Being Contacted by an Escort

[gallahadesquire]

I had an interesting event happen. A well-known escort texted me and told me he was available in my more-or-less local area, over a period of the next few days.

 

We couldn't set anything up, but ... I was really glad he contacted me, as I'm trying to arrange a repeat episode.

 

Dear Escorts / Companions: Do you ever contact old clients without provocation? I'm perfectly fine with all this, but it was kind of odd.

 

Dear Clients: How much do you feel compromised/[being dealt with indiscretely] were this to happen?

 

Just curious.

[oz_carter]

I don't mind. Just last week I received an email from a former escort I met back in 2011 saying he is back for a few months while he is in NYC. And I was pleased to hear from him. Now I've found another good reason to make a trip to NYC.

[seaboy4hire]

I ask before I contact people I've seen in the past or people that have asked me to let them know when I'll be in their area. I'll let those folk know first before posting any travel plans. And I will let them know via their prefered way of contact, email, text etc.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[AdamSmith]

I appreciate it.

 

Of course it is possible to become a pest by insisting on an appointment as I had an escort do one time.

 

And an email can be more discreet than a call. I answered a call from who turned out to be an escort right in front of my (now) ex-hubby one time.

[+ WilliamM]

I do not have one answer, except it depends on the escort. It's especially true if it was a while ago since we got together.

 

I would love to hear from the first escort I ever hired back in the 1990s. Sex would obviously be my first choice. But, I could settle for lunch and just getting to know him again (a very distant second, after sex, my first choice).

 

Excellent discussion topic!

[Mikegaite]

Yes, as an escort I contact former clients with advanced notice of my travel plans all the time. I think Greg gave the ideal protocol, whereas my strategy is more haphazard, like "Hey i just had sex with someone who works at Apple and apples are fruity and you're really fruity so I thought of you, I will be in your city in a few months, let's fuck." Or I just copy and paste something endearing JD Daniels wrote, use the thesaurus to insert a few big words to make myself appear smarter than I really am, and hit send.

 

There are clients I like to see and clients I love to see, and if they've expressed interest in seeing me again, I'll keep in touch about scheduling. If not interested, clients can politely decline or not respond and life goes on.

 

Mike Gaite

[+ Keith30309]

I've gotten a few of these from guys I've not met and appreciate getting them - I welcome the advance notice.

I *really* like getting them from guys I have met and had a mutually enjoyable meeting. It's sort of like finding a surprise chocolate Easter Egg.

[+ Just Sayin]

my preference would be for an e-mail rather than a text or telephone call; e-mail is private, while text or telephone call may find me at a time where I might have to give an explanation!

[liubit]

Depending on the escort, I normally appreciate being contacted. I do not see it as an invasion of privacy, because I use a separate e-mail for all my "naughty" activities, including this site, as well as a different phone for my boys. If I don't want to see whoever is contacting me, I just send them a polite "sorry, no" kind of message. No fuss.

[maninsoma]

If I obviously had a good experience with a guy (obvious to him because I told him so), I actually appreciate a visiting masseur or escort contacting me when he returns to town. What I don't appreciate is either repeated texts/calls from the same guy over time even though I am not responding to his messages (get the hint: I'm not going to hire you again) or a one-time local contacting me for a repeat session. With a local, it seems pretty obvious that they are still around and available and I would much prefer to have those guys wait for me to contact them versus feeling like I am being marketed to. One guy sent me texts every month or two for a couple of years after I hired him only once!

[BaronArtz]

I don't mind it at all, in fact I appreciate it. I am not continuously searching for who may be coming into town. I view it as good customer service by the escort/masseur.

 

Email only, please.

[jimboivyo]

reckon it depends on how the guy does it. if it comes across as too hard sell, it's a turn off

 

appearing too available is as bad as never being available

[bigvalboy]

Lately I don't want to be contacted. The escorts that I know and hire, I am well aware of their travel plans, and if I am in the mood for a hire I will reach out to them, or if I'm in the mood just for a nice lunch or dinner while they are in town, I will contact them also. The classy ones, if they are available, graciously accept the invitation, knowing that I desire nothing further to happen beyond a nice meal.

 

My Realtor who sold me my last house, called me out of the blue the other day, insisting on sending me info on all of these great investment properties for sale in my area, and then proceeded to hound me for the next several days trying to get me to commit to a time to view them. It was beyond annoying. I follow the market, and I know what's out there, and what's available, and when I'm ready to buy, I know where to find her.

 

In most cases, a nice Christmas card would suffice.

