Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[Greg Smart]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

[+ RyanDean]

I find that I much prefer to meet guys over 30.

[Guest RexB]

In my book 35 and up is the prime age for a man, and as long as he is in shape my preference is to hire guys that age. Being over 35 is far from being damaged goods. It's when the goods are at their best.

[Juan Vancouver]

Yes, they do. A lot.

 

I find that the times have changed; when I started escorting what people often praised and commented on when discussing escorts in general was their youth. Now I find that more and more people value experience, confidence, skills, masculinity and a special kind of fitness that can only happen after a certain age. The market for the mature, not self-centred escort is booming, but as with everything, what really matters is that you are passionate about the quality you consistently deliver and that you love your work.

 

If you are fit, if you have taken care of yourself well, if you are not jaded or broken, if you are not exhausted by he job (which can happen to many) then I can assure you people won't see you as damaged goods, but as a special delicacy.

 

Sure, there's still some folks who crave college kids, but that should not be anything you worry about. People like a lot of things. Focus on what you can offer, do it passionately, be healthy and present and you are going to have a riot.

[Diverdan]

Juan has said it very well. I doubt that you are a damaged product, Greg, so next time you go someplace, run an ad a week or so before you go. You will probably be thrilled by the response. Mature guys have a lot to offer that goes beyond "youth"...

[whipped guy]

You ain't damaged goods... You are barely broken in!!! The best guys out there have indeed "aged" a bit... Something analogous to a fine wine. Clients are looking for a man... and you are in that prime time when a man... a real man... comes of age...

[big-n-tall]

Yes, they do. Juan is spot on.

 

Personally, most of the escorts I have seen are slightly older or slightly younger than I am (averaging I guess about 5-7 years each way). If I find a person sexy or just fun to be around... I'm in.

[olympus]

The answer is yes. First, by preference. Second, because many escorts who claim that they are in their twenties are actually your age or quite a bit older.

[loverboy95]

I find older men to be very attractive so I would love to hire more escorts who are 30 or older.

[Doe Be Doe]

Yes. And if you're ever in NY let me know. I'd hire you!

[rvwnsd]

With one or two notable exceptions, the guys I hire are all over 30 and mostly over 35. One of the sexiest men I have ever met is this guy:

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=579922

 

Check out his age.

[whipped guy]

The answer is yes. First, by preference. Second, because many escorts who claim that they are in their twenties are actually your age or quite a bit older.

And one more thought...

 

Many who advertise that they are in their thirties are actually in their forties... or even beyond!!! At times way beyond!!! As long as you take care of yourself the sky is the limit!

[+ bigjoey]

Absolutely! "Older" men are often more mature and not "flakes" like some of the younger men. The have more experience and know how to please a man. They seem to have fewer hang ups and are more at ease with themselves and know how to put a client at ease. Their bodies can be amazing as long as they continue to work on them and are often in better shape than some of the young men who do not hit the gym as much. I prefer "older" men and have been fortunate to meet some great ones.

[TruHart1]

Yes, they do. A lot.

 

I find that the times have changed; when I started escorting what people often praised and commented on when discussing escorts in general was their youth. Now I find that more and more people value experience, confidence, skills, masculinity and a special kind of fitness that can only happen after a certain age. The market for the mature, not self-centred escort is booming, but as with everything, what really matters is that you are passionate about the quality you consistently deliver and that you love your work.

 

If you are fit, if you have taken care of yourself well, if you are not jaded or broken, if you are not exhausted by he job (which can happen to many) then I can assure you people won't see you as damaged goods, but as a special delicacy.

 

Sure, there's still some folks who crave college kids, but that should not be anything you worry about. People like a lot of things. Focus on what you can offer, do it passionately, be healthy and present and you are going to have a riot.

 

You ain't damaged goods... You are barely broken in!!! The best guys out there have indeed "aged" a bit... Something analogous to a fine wine. Clients are looking for a man... and you are in that prime time when a man... a real man... comes of age...

 

Juan, as always, has the definitive answer for you, along with most everyone else who has posted encouraging answers here for you Greg! Some of the best escorts in the business are in the 35 to 50+ year range age-wise. I agree, if you have kept in shape since you retired, there is definitely a market out here for you! My best wishes for your successful return, if that is what you desire, Greg!

 

TruHart1

[curiousnomore]

Most of the men I've hired were in their 30s. The oldest, 37, was one of my best experiences. I say, go for it. There are a lot of us who like a mature man.

[gp0560]

Two words: Dane Scott.

[gallahadesquire]

Yes. And if you're ever in NY let me know. I'd hire you!

 

Or in New England. Or can we just import you?

[dannyboynyc]

I generally don't hire anyone with an "Internet" age under 30. I much prefer older guys. I've hired (and will hire) guys in their 50s. My experience with guys in the 20's (in general - there are exceptions) is they're not as comfortable with being an escort, meeting all sorts of guys, being fun than are older guys.

[bigvalboy]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

My concern is this part of your statement. I think it is important to find some balance your life. Working and building a business is fine, but not at the cost of socially isolating yourself. I don't know enough about you to offer suggestions, other than to say that you don't sound happy, and only you know if that is truly the case. If I'm off base, feel free to ignore, if however there is some truth, then I would encourage you to think about putting yourself out there and allowing sometime in your life to include others. Good luck....

[+ WmClarke]

My best sessions have all been with guys in their 30s and up to late 40s.

 

The younger guys weren't bad--the older guys have just been better.

[+ purplekow]

To answer the question, YES YES YES Who needs a twenty something newbie fumbling around with my cock with one hand and texting his mother with the other. I want a man who is someone, knows who that some is and is damned proud of tthat. I want a man who has seen things I have not seen, who has been to places that I have not been and who can, sexually, show me things I have not seen and take me to places I have not been. I want fuck around with a man not a boy and I want him a bit grizzled a bit wizened and a bit wiser and a bit smarter than the average bear. (I want him to get that last reference)

Another interesting point and worth a different thread I think is that we usually think of clients as hiring to help fill a void in their social life, but here we have an escort who is saying that escorting filled a void in his social life. Discuss.

[Zman]

Yes men over 35 or even over 45 can offer some of the best escort experiences out there. Experience and the soft skills of understanding and pleasing clients often improve with age.

 

And, of course, if you're lucky enough to be hung like a horse, you'll still have that going for you at any age;).

[+ dutchmuch]

And one more thought...

 

Many who advertise that they are in their thirties are actually in their forties... or even beyond!!! At times way beyond!!! As long as you take care of yourself the sky is the limit!

 

Yup, and those in their 30's advertise as 20'something surfers.

And they wonder why some of us are cynical.

 

(BTW, I see a escort who is 45 years old. Silver tips in his hair now apparent, he is good and honest!)

[mlscott]

Definitely prefer guys 30+ (actually 35-40). That's why I prefer Rentmen to Rentboy. As the name suggests there tend to be older guys who actually show their age. As the saying goes..... "Like fine wine.....some things improve with age"

[needbodywork]

Yup, and those in their 30's advertise as 20'something surfers.

And they wonder why some of us are cynical.

 

(BTW, I see a escort who is 45 years old. Silver tips in his hair now apparent, he is good and honest!)

 

Theres guys in their 40s advertising as 20s!

 

30ish to 45 is my favorite age. That's when men are hottest. I think overall the data will show that men in that age range are the most popular.