kiss sometimes - to get your faces within inches of each other, staring in each others eyes, smelling each other's breath and not to kiss. Sometimes quickies or anonymous encounters unfold in this way.

[whipped guy]

Absolutely! I always find myself adjusting to the kissing technique of the man I'm with. I'm certain that's why some kissers really turn me on immediately while others get me warmed up more slowly. I feel like adjusting my technique to theirs ends up making our sensuous connection so much more intimate! I must admit though, when a man walks through my door, grabs me, and just goes to town with fully committed kisses immediately, my dick gets rock hard!!! :)

 

The best escorts (you know who you are!) always do that!

 

TruHart1

Yes I find myself adjusting as well and as such have learned a thing or two from the real professionals!

 

That quick deep kiss is always good, but I prefer that when I would through the door the guy rips my pants off, gets on his knees, and goes to town!

 

(Oh! Akex 10 why have you not visited NYC in the last few years?!? )

[beachboy]

Press your lips to mine

Slowly inch your way inside

I surrender now

Mmm...sensuous & so sexy!

[gallahadesquire]

Tristan Baldwin used to advertise that kissing took place in all his encounters. That's not on his webpage anymore

[greatnorthernp]

Unless you're swallowing loads, kissing--really deep, sloppy kissing--is the only common sexual activity where we are actually ingesting part of someone's body.