Being Contacted by an Escort

[+ sf westcoaster]

Always pleased to hear from an escort with whom I have spent time. However, hearing from an escort whom I have not previously hired is a major turn off.

[mattr]

As I keep a separate email and burn phone for this hobby I am always happy to hear from an escort, solicited or not... and sometimes the texting back and forth can get pretty steamy, always a plus!

[+ Keith30309]

As I keep a separate email and burn phone for this hobby I am always happy to hear from an escort, solicited or not... and sometimes the texting back and forth can get pretty steamy, always a plus!

 

Heyyyyyy..... I've never gotten any steamy texts. No Fair!

[mattr]

Heyyyyyy..... I've never gotten any steamy texts. No Fair!

 

You have to give to get Keith

[down_to_business]

It's all good as long as they do it only on occasion and stop if asked to. I definitely prefer email to text for this purpose. I would be upset to get a live telephone call unexpectedly soliciting me for business, that would be intrusive in my opinion.

[OneFinger]

I currently have 3 homes - SLC, PDX, and SAN. I always welcome contacts when they are visiting one of my 3 locations. I often don't post where my ass is so them letting me know their travels is important to me.

[body2body]

I always appreciate it when guys who I've had the pleasure of seeing send me an e-mail or text before they come to my area. Tristan Baldwin does this, so does Mike Gaite. Popular guys can book up if they are only going to be around a few days. Also, it's nice to have a handsome man think of you and reach out to you. Something I don't think all companions understand is that anything you do to make me feel attractive and desirable will be greatly appreciated. It is not something I experience on a day to day basis.

The only kind of communication I do not appreciate are explicit texts, especially with photos. A guy I hired several times once sent a text saying "call me F--cker you know you want to" and had a photo of himself erect and hard attached. It arrived while I was meeting with a client, and my phone buzzed, I looked down and quickly covered it with my hand. I don't know if my client saw it, but I was mortified. I've never hired him again and never will.

[+ azdr0710]

I would be upset to get a live telephone call unexpectedly soliciting me for business, that would be intrusive in my opinion.

 

 

hell, I get "a live telephone call unexpectedly soliciting me for business" several times a day!...and, yeah, it's intrusive!

[+ purplekow]

I was at a convention in Philadelphia and hired a traveling escort who leaves me a message every time he is in Philadelphia. Unfortunately, I am not usually in Philadelphia.

I have left him a few messages, but he every few months, I will get a call.

In general, I like the escorts I have hired and I am always glad to hear from them. I understand that it is a business acceleration ploy, but spending a minute or two talking with a sexy man is always a welcome addition to my day. Even in cases in which things did not go exactly as planned, I would welcome a call from an escort. I am usually willing to give anything or anyone a second chance and the mood may be right and moon may be shining and the Cialis might be hanging around and the call comes in and then off I go until the kow comes home.

[Guest countryboywny]

I, as PK so eloquently stated, generally like the escorts I have hired. I like that some of them keep in contact with me, even if it's an occasional quick "shout-out" via text message. It tells me that they didn't forget me and respect me as a person. ..and makes the possibility of a re-hire MUCH more likely.

[+ Charlie]

Back in the days before email existed, an escort whom I had hired once phoned me while I was in the middle of hosting a family dinner party, to ask if I was interested in getting together again that night. It was awkward, to say the least, and after that I stopped giving my phone contact info to escorts.

 

Several years ago I got an email from a former escort asking if I wanted to get together that night. That morning I had read an article in the newspaper about his arrest for assault, that said he had just been released on bail. I politely declined.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I don't mind it at all, in fact I appreciate it. I am not continuously searching for who may be coming into town. I view it as good customer service by the escort/masseur.

 

Email only, please.

 

Well, I will be in NYC in November, just saying

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I had an interesting event happen. A well-known escort texted me and told me he was available in my more-or-less local area, over a period of the next few days.

 

We couldn't set anything up, but ... I was really glad he contacted me, as I'm trying to arrange a repeat episode.

