Guess you don't remember we fucked

[+ purplekow]

I am looking forward to the PS get together and there will be several escorts there with whom I have shared body fluids. I remember each of them. Some I have not seen in 5 or 6 years. I have no doubt I will remember them, but will they remember me? My question is for escorts: At a function such as this party, how do you handle the inevitable situation of having a client remind you that you already know each other when you have already made it clear that you do not remember him?

 

IF any this happens to me with any escort, feel free to make it up to me with a deep, long, languishing kiss.

[+ azdr0710]

sadly, one very well-respected escort didn't remember me last year at the pool party....we'd met once about three or four years earlier and he is very busy with clients, travel, and his own family....can you imagine?...the nerve of him!!!!

[+ purplekow]

sadly, one very well-respected escort didn't remember me last year at the pool party....we'd met once about three or four years earlier and he is very busy with clients, travel, and his own family....can you imagine?...the nerve of him!!!!

Did you let him know or let it go?

[+ azdr0710]

Did you let him know or let it go?

 

 

both!

[leeper]

I always assume they don't remember me. In fact, when I meet someone I have hired in a subsequent social situation (generally a forum gathering) I lead with "I don't expect you to remember me, but we ……". Of course it depends on how much time has passed. In the grand scheme of things, I just don't consider myself to be all that memorable, so when I say that I don't expect them to remember, I really mean it.

[+ Gar1eth]

sadly, one very well-respected escort didn't remember me last year at the pool party....we'd met once about three or four years earlier and he is very busy with clients, travel, and his own family....can you imagine?...the nerve of him!!!!

 

When I was in high school a group of us were out to lunch one day. The group included the daughter of a dentist. My dentist whom I had gone to since the age of 6 happened to come into the shop-said hello to Melissa (the dentist's daughter) and said nothing to me. I was mildly upset-and went home and complained to my Mom. She told me patients look different outside the office. So in a like fashion, I'm sure clients may look different outside a hotel room/bedroom. Depending on how often I had seen the escort in question, I probably wouldn't be very upset if they couldn't remember me-unless maybe I had spent one or more weekends with them. But even when I have emailed an escort, unless I've seen them fairly recently, I try to remember to remind them where we met.

 

Gman

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

At the DC luncheon, as an escort I had not seen in several years was being introduced to a group of us sitting at a table. I shook his hand and said, "Hi, I'm Sam. Good to see you again." I figured he might not immediately remember me, but if I was upfront we had at least met once before, I wouldn't be sitting there trying to figure out if he remembered me.

 

Turns out he did and we had a good chat to catch up.

[nate_sf]

I always assume they don't remember me. In fact, when I meet someone I have hired in a subsequent social situation (generally a forum gathering) I lead with "I don't expect you to remember me, but we ……". Of course it depends on how much time has passed. In the grand scheme of things, I just don't consider myself to be all that memorable, so when I say that I don't expect them to remember, I really mean it.

 

I think this applies to lots of situations, not just unique gatherings like the forum get-togethers. People's appearances can change quite a bit over time, more than they might realize, so if it's been a while and the context has changed it can be hard to make the connection even if there was fucking last time. Even wearing glasses can throw someone off, let alone clothes.

 

But the idea of assuming they might not remember reminds me of the character Phoebe on 30 Rock, the woman who worked in the art gallery and would meekly introduce herself to Liz Lemon anew each and every time they met. Eventually an exasperated Liz remarked that she did indeed know who Phoebe was - but then again who could forget someone who has avian bone syndrome?

[RadioRob]

For me, it's nothing personal... I meet dozens of people per day for work. I'm also horrible with names as I'm lucky to ember my own sometimes.

 

I don't expect someone to remember me. I might bring it up that we've met and the high level circumstances but by no means would I be offended/upset.

[marylander1940]

sadly, one very well-respected escort didn't remember me last year at the pool party....we'd met once about three or four years earlier and he is very busy with clients, travel, and his own family....can you imagine?...the nerve of him!!!!

 

successful guys sometimes see 10 guys per week, maybe even more. Guys they see on a trip or locals who hire them once per month are more likely to be remembered.

[gallahadesquire]

Occasionally, I would run into someone that I worked with. Everyone wore scrubs in the O.R.; and everyone looks different in civies.

 

More than once, I said "Oh! I didn't recognize you with your clothes on!"

