Prepping for a long evening

[Lankypeters]

I know that if a guy is coming over for a hook-up that involves getting fucked that I should prep an hour or so before he arrives. But what should I do if the tryst is preceded by a full evening -- dinner, say, followed by a play, a concert or a movie. When should I douche? Before the entire evening? That doesn't seem like it would work, and might lead to complications, or "unwanted messages," especially after a full dinner. And excusing myself for a bit once we're back at the apartment seems awkward. Advice?

[Decatur Guy]

I would still say before. And frankly, if I know I'm going to be bottoming, I eat very lightly. Before he retired, I took Mr. Nate Bruno to a Southern favorite and as a top, he got to enjoy a big full plate of fried chicken and such. As the bottom, I had a dish of mashed potatoes and green peas.

 

The sacrifices one makes! LOL. (I'm sure some guys could eat a full meal, but for me, I've learned to eat lightly and blandly, if at all, before the deed).

[rvwnsd]

I typically prep before the start of the evening and eat lightly if a meal is to be eaten prior to having sex.

[+ quoththeraven]

This is why I prefer to have meals later on. Dinner first just doesn't make sense, and I'm not so self-sacrificing as to skimp on my own meal when I'm paying for someone else's.

 

Then again, being careful about what I eat and drink and making sure I carry Imodium with me is pretty much the extent of my prep. It's never been an issue during and only once the day after (a long ago, non-escort situation that taught me not to mix pizza and anal sex).

[mike carey]

One of Dan Savage's rules of thumb is, 'Fuck first'! Mainly because of the tendency to nod off after a meal, but for this reason as well!

[+ Charlie]

I never eat before sex, because I don't enjoy sex on a full stomach.

[whipped guy]

I also don't like that full feeling prior to play. As for prepping. I very seldom bottom and have never prepped for the occasion. I can't be bothered with all the bother. Plus there are so many other things that I enjoy more.

 

I only do it when the planets are properly aligned and there has never been a problem.

 

Fortunately I'm a very "regular" guy.

[kaboom35]

That would all stress me out. lol. Probably one of the reasons I meet with escorts just for sex and not for extended sessions that would include dinner.

[AdamSmith]

I must have Irritable Bowel Syndrome. I poop regularly and am always ready to get reamed.

[marylander1940]

I know that if a guy is coming over for a hook-up that involves getting fucked that I should prep an hour or so before he arrives. But what should I do if the tryst is preceded by a full evening -- dinner, say, followed by a play, a concert or a movie. When should I douche? Before the entire evening? That doesn't seem like it would work, and might lead to complications, or "unwanted messages," especially after a full dinner. And excusing myself for a bit once we're back at the apartment seems awkward. Advice?

 

If you prepare yourself to bottom and after that go a to long dinner... that preparation may have expired by then. Is up to you to choose on having sex before dinner, risking having an inconvenience if you have sex after dinner, or excusing yourself with your douche to the bathroom to get ready to have fun after dinner.

 

Is your choice, and your partner should be part of it.

[marylander1940]

I never eat before sex, because I don't enjoy sex on a full stomach.

 

That's a good choice, also if I eat before sex I don't have a salad or ethnic food full of fiber (Indian, Mexican, Thai, Chinese, etc)

[TruthBTold]

I'm in the no dinner before sex camp. I clean out as much as I need to to get a really good rimming even though I will be topping.

[Juan Vancouver]

But what should I do if the tryst is preceded by a full evening -- dinner, say, followed by a play, a concert or a movie. When should I douche? Before the entire evening? That doesn't seem like it would work, and might lead to complications, or "unwanted messages," especially after a full dinner. And excusing myself for a bit once we're back at the apartment seems awkward. Advice?

 

Douche thoroughly right before meeting him and take a small dose of Imodium. Don't do this is you have a tendency for constipation.

 

Eat, go to the theatre, live, laugh, enjoy.

 

When you come back excuse yourself before play and douche again. Should take very little time. Don't go deep, but make sure things are clean. After that, relax and foreplay for a half hour to make sure the remnant water gets absorbed by your body and have a blast.

 

Is it awkward to take a while to douche and brush your teeth after dinner? ABSOLUTELY NOT! Nothing nicer and sexier than a partner that is getting ready and prepared to sharing his body and making sure it's clean, tasty and fresh.