[Alec Andrews]

I think any professional worth their salt.... this profession or not... has a list of contacts. Everyone reaches out in a different way. I specifically ask the clients I've seen if they would allow me to contact them discreetly in the future.. usually by text (my preferred method) or email. Some say yes, others no. I contact them politely with the added "STOP" clause just in case they would wish to be removed from the travel contact list. Don't want to pester or bother anyone. 90% never respond back... but that 10% is magical.

[TruHart1]

I am always happy to receive a text from one of my favorite traveling guys when he plans on cumming through town! I may not always be able to schedule him, although I want to, but I feel privileged to be informed that he's going to be available.

 

So yes, I am glad when an escort contacts me to tell me they will be visiting and available. There are two or three guys who actually check with me before they make their travel plans to visit, so our schedules will be in sync! :)

 

TruHart1

[Rudynate]

I don't mind it at all, in fact I appreciate it. I am not continuously searching for who may be coming into town. I view it as good customer service by the escort/masseur.

 

Email only, please.

 

 

The first time an escort texted to let me know he would be in town, I was delighted. A texted him back and set up an appointment.

[jackjackjack]

I appreciate the contact too.

[+ Truereview]

Great topic indeed. If there is a mutual interest for further appointments, I agree that it is paramount for the companion to ask "what's your preferred method for contact." I also think it is important for the client to be specific and clear in their answer. Personally, as a consumer, I hate telemarketing, ads, commercials, reminders, and unnecessary texting, FYIs blah, blah. If I want something or someone, I plan it and I get it. "Don't call me, I will call you" - said in the gentlest, most loving and kindest of ways. The way I view it, I may not mind a text, email, or a call today, but I may mind it b/c circumstances change in the future - change is the only constant. Therefore, let me make the first move regardless of your interest.

[+ azdr0710]

unfortunately, traveling escorts never come to my podunk burg....so I never get to get these tantalizing invitations everybody here seems to love....damn.....

[MiamiLooker]

Just be considerate of the client. I know of three clients, and there are probably more, that cut off all contact with an escort because his persistent communication became an annoyance. Among other things, his M.O. is (or was) to contact former clients out of the blue with "I'll be in your city on such and such dates. When would you like to schedule an appointment?" He didn't ask "if" but "when"...very presumptuous and annoying.

[+ Truereview]

unfortunately, traveling escorts never come to my podunk burg....so I never get to get these tantalizing invitations everybody here seems to love....damn.....

 

A www, AZDR, my heart goes out to ya, buddy. I've been in that spot before!

 

Hey, folks, I say we all make a road trip to his town and bring our favorite companion along for him to partake!

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

I'm always happy to receive an email or text message from a regular. For example:

• thank you note -- If you appreciate my business, tell me. Since bread-and-butter notes are the province of us old farts, here are some ideas: Few things are more exciting to a guy who's paying for it than a plausible claim that you enjoyed it too. Don't overstate it. Just say something true. ("Your breath on the back of my neck gave me goosebumps".) Acknowledge generosity and acts of kindness. Mention the tip, dinner, groceries delivered when you were sick, tank of gas, donation to your indiegogo campaign, gift of an umbrella the night it rained... whatever. They were freely given -- but by a man raised to believe it rude to take without saying "Thank You". And most of us are turned off by rudeness.
   
  
• general update -- How did your audition/car shopping/marathon/road trip to Canada turn out?
  
• travel plans -- We both travel for business. What a pleasure when our paths cross!
  
• sudden availability -- "I have some time this afternoon. Are you in town?" That's an actual text I got last year, one hour into a dull sales presentation scheduled to continue for another two hours. I answered "yes" and left at once. (I'm particularly vulnerable to such messages.)
  

Guys, you know who you are.

[geminibear]

A www, AZDR, my heart goes out to ya, buddy. I've been in that spot before!

 

Hey, folks, I say we all make a road trip to his town and bring our favorite companion along for him to partake!

 

That might be a big order for AZDR.

[ncc1701d]

Yes please...I don't want to find out later when cruising ads that I've now totally missed the few days that he was here for.

[+ Funguy]

I love it when a previous hire let's me know he is traveling to town.

I also love it when someone i haven't met occasionally emails or PM's me and wants to meet. If I find favorable reviews or if he has a recommendation from a mutual acquaintance (and he turns me on) I will be happy to meet. It's someone I might not ever have considered and it may turn out to be one hot time!

Once there is a flurry of pesty emails - he goes to ignore.