[+ azdr0710]

successful guys sometimes see 10 guys per week, maybe even more. Guys they see on a trip or locals who hire them once per month are more likely to be remembered.

 

I certainly know that, maryland.....I was being sarcastic about that guy remembering me

[+ Charlie]

My spouse and a tennis friend of mine have met socially several times. Each time they introduce themselves to one another, and have the same lively conversation in which they exchange the same information, both with no memory that they have ever met before. I can predict exactly which stories they will tell one another. I no longer try to remind them of their previous meetings.

 

I generally have a very good memory for people with whom I have had (ahem!) "relations." However, one day many years ago my brother-in-law brought home his new boyfriend, who greeted me as an old acquaintance, mentioning a close friend of mine at whose home we had apparently met. I had absolutely no memory of ever having met the man before. I had to fake it until I got a chance to scurry off and consult my daily journal for the date six months earlier when he indicated we had met. To my surprise, it contained an account of the fabulous time we had together, in lurid detail, of which I had only the haziest recollection. Sometimes a journal can be very useful.

[dcguy20]

In our eyes, we think we remain the same, yet in reality we change, especially for those who don't see us so often. I learned a valuable lesson years ago about this. There was someone I had been friends with when I first moved to NYC in the late 80s. We would run into each other from time to time during my years there, but once I moved to DC, we were no longer in touch. Several years ago he was in a Broadway show. After seeing his show, I waited at the stage door to say hi. Well I went up to him and started talking to him as if I had seen him yesterday, when in fact it had been a few years. He was not engaged at all, and I noticed he didn't address me by name, or anything. It was a rather short conversation, and I was a bit put off by that. It was only when I returned to DC, that I realized that he was trying to figure out who I was without any help from me. So now when I see someone I haven't seen in some time, I make a point of saying my name.

[+ sync]

I am the worst. At one place of employment, every morning for a year I exchanged greetings with the receptionist sitting at her desk. One afternoon I saw her standing away from her desk and had no idea who she was.

[Guest Starbuck]

... feel free to make it up to me with a deep, long, languishing kiss.

 

Would it be too forward to initiate the kiss ... "Hey, Handsome, great to see you again!" ... followed by a long tonsil-tickling? Think of the embarrassment you could save any number of men with busy schedules and poor memories.

[+ purplekow]

Would it be too forward to initiate the kiss ... "Hey, Handsome, great to see you again!" ... followed by a long tonsil-tickling? Think of the embarrassment you could save any number of men with busy schedules and poor memories.

You are so right. It would be the courteous thing to do. I feel obligated to do so now. I am red with embarrassment that I had not considered this previously.

[marylander1940]

I certainly know that, maryland.....I was being sarcastic about that guy remembering me

 

I know, we agree on the subject! Sometimes sarcasm isn't clear, LOL

[Guest Starbuck]

Would it be too forward to initiate the kiss ... "Hey, Handsome, great to see you again!" ... followed by a long tonsil-tickling? Think of the embarrassment you could save any number of men with busy schedules and poor memories.

 

If that approach works for you, PK, why not greet ALL the escorts that way--whether you’ve met them or not. (Some will remember you … some may have forgotten you … some will think they’ve forgotten you.) I know, I know … it’s a lot of public smooching … and in some circles that could make you look, well … slutty. But in our little world, it just makes you THE MAN!

[jimboivyo]

successful guys sometimes see 10 guys per week, maybe even more. Guys they see on a trip or locals who hire them once per month are more likely to be remembered.

 

I disagree. successful guys don't need to see 10 folks a week

 

they see a small group of clients who repeat frequently and take very good care of the escort

[marylander1940]

I disagree. successful guys don't need to see 10 folks a week

 

they see a small group of clients who repeat frequently and take very good care of the escort

 

They may not need to see 10 guys a week (1,4 guys per day), but if they're home, done with the gym, walking on the street, and get a call from a hotel from a John Doe who wants to see now or later, why the fuck not?

 

As we all know escorts have busy days and days where nobody calls. "Every day is different, it's impossible to predict".

 

250, 300, or 400 dollars more in his life won't make him wealthier, but that might be the only call an escort gets that day till the next billionaire flies him for a 7 day cruise for 12.000. Obviously that doesn't happen every month, it might happen every other month.