 

Porn has fucked up with our minds to such degree that we tend to feel inadequate when we are not fuck ready all the time. Our bodies are real bodies, subject to real rhythms and need real tender care. Understanding that this care is necessary and an important part of the sensual play is one of the sexiest things to share with a partner.

 

Also... it would be way more awkward if things got shitty. =)

 

Relax, it's supposed to be fun!

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

An escort I see regularly and I have a routine we follow most of the time we're together. If we're playing after dinner and show, we'll each take time to "get more comfortable." That includes cleaning up, mouth wash, and he's usually coming out in a new pair of briefs, jock strap, or wrestling singlet. SEXY!

 

However, there has been an occasion or two were I've perhaps had more than my standard two drink limit, and the front door is barely closed before we're undressing each other.

[+ purplekow]

That would all stress me out. lol. Probably one of the reasons I meet with escorts just for sex and not for extended sessions that would include dinner.

Could it really be you are just too cheap to spring for dinner?

[+ purplekow]

I never eat before sex, because I don't enjoy sex on a full stomach.

For me, full on not, the enjoyment of sex on full stomach is really related to whose stomach it is.

[Rudynate]

I never eat before sex, because I don't enjoy sex on a full stomach.

+1

[Rudynate]

I know that if a guy is coming over for a hook-up that involves getting fucked that I should prep an hour or so before he arrives. But what should I do if the tryst is preceded by a full evening -- dinner, say, followed by a play, a concert or a movie. When should I douche? Before the entire evening? That doesn't seem like it would work, and might lead to complications, or "unwanted messages," especially after a full dinner. And excusing myself for a bit once we're back at the apartment seems awkward. Advice?

 

After a thorough prep, it helps to take a dose of Imodium, It will slow the transit of food through your bowels and make your prep last longer.

[Juan Vancouver]

After a thorough prep, it helps to take a dose of Imodium, It will slow the transit of food through your bowels and make your prep last longer.

 

It's my personal experience that if you are going the imodium route, you should take it even an hour before you start douching. It takes a long time to work, and it will make your prep time shorter. But again, all bodies work differently.

[Decatur Guy]

Porn has fucked up with our minds to such degree that we tend to feel inadequate when we are not fuck ready all the time. Our bodies are real bodies, subject to real rhythms and need real tender care.

 

Also... it would be way more awkward if things got shitty. =)

 

Relax, it's supposed to be fun!

 

 

AMEN!

[Lankypeters]

If you believed what you see in porn, you could slide your ass down on a mortadella at a moment's notice, with no effort and go into immediate and long term ecstasy. Even the guys who do these scenes admit it's not as easy, or as fun, as it looks.

[JC954]

When should I douche?

 

Always before! Everything afterward is teamwork.

[Guest ChrisW]

First off never douche right before you meet someone you don't want water to get trapped in your intestines and have to run to the bathroom in the midst of fooling around. You also don't want to have to worry having the trots while your with your guest or while out on the town. Sometimes it can take about 30 min for water to come back out and it can come out with a vengeance.

 

If your hiring someone for an evening or have an extended play session do a VERY deep clean out. If your going to be getting fucked for more than 5 minutes there is no sense in ruining the sheets because your not prepared. As your doing a DEEP clean out the slurry coming out of you should be pretty foul smelling because its food that hasn't had a chance to digest. Once that happens I suggest doing few quick shots of water then take an imodium. I will give myself about an hour to wait for any excess water trapped in my GI track to get absorbed then do one more quick clean out and you are should be clean for about 12-24 hours.

 

A few quick tips

 

Don't rush your clean out thats a recipe for disaster

If your cleaning out on a regular basis take probiotics to restore the flora in your GI track

Use body temperature water so you don't shock your colon

Every person is different and has there own method for cleaning out so find what works for YOU. Your top will be very appreciative

[Guest ChrisW]

 

Porn has fucked up with our minds to such degree that we tend to feel inadequate when we are not fuck ready all the time. Our bodies are real bodies, subject to real rhythms and need real tender care. Understanding that this care is necessary and an important part of the sensual play is one of the sexiest things to share with a partner.

 

You may not be a porn star but you can still do a porn star clean out for the low low cost of $39.95

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[JC954]

......And never brush or floss immediately before oral sex. Ever.

 

It becomes a gateway behavior to a clinic visit, CVS and possibly even worse.