 

Dear Escorts / Companions: Do you ever contact old clients without provocation? I'm perfectly fine with all this, but it was kind of odd.

 

Dear Clients: How much do you feel compromised/[being dealt with indiscretely] were this to happen?

 

Just curious.

 

If its been a mutually enjoyable time, which it is 99% of the time, I will almost always follow up with a client a month or two later, or when I am back in their area. I always indicate in my contacts if the client doesn't wish to be contacted by phone, or if email contact is better. If I don't hear back from someone after trying to contact them once or twice, I will stop, but for the most part I think my clients really appreciate the follow up. Life can get busy and people often put themselves and their needs last, so a little reminder to take some time to reconnect is helpful.

[MiamiLooker]

What about an escort that contacts a client out of the blue? There is no prior history between the two. Their only connection is that the escort knows the client is a regular hirer of another escort. The escort infers that the contact with the client is with the knowledge and acceptance of the client's regular escort, when in fact, it isn't.

[AdamSmith]

What about an escort that contacts a client out of the blue? There is no prior history between the two. Their only connection is that the escort knows the client is a regular hirer of another escort. The escort infers that the contact with the client is with the knowledge and acceptance of the client's regular escort, when in fact, it isn't.

 

Then he is like any other cold-call telemarketer, it would seem. And could be responded to accordingly.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

What about an escort that contacts a client out of the blue? There is no prior history between the two. Their only connection is that the escort knows the client is a regular hirer of another escort. The escort infers that the contact with the client is with the knowledge and acceptance of the client's regular escort, when in fact, it isn't.

I would ask escort "A" how escort "B" had gotten my number. If he had voluntarily shared my contact info without my prior consent, I'd drop him and post a warning to this forum.

[BaronArtz]

What about an escort that contacts a client out of the blue? There is no prior history between the two. Their only connection is that the escort knows the client is a regular hirer of another escort. The escort infers that the contact with the client is with the knowledge and acceptance of the client's regular escort, when in fact, it isn't.

 

In fact, I have been contacted on this site (via PM) by escorts I never hired before. I don't mind it, but it is not something I generally respond to.

[+ azdr0710]

and what about an escort who is apparently very popular on a particular escort-discussion board periodically contacting board members with whom he has never even had meetings?......when does self-promotion become too much?.....

[geminibear]

and what about an escort who is apparently very popular on a particular escort-discussion board periodically contacting board members with whom he has never even had meetings?......when does self-promotion become too much?.....

 

BAZINGA!!!!

[MiamiLooker]

and what about an escort who is apparently very popular on a particular escort-discussion board periodically contacting board members with whom he has never even had meetings?......when does self-promotion become too much?.....

Maybe promoting himself is the primary reason the escort participates on the site.

[MiamiLooker]

Then he is like any other cold-call telemarketer, it would seem. And could be responded to accordingly.

So, maybe not EOY material? What a shame.

[+ azdr0710]

Maybe promoting himself is the primary reason the escort participates on the site.

 

 

but.....but......how could that be?.....I just can't imagine such a thing!!!

[AdamSmith]

So, maybe not EOY material? What a shame.

 

Heh. Course who knows -- the hard sell is working for Trump after all.

[MiamiLooker]

Heh. Course who knows -- the hard sell is working for Trump after all.

The similarities to Trump don't just end there.

http://www.businessinsider.com/paid-actors-at-donald-trump-announcement-2015-6

I understand on some escort discussion boards, escorts have been known to contact client posters and ask them to make posts recommending the escort to other clients. Of course, they never seem to include the acknowledgement that the post was at the suggestion of the escort. Not very honest of either the client or the escort, IMO.

[bigvalboy]

The similarities to Trump don't just end there.

http://www.businessinsider.com/paid-actors-at-donald-trump-announcement-2015-6

I understand on some escort discussion boards, escorts have been known to contact client posters and ask them to make posts recommending the escort to other clients. Of course, they never seem to include the acknowledgement that the post was at the suggestion of the escort. Not very honest of either the client or the escort, IMO.

 

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