 

Let's do the math, 1 John Doe per day for 300 each day of a 30 day month is 9.000... I wouldn't turn down that money unless I can't do it because I'm on the ship with a billionaire and I'm just not free, I'm booked up with one of my many billionaires. I would tell John Doe (many of us are in that category) "sorry, I'm busy but I'll be back home in a week".

 

We all have space in our pocket for some extra bills, don't we? Specially if the escort has a cellphone and is home and free.

 

Obviously nothing is better than a guy taking an escort on a trip and paying him 10 grand for 3 or 4 days, but even if that happens every single month on an escort's working life time of 10 or 15 years, if he's home and free or visiting another town and someone calls for now or later, he'd better be grateful God gave him looks and good genes, take a shower, swallow 1/4 Viagra and gave that stranger some fun in exchange for his money. Just do it... unless the billionaire calls at that moment.

 

It's called work ethic, if you get a call and you're free and you ain't tired, just do it. I'd rather have 250, 300, 400 extra in my wallet than not, even if I know I'll have 12k by next Monday, why not having 12.300 in my wallet instead of just 12.000? You can always watch "Game of Thrones" later.

[anotherjohnindupont]

They may not need to see 10 guys a week (1,4 guys per day), but if they're home, done with the gym, walking on the street, and get a call from a hotel from a John Doe who wants to see now or later, why the fuck not?

 

As we all know escorts have busy days and days where nobody calls. "Every day is different, it's impossible to predict".

 

250, 300, or 400 dollars more in his life won't make him wealthier, but that might be the only call an escort gets that day till the next billionaire flies him for a 7 day cruise for 12.000. Obviously that doesn't happen every month, it might happen every other month.

 

Let's do the math, 1 John Doe per day for 300 each day of a 30 day month is 9.000... I wouldn't turn down that money unless I can't do it because I'm on the ship with a billionaire and I'm just not free, I'm booked up with one of my many billionaires. I would tell John Doe (many of us are in that category) "sorry, I'm busy but I'll be back home in a week".

 

We all have space in our pocket for some extra bills, don't we? Specially if the escort has a cellphone and is home and free.

 

Obviously nothing is better than a guy taking an escort on a trip and paying him 10 grand for 3 or 4 days, but even if that happens every single month on an escort's working life time of 10 or 15 years, if he's home and free or visiting another town and someone calls for now or later, he'd better be grateful God gave him looks and good genes, take a shower, swallow 1/4 Viagra and gave that stranger some fun in exchange for his money. Just do it... unless the billionaire calls at that moment.

 

It's called work ethic, if you get a call and you're free and you ain't tired, just do it. I'd rather have 250, 300, 400 extra in my wallet than not, even if I know I'll have 12k by next Monday, why not having 12.300 in my wallet instead of just 12.000? You can always watch "Game of Thrones" later.

 

That sounds more like being greedy! I disagree with you.

[gallahadesquire]

My spouse and a tennis friend of mine have met socially several times. Each time they introduce themselves to one another, and have the same lively conversation in which they exchange the same information, both with no memory that they have ever met before. I can predict exactly which stories they will tell one another. I no longer try to remind them of their previous meetings.

 

I generally have a very good memory for people with whom I have had (ahem!) "relations." However, one day many years ago my brother-in-law brought home his new boyfriend, who greeted me as an old acquaintance, mentioning a close friend of mine at whose home we had apparently met. I had absolutely no memory of ever having met the man before. I had to fake it until I got a chance to scurry off and consult my daily journal for the date six months earlier when he indicated we had met. To my surprise, it contained an account of the fabulous time we had together, in lurid detail, of which I had only the haziest recollection. Sometimes a journal can be very useful.

 

"I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train.”

― Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest

[jimboivyo]

They may not need to see 10 guys a week (1,4 guys per day), but if they're home, done with the gym, walking on the street, and get a call from a hotel from a John Doe who wants to see now or later, why the fuck not?

 

As we all know escorts have busy days and days where nobody calls. "Every day is different, it's impossible to predict".

 

250, 300, or 400 dollars more in his life won't make him wealthier, but that might be the only call an escort gets that day till the next billionaire flies him for a 7 day cruise for 12.000. Obviously that doesn't happen every month, it might happen every other month.

 

Let's do the math, 1 John Doe per day for 300 each day of a 30 day month is 9.000... I wouldn't turn down that money unless I can't do it because I'm on the ship with a billionaire and I'm just not free, I'm booked up with one of my many billionaires. I would tell John Doe (many of us are in that category) "sorry, I'm busy but I'll be back home in a week".

 

We all have space in our pocket for some extra bills, don't we? Specially if the escort has a cellphone and is home and free.

 

Obviously nothing is better than a guy taking an escort on a trip and paying him 10 grand for 3 or 4 days, but even if that happens every single month on an escort's working life time of 10 or 15 years, if he's home and free or visiting another town and someone calls for now or later, he'd better be grateful God gave him looks and good genes, take a shower, swallow 1/4 Viagra and gave that stranger some fun in exchange for his money. Just do it... unless the billionaire calls at that moment.

 

It's called work ethic, if you get a call and you're free and you ain't tired, just do it. I'd rather have 250, 300, 400 extra in my wallet than not, even if I know I'll have 12k by next Monday, why not having 12.300 in my wallet instead of just 12.000? You can always watch "Game of Thrones" later.

 

I disagree with all of this. this is called foolishness and greed

 

it could be that one hourly that the condom breaks and you contract something bad. escorting is a numbers game. the less risk you take with the fewer folks, the better. the truly smart escorts know that and are wise about work

 

the tone of your reply is condescending to both escorts and clients alike. they are not objects who just ingest a viagra and fuck like paid rabbits. they are people, with feeling and humanity

[marylander1940]

They may not need to see 10 guys a week (1,4 guys per day), but if they're home, done with the gym, walking on the street, and get a call from a hotel from a John Doe who wants to see now or later, why the fuck not?

 

As we all know escorts have busy days and days where nobody calls. "Every day is different, it's impossible to predict".

 

250, 300, or 400 dollars more in his life won't make him wealthier, but that might be the only call an escort gets that day till the next billionaire flies him for a 7 day cruise for 12.000. Obviously that doesn't happen every month, it might happen every other month.

 

Let's do the math, 1 John Doe per day for 300 each day of a 30 day month is 9.000... I wouldn't turn down that money unless I can't do it because I'm on the ship with a billionaire and I'm just not free, I'm booked up with one of my many billionaires. I would tell John Doe (many of us are in that category) "sorry, I'm busy but I'll be back home in a week".

 

We all have space in our pocket for some extra bills, don't we? Specially if the escort has a cellphone and is home and free.

 

Obviously nothing is better than a guy taking an escort on a trip and paying him 10 grand for 3 or 4 days, but even if that happens every single month on an escort's working life time of 10 or 15 years, if he's home and free or visiting another town and someone calls for now or later, he'd better be grateful God gave him looks and good genes, take a shower, swallow 1/4 Viagra and gave that stranger some fun in exchange for his money. Just do it... unless the billionaire calls at that moment.

 

It's called work ethic, if you get a call and you're free and you ain't tired, just do it. I'd rather have 250, 300, 400 extra in my wallet than not, even if I know I'll have 12k by next Monday, why not having 12.300 in my wallet instead of just 12.000? You can always watch "Game of Thrones" later.

 

Do you ever have a good day in your life?

 

Condescending, huh?

 

I disagree with all of this. this is called foolishness and greed

 

Even when you agree with someone you sound angry at him. Greed? It's sex (company) for money, a lot of money.

 

it could be that one hourly that the condom breaks and you contract something bad. escorting is a numbers game. the less risk you take with the fewer folks, the better. the truly smart escorts know that and are wise about work

 

The condom could break on the monthly 1 week trip for 12k when the client has sex with the escort twice per day. What would you assume a John Doe calling the escort for an hour $250/300 is the time when the condom is more likely to break. A number's game, "condom up" yourself.

 

the tone of your reply is condescending to both escorts and clients alike. they are not objects who just ingest a viagra and fuck like paid rabbits. they are people, with feeling and humanity

 

Really I didn't know that escorts and clients like you and me are humans...

 

Not needing guys calling you for an outcall or incall and depending on some regulars taking you out to trips every single month makes you more human. I know that for the SCJ free speech=money, but for your a few wealthy regulars makes them and the escorts they hire more human.

 

I'm sorry but this time you've outdone yourself in your negativity.

 

That sounds more like being greedy! I disagree with you.

 

It's called work ethic and using his working age for good as long as the escorts save